am i cringefail? the answer is yes

random blog just because nblnb enjoyer because that is my life WARNING: this blog gets saucy (nsfw / nsft) sometimes [any pronouns because gender does not exist to me]

[covid-safer-hotties]

Report underscores death toll of health care-related infections

Infections acquired in health care settings kill 3 times more people than car accidents each year.

They won't mask. They won't wash their hands. They won't take the mitigation of communicable disease seriously in their own practices. What's the use of doctors who won't do anything to keep you from catching what their last patient was in for?

[hoodieanon]

Tfw you're thinking about your partner and start tearing up simply over the thought of cuddling with them because you love being the big spoon and they just fit so very comfortably in your arms

And yes they are happy tears because you love them so much

[hoodieanon]

When you gotta give them reminders so they know they're appreciated

[hoodieanon]

Blushing at the realization that I actually like when my partner randomly licks me because autism

[hoodieanon]

Also them biting me too? Even if it's just in the arm?

Adorable.

Amazing.

I absolutely love it.

And i love them and their weird little but cute ways of showing affection outside of hugging and kissing.

[hoodieanon]

Blushing at the realization that I actually like when my partner randomly licks me because autism

[coffing-deactivated20220824]

would you woohoo me on sims yes or no

[hoodieanon]

The more I talk about my relationship with my partner to my therapist, the more validated I feel with outside confirmation that we do have a healthy relationship.

Healthy communication? Check.

Being there for each other even when we're both down? Check.

Checking in on each other's needs? Check.

Expressing gratitude for each other every once in a while? Check.

Communicating that we love each other even if we think we messed up? Check.

Encouraging each other to pursue the things we want? Check.

They just. Make me so happy. I've noticed how much things have turned for the better since I met them, and anytime I've talked about them the people around me even seem to notice my happy tone. Aaaaaaaaa i just wanna be with them all the time.

[mlm-blues]

can everyone ship me and my boyfriend thanks

[hoodieanon]

I do already

[fandomsandfeminism]

Grief is so fucking wild. It sinks into your muscles, forces itself to be felt. It steals your appetite, floods your brain with cortisol. It makes you so, so tired.

If someone you know is grieving, telling them "just let me know what I can do" means nothing. They can't. They don't know. And the small things are too embarrassing to ask for.

Bring them a cheese platter. Pre-Cut fruit. Peanut butter pretzels. Protein shakes (like slimfast) Food that requires no prep and does not create dishes.

Do the dishes. Take out the trash. Sweep the floor. Vacuum the carpet. They won't ask you to do this, but it will help.

A bottle of acetaminophen honestly might help more than flowers. Grief really can cause muscle aches.

[hoodieanon]

[mortalityplays]

one of the most important things, perhaps the most important thing I have learned in my life is that nice people can fuck each other up in monstrous ways. people can be bone deep kind and loving and self reflective and still lash out under pressure. people can be earnestly neighbourly and charitable and hospitable and generous and still find themselves in situations where they become selfish. people can be well meaning and easygoing and gregarious and hold deep seated opinions that turn them into vicious little bullies under the right conditions. nobody is just one thing, and nobody stays one way. every person is a kaleidoscope and they will surprise you. you will surprise yourself. it's not a warning and it's not a judgement and it's not an excuse, and it's certainly not a reason to stop trying or to stop trusting. it is just a fact.

[hoodieanon]

A spin on an old classic

[gouinisme]

learning a lot about men on the dash today

[adyearningsincebc]

Grabbing his hips super tight and pulling him close to me, staring at him as if he's a piece of meat I'm about to devour

And then just kissing him all over his face

[boysboysboysoughhh]

mfghhh need

[hoodieanon]

Sucks having tonsillitis and not being able to makeout with my partner...

[animentality]

[molsno]

the fact that estrogen can just make the penis act like a clitoris will never fail to impress me because it shows just how much of an effect hormones have on our bodies. however the fact that hardly anyone talks about this and instead expects all girl dick to act like cis guy dick is very bleak. it's also exactly in line with how misogyny demands the mystification women's genitals and bodies in order to strip women of their own autonomy and subjectivity more generally, because that's exactly what it is. you aren't supposed to acknowledge the biological realities of transfeminine bodies, because in order to benefit from transmisogyny you must deny us our humanity by living in ignorance about us and casting us strictly into the realm of "sex object"