[hopesmeadow]

welcome to hope's meadow, a kinky / paraphilic positivity blog !!~ ✨

my sfw positivity blog - @hopemogai ... any/all or mirrored pronouns !!

feel free to ask questions, speak about your own experiences, et cetera.

this account is strictly anti-contact, anti-abuse, and pro-consent.

syscest / fauxcest is allowed, but please avoid talks of irl consang.

all other topics are okay! CHRONOMINORS DO NOT FOLLOW.

this blog will not be engaging in discourse. stances listed are final.

profic, proship, pro para, pro kink, pro recovery, pro endo, anti rq

[hopesmeadow]

while i am still going to keep discourse off of this blog, i'm also going to start adding a "radqueers will be reported on sight" banner or something to my posts because i'm honestly getting tired of radqueers interacting with this blog.

respectfully, this blog is not for radqueers. i do not want this blog associated with a community that openly accepts sexual abusers and the rhetoric that leads to sexual abuse. that is not what this blog stands for and it never will.

this is all i'm going to say on the matter.

[hopesmeadow]

today's paraphilia of the day is: exhibitionism! (#17)

exhibitionism is defined as the sexual attraction to exposing one's intimate parts in a public or semi-public environment.

having sex in public spaces or enjoying being watched during intimate moments may also fall under exhibitionism.

flags below were created to be used by anti-contact chronoadults.

flag meanings...

DARK GREY: exposure GREY: being watched LIGHT GREY: pro-consent BLACK: intimacy DIPHYLLEIA: clarity, honesty BIOHAZARD HEART: personal paraphilia symbol

✨ why we support para pride | resources for & about paraphiles ✨

[hopesmeadow]

many individuals with vaginas cannot orgasm from penetration alone, and that's okay! sex is more than just penetration, and you deserve to feel good. there is nothing wrong with you for being unable to orgasm that way.

[hopesmeadow]

today's paraphilia of the day is: ipsucephillia! (#16)

ipsucephillia is defined as the sexual attraction to self-harm.

some alternatives to self-harm for anyone who needs them.

flags below were created to be used by anti-contact chronoadults.

flag meanings...

DARK GREY: risk of death RED: anti-abuse, blood, self-harm ORANGE: risk awareness, caution, danger YELLOW: suicide prevention, pro-consent ALOYSIA: release, sensitivity BIOHAZARD HEART: personal paraphilia symbol

✨ why we support para pride | resources for & about paraphiles ✨

[hopesmeadow]

disabled people are sexy and they deserve to feel as such. your disability does not make you unattractive. not fitting to society's standards of beauty does not make you unattractive. everyone is uniquely beautiful, you included. there is always someone out there who is going to think you are beautiful, because everybody has different preferences. i hope you're able to find beings who think you're beautiful, and i hope they make sure you know. you deserve to feel pretty and to have your body appreciated, disability and all.

[hopesmeadow]

today's paraphilia of the day is: autonecrophilia! (#15)

autonecrophilia is defined as the sexual attraction to oneself as a corpse.

it is under the autosexual umbrella.

flags below were created to be used by anti-contact chronoadults.

flag meanings...

BLACK: death PURPLE: fantasy, deviance, anti-contact, anti-abuse PINK: gore, blood, flesh, affection, empathy, kindness ORANGE: bodily fluids, pride, determination LIGHT GREEN: rotting flesh, prosperity, community DARK GREEN: nature, celebration of life, harmony ASPHODEL: death, the afterlife, mourning BIOHAZARD HEART: personal paraphilia symbol

✨ why we support para pride | resources for & about paraphiles ✨

[hopesmeadow]

fat paraphiles are awesome! fat paraphiles are sexy! if you include your fatness in your sex life, or have a fat fetish yourself, that's awesome. if you don't, that's cool, too. your body is beautiful and i hope you're able to find people who appreciate your body the way that it is.

[hopesmeadow]

today's paraphilia of the day is: hebephilia! (#14)

hebephilia is defined as the sexual attraction to early-pubescent youth.

it is under the YAP/MAP and chronophilia umbrellas.

flags below were created to be used by anti-contact chronoadults.

flag meanings...

PURPLE: fantasy, deviance PINK: playfulness, kindness, love YELLOW: joy, youth, positivity WHITE: innocence, anti-contact, anti-abuse CYAN: trust, responsibility, morality BLUE: child abuse prevention DARK BLUE: respect, soothing SNOWDROP: hope, resilience BIOHAZARD HEART: personal paraphilia symbol

✨ why we support para pride | resources for & about paraphiles ✨

[hopesmeadow]

syscest is valid! what happens in headspace does not have to apply to the ethics of reality. two systems who are bodily unrelated having a syscestous relationship is not wrong nor is it the same as actual incest. your experiences are valid, and you are not gross, unworthy of respect, or undeserving of love. please, take care of yourselves.

[hopesmeadow]

hi!! i hope it's ok to ask, but what does the rosia suffix mean? (like in zoorosia) i tried to look it up, but i couldn't find an answer

it's taken from the word "romance" and/or "eros" and spiced up a little to sound pretty, lol. it's meant to follow the naming style of the other terms i coined under the paramoria umbrella.

[hopesmeadow]

today's paraphilia of the day is: teleiophilia! (#13)

teleiophilia is defined as the sexual attraction to adults.

it is under the chronophilia umbrella.

flags below were created to be used by anti-contact chronoadults.

flag meanings...

PURPLE: fantasy PINK: kindness LIGHT PINK: playfulness WHITE: variety of attraction BLUE: respect DARK BLUE: responsibility DARKER BLUE: trust PROTEA: diversity, courage, individuality BIOHAZARD HEART: personal paraphilia symbol TAU: a common teleiophile symbol

✨ why we support para pride | resources for & about paraphiles ✨

[hopesmeadow]

there are many different types of kinks and many different reasons why someone may enjoy them. to gain back control, to let go of control, to find comfort, to relieve stress, to explore something new, to have fun, to express vulnerability and trust, and to express love. those are all just a few reasons to why someone may engage with kink. sexual diversity is everywhere, and is something to be celebrated.

[peekychu]

Sometimes ☝️ the solution is to jerk it clean off. Genuine mental health advice to my future self and anyone else that could benefit. NGL, my brain fog and weird hang ups and maybe dissociation and ssri side effects will trick me into thinking that jerking it clean off won’t help anything, but sometimes it straight up does 👍👍👍

[hopesmeadow]

today's paraphilia of the day is: biastophilia! (#12)

biastophilia is defined as the sexual attraction to rape or raping others.

it is also known as raptophilia.

flags below were created to be used by anti-contact chronoadults

flag meanings...

DARK RED: anti-contact, anti-abuse ORANGE: caution, strength TEAL: pro-consent, sexual assault awareness BLACK: harm, morbidity LOTUS: resilience, strength BIOHAZARD HEART: personal paraphilia symbol BETA: a common biastophile symbol

✨ why we support para pride | resources for & about paraphiles ✨

[hopesmeadow]

there is nothing wrong or shameful about masturbation or wanting to masturbate. masturbation is normal, natural, and healthy. it's okay to masturbate if you are in a relationship. it's also okay to watch porn if you are in a relationship, assuming your partner allows it. watching porn together can even help spice up your sex life. there is no wrong or right way to masturbate. you can masturbate with porn or without porn. just focus on doing what feels good to you!

[hopesmeadow]

today's paraphilia of the day is: acrotomophilia! (#11)

acrotomophilia is defined as the sexual attraction to amputees and/or amputated limbs.

it is under the disaphilia umbrella.

flags below were created to be used by anti-contact chronoadults.

flag meanings...

SHADES OF BROWN: diversity, skin/limbs, strength, pride PINK: anti-abuse, empathy, affection, love PURPLE: fantasy, deviance DARK PURPLE: power, elegance, loss of a limb CHRYSANTHEMUM: remembrance, love BIOHAZARD HEART: personal paraphilia symbol

✨ why we support para pride | resources for & about paraphiles ✨