Guided Masturbation #3: Let’s Make You Squirt
This guided masturbation is aimed at beginners, girls who want to learn to squirt. But nothing says you can’t follow this script even if you are already able to squirt. If you are a beginner, I suggest you read the information guide, Learning to Squirt, before beginning this guided masturbation script.
Learning to squirt unfortunately is not just a simple matter of mechanically following a set of instructions. You must first take the necessary time to get yourself very aroused before beginning to do the techniques that will hopefully allow you to squirt for the first time. So that is where we will start.
Choose a time for this guided masturbation where you have adequate time and privacy to devote to completing it for the best chance at success. Make sure you are properly hydrated.
1) To get yourself started read some erotica, watch some porn, or fantasize about something or someone that turns you on. Remain dressed for this part so that you aren’t tempted to immediately start touching and rubbing things. This is just the preliminaries. Your mind is what we are aiming to engage at the moment to help you start feeling aroused.
You can spend as much or as little time on this portion as you choose. You’re the expert when it comes to knowing when you feel sexually aroused and turned on so go with that. But there are some guidelines I want you to follow. By the time you decide you have had enough of this preliminary warmup and are ready to continue, you should be noticeably wet and you should really be feeling a strong urge to touch your pussy. When you feel you are at that point, continue to the next step.
2) Now it’s time to get undressed. Remove everything including undies. Now is a good time to go to the toilet and to urinate if you can so that you start with an empty bladder. I also recommend you use a towel or two to protect the surface you are going to play on. It varies from girl to girl but the volume of squirt for some girls can be quite impressive. Now lie down on your back and make yourself comfortable. It’s time to start touching but we aren’t going to jump directly to your pussy and clit. That comes later.
3) Let’s start with your breasts. As eager as you may feel to start masturbating, for now we want to keep building up your arousal. Start by slowly rubbing, massaging, and squeezing your breasts. Spend some time playing with your nipples―pulling on them, twisting them, and squeezing them between your thumb and forefinger. Focus on your breasts first before going to the nipples. After playing with your nipples go back to your breasts for a bit, and then back to your nipples. Listen to your body and after some exploring, hone in on the part of your breasts where the stimulation feels the best and is really turning you on.
Again, I’m not going to give you a specific time guideline here. Just focus on your breasts and nipples until that urge to touch your pussy and clit starts to feel overpowering. When you feel you are at that point continue to the next step.
4) Now slide your hands over your skin from your breasts, down your tummy, over your mound, and down to your thighs. No touching your pussy at all just yet. Spend some time massaging and gently rubbing your thighs. Rub and massage the tops of your thighs and then move to your inner thighs. Alternate from top to inner thighs and back again. Listen to your body here too and start concentrating on the areas where the stimulation of your hands and fingers feel most sensitive and pleasurable.
Keep doing this for several minutes until you start feeling even more urgently that urge to touch your pussy and clit. By that point you should really be aware of your clit. It should be hard and sensitive and may feel like it is throbbing just a bit. Your pussy should feel puffy and sensitive and yearning for your touch. Don’t get impatient. This slow build up is all part of the plan to make your orgasm later much more intense and powerful when you eventually do cum. When you feel you are there, continue to the next step.
5) Allow your hands now to slide down your inner thighs to your pussy. But don’t touch your clit yet. Instead I want you to focus on your outer labia, your pussy lips. Lightly trail a finger or two over those soft, fleshy folds of skin on either side of your vagina. Don’t neglect that silky soft crevice between your outer lips. Most women find that rubbing their labia in this manner makes them even wetter and more turned on. Spend a few minutes here and then continue.
6) Your fingers should now be covered in your natural wetness. Press the tip of a finger into your vagina. As you push your finger in and out, it will get covered in more and more of your wetness. Slowly run the tip of your finger along the inner walls of your vagina paying attention to what feels most pleasurable. There’s no single right way to finger your pussy. Do what you find the most pleasurable and satisfying. After a few minutes of exploring, move on to the next step.
7) Now it’s finally time to touch your clit. You should be feeling really hot and turned on now and your clit aching to be touched. Start by lightly rubbing it with a finger or two in a circular motion. After several circles, still touching lightly rub your fingertips back and forth over your clit. Now try rubbing your clit in an up and down motion. Decide which feels best unless you already know what you prefer. Then start adjusting the pressure and speed to what really feels satisfying and pleasurable. Push yourself towards the edge of orgasm now, but unlike usual edging don’t go too far with it. Just continue until you have a sense that you are starting to get closer to orgasm and then go to the next step.
8) Now I want you to focus on your G-spot. Move you hand back down to your vaginal opening. With your palm laying on your pussy, push your middle finger and ring finger inside your pussy. Find your G-spot and start gently massaging it while your hand is in the position described. If you aren’t completely sure where your G-spot is, it is 1-3 inches inside your opening on the upper wall of your vagina towards the front of your body. One way you know when you are touching it is it feels very pleasurable, more so than other parts of your vagina. Also the surface while soft, is in a sense rough. Some women describe it as feeling like the roof of their mouth. Others describe it as feeling like the surface of a sponge or a ripe raspberry. Since it is close to the bladder you will also likely notice that pressing on the G-spot makes you feel sort of like you need to pee.
Once you are confident you have found your G-spot you are going to use a number of different ways to massage and stimulate it. First use pressure. Press down on your pussy with your palm while you press up and out against your G-spot with your fingertips inside you almost as if you were trying to touch your palm with your fingertips.
Now maintaining the amount of pressure that feels pleasurable to you press against your G-spot in a “come here” motion. What I mean here is sometimes when we want to get someone’s attention we hold a finger out towards them with our palm up and then bend and wiggle the finger back and forth in a “come here” motion.
Now, again keeping pressure on your G-spot with your fingers, quickly move your fingers in and out in “fucking” motion. Finally, try pressing on your G-spot while moving your fingers in a side to side motion. Experiment with all these techniques and then settle on the one you feel gives you the most intense, most pleasurable stimulation.
9) Once you have settled on the technique or techniques that feel best to you, just keep going. From this point on you must continue constantly stimulating your G-spot. If it feels intense enough and pleasurable enough, try to push yourself to orgasm with just the G-spot stimulation alone. But after a while if you don’t feel you are going to be able to cum from that alone, using your other hand, start rubbing your clit too. Just don’t stop the G-spot stimulation because if you are going to squirt, that is the most important part.
Keep going. Keep pushing yourself to the edge of orgasm, the point where orgasm becomes inevitable and then keep going until you fall over the edge and cum.
Hopefully when you cum you will also squirt. Squirting relies on the buildup and release of pressure. As your Skene’s gland enlarges the pressure will build and you will naturally feel like releasing the pressure. Since the pressure is emptied through your urethra it will naturally feel a bit like peeing when you squirt. There is simply no way to avoid this “I’m peeing” feeling so once you start getting that feeling that you need to release the pressure you have to consciously make yourself let go and be okay with what’s about to happen. This is the point that is often the final hurdle that some women fail to ever cross when it comes to squirting. You have to let go and release the pressure to squirt.
If you followed this entire guide and felt some or most of the sensations described but when you reached orgasm you didn’t squirt, don’t freak out and don’t despair. I’m confident that at least you got a very pleasurable orgasm for your efforts. Sometimes it just doesn’t happen the first time. If it’s something you really want to learn to do then just keep practicing. If you don’t want to repeat this entire guided masturbation script again, just incorporate the G-spot stimulation techniques into your regular masturbation sessions. Unless you happen to be one of the very small percentage of women who simply can’t squirt, I feel confident that you can learn to do it.
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