making mistakes does not mean that you are no longer entitled to gentleness

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making mistakes does not mean that you are no longer entitled to gentleness
“Get a rat and put it in a cage and give it two water bottles. One is just water, and one is water laced with either heroin or cocaine. If you do that, the rat will almost always prefer the drugged water and almost always kill itself very quickly, right, within a couple of weeks. So there you go. It’s our theory of addiction. Bruce comes along in the ‘70s and said, “Well, hang on a minute. We’re putting the rat in an empty cage. It’s got nothing to do. Let’s try this a little bit differently.” So Bruce built Rat Park, and Rat Park is like heaven for rats. Everything your rat about town could want, it’s got in Rat Park. It’s got lovely food. It’s got sex. It’s got loads of other rats to be friends with. It’s got loads of colored balls. Everything your rat could want. And they’ve got both the water bottles. They’ve got the drugged water and the normal water. But here’s the fascinating thing. In Rat Park, they don’t like the drugged water. They hardly use any of it. None of them ever overdose. None of them ever use in a way that looks like compulsion or addiction. There’s a really interesting human example I’ll tell you about in a minute, but what Bruce says is that shows that both the right-wing and left-wing theories of addiction are wrong. So the right-wing theory is it’s a moral failing, you’re a hedonist, you party too hard. The left-wing theory is it takes you over, your brain is hijacked. Bruce says it’s not your morality, it’s not your brain; it’s your cage. Addiction is largely an adaptation to your environment. […] We’ve created a society where significant numbers of our fellow citizens cannot bear to be present in their lives without being drugged, right? We’ve created a hyperconsumerist, hyperindividualist, isolated world that is, for a lot of people, much more like that first cage than it is like the bonded, connected cages that we need. The opposite of addiction is not sobriety. The opposite of addiction is connection. And our whole society, the engine of our society, is geared towards making us connect with things. If you are not a good consumer capitalist citizen, if you’re spending your time bonding with the people around you and not buying stuff—in fact, we are trained from a very young age to focus our hopes and our dreams and our ambitions on things we can buy and consume. And drug addiction is really a subset of that.”
— Johann Hari, Does Capitalism Drive Drug Addiction?
being a human is so annoying all i do is spend money and be sad
The feminine urge to say "literally" in every sentence
dating someone who can stay kind even during fights is very important
People: It’s ok to be mentally ill!
*symptoms show in front of them*
People: What the fuck was that
things to normalize:
• having no friends
• spending most of your time/weekends at home
• not wanting to do drugs or drink alcohol
• being single
• struggling with your mental health
• not knowing how to drive or not wanting to drive
• living at home with family
• not wanting children
• not wanting to get married
• going to therapy
• never being in a relationship
• being a virgin
• not being okay/happy all the time
• men being in touch with their emotions/being able to openly express their emotions
• body hair on women
• ethnic features
• introverts/naturally quiet people
• doing things alone/by yourself
• not going to college or a prestigious school
• not wearing any makeup
i don’t want a job i want to read good books and drink good coffee and get kissed on the neck
I want someone to love me the way men love in books
i’m so strong and brave for being a woman in her twenties
love having an anxiety disorder. i feel terrified like im dying and im just sitting here. its like going to a haunted house with free admission but its inside my mind
advocate for weird and pathetic girls
#done
“I’m much happier at 53 than I was at 23.” (x)
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