#pro kink

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I'm not sure if this is considered anti-kink but the way some people are so adament that age regression can never be sexual or tied with kink makes me feel so disgusted with myself. I use ageplay and fauxcest to cope with some personal issues and it's the only way I can feel safe and comfortable age regressing. I understand people setting boundaries and being uncomfortable with it, I have no issues with that it's perfectly reasonable. But seeing people say things like "age regression should never be sexualized or that makes you a pedophile" makes it hard to feel comfortable being myself.

this is antikink, and anti little.

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Getting hate for being an age player and into fauxcest

Which is already dumb

But the funniest part is that im not doing it with people

Im not even jacking it to porn of real people, or fictional porn

I jack it

To stuffed animals

That i roleplay them being an incestuous family unit

Yeah bro, I'm at risk of molesting a build a bear

this is antikink!

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Seeing someone refer to the sexualization of Pokemon as “ruining” the fandom is funny considering most of the people spreading stuff like the “did you know that in terms of” copypasta and “there’s no law about the Pokemon” meme are people doing it cause they think its gross and are mocking the people that create that sorta content.

Saw someone also call us “zoophiles.” I’m sure some of us are, but the specific term when it comes to Pokemon is “pokephilia.” Regardless, there’s paramisia there

this is antikink and paramisia!

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The recent demonisation of animal like dildos (in furry + therian communities) because "It's zoophilia" (it's not)

↑ also paramisia

this is antikink, and paramisia!

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When people assume I haven’t critically examined any aspect of my kinks purely because they’re my kinks. Or how I’m basically expected to just demonstrate for everyone that I have to “prove” I’m “one of the good ones.”

Like, I’m not opposed to doing this. I even think it’s fun. I think, based on my own experiences, the better you understand your kink and everything associated with it the more fun it is to engage with it. But do you have any idea how exhausting it is to constantly have to prove I put any thought into the subject beyond “it make peepee hard”? I’m tired. Can I save my analyses for people who are interested in the subject more than they are with passing moral judgment on me?

this is antikink!

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I cannot think of another blog to submit this to but idk if it fits?

When people insist a character ‘isn’t a twink’ because liking people that are skinny and conventionally attractive isn’t morally good enough I guess???

this is antikink, and the hatred of twinks is rooted in homophobia, and the stigma against "effeminate" men.

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I have two questions, but I don't know who to ask and you seem safe. So, I'm asexual, but I also have fetishes and kinks of my own, but they don't always feel fully sexual? I don't know how to fully describe it. My first question is just can fetish or kink be nonsexual?

My second dilemma is due to the fact that I'm not totally sex repulsed. Like, the idea of someone doing anything sexual to me makes me want to cry. But, the idea of doing it to someone else or watching someone else doing it is something I actually really like. My question is if I could realistically participate in a sexual situation where nothing happens to me, or am I just being weird?

(I'm realizing how weird this is, I'm sorry if this is TMI)

To answer your question, yes!! You can have nonsexual kinks and fetishes!! And as for the not wanting sexual stuff to happen to you but liking watching it, that sounds like aegosexuality to me

(I keep trying to link the lgbtq wiki page for aegosexuality but it won't work for some reason, sorry!!)

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Anti kink is that person I saw on devintart years ago saying that vorarephiles should be exposed to acid in real life

people shouldn’t be harmed in real life because of disturbing fantasies they’ve had

also not all vorarephiles like digestion some don’t want the prey to be digested some do it depends there’s variety in the kink

but even if they fanatize about the prey being digested they don’t deserve to be hurt in real life over it

this is antikink!