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Tumblr Sexy Jester/Clown Contest Final Round

Gavis Bettel (Holostars)

Hugh Morris (Tomodachi Life)

Muppet Joker (Tumblr)

Voting ended onMay 6

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the devil works hard but I work harder (Vote here!!)

L1YA Chorus Recruitment!

The Luxiem 1 Year Anniversary Chorus (L1YA Chorus) is looking for vocalists + artists to join the team!! We're planning a mass parody cover to dedicate to Luxiem, showing off the boys' charms and growth over the last year

L1YA Chorus Project (Organised by Milk & Luuna) Mashup Parody with original lyrics of Big Time Rush Boyfriend and Eve's Anoko Secret

DEADLINE: July 15, 2022 11:59 PM JST Artist audition form: https://forms.gle/5cbc6vBn2cFB9ixF6 Vocalist audition form: https://forms.gle/Bn8MUS31GWf1Jphg8

For more information about the chorus project (deadlines, moodboards), you can read the document below: https://docs.google.com/document/d/104JfBrm4v9oJJtdB817GRTbKn61WKJksjMduW7qCisA/edit?usp=sharing

#luxiem #nijisanji EN #mysta rias #shu yamino #vox akuma #ike eveland #luca kaneshiro

gorgaks

margaret deleting gunnies email is payback for kingston saying he would kill pete without hesitation. ally’s been playing the long game for three years

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itscoldinwonderland

Different people respond better to different types of therapy, and most therapist will do multiple types of therapy with their patients.

CBT - Most common type of therapy because it works well for all mental health problems.

ACT - Especially helpful for treating anxiety disorders, depressive disorders, OCD, psychosis and substance abuse.

DBT - Specifically created for BPD. This type of therapy works really well for personality disorders, PTSD, eating disorders, substance abuse and impulsive control disorders.

Interpersonal therapy - Created to treat major depressive disorder but is now also used for other depressive and mood disorders.

There are lots of other types of therapy too (:

tiiiiiired

Gonna add my two cents as a research psychologist:

CBT does NOT work well if the individual has a history of being emotionally manipulated or gaslit, nor does it work well when the individual is working through traumas that have been used against them or disbelieved. CBT can feel like gaslighting, toxic positivity, denial of the seriousness of a situation, or emotional manipulation if not done very carefully. As such, it might be best to avoid it and find something else if you have a history of problems with the aforementioned experiences.

ACT also works REALLY WELL for individuals coping with sudden and "devastating" changes! It's often adapted for use by disability specific clinics to help newly diagnosed patients learn to cope with the limitations on their environments. People with disabilities (PWDs) tend to feel pressured to not express their disability related distress around non-PWDs and, as such, tend to see those feelings as shameful. There's a lot of "I should be more grateful" or "it's not as bad as it could be" feelings around disability as a result of this pressure and ACT is great for undoing them!

DBT is generally amazing for stress disorders and preventing stress disorder symptomatology in at risk populations. It teaches you stress tolerance skills and how best to avoid or diminish conflicts, allowing you to avoid the sorts of environmental triggers that commonly worsen stress disorder symptoms.

Interpersonal therapy is also great for neurodivergent folks, victims of childhood emotional abuse, and children of parents with untreated/unmanaged psychiatric disorders. Essentially, if you grew up with difficulty interacting effectively with and relating to others, interpersonal therapy can help you understand why and change those interactions in the future. Healthier relationships and social interactions are a great way to break the cycle of abuse for those of us raised by parents who were emotionally abusive and/or had untreated mental illnesses.

Since no one has mentioned it on this post, I'd like to add that most therapists these days practice a sort of integrative therapy. They'll take what they find most effective from each type of therapy for each individual problem, and piece together something a little more tailor made for their patients. This is part of why seeing an actual therapist is so important. Not every aspect of the aforementioned therapies will be relevant to every problem. Some aspects may even be harmful to handling some problems. The therapist is trained to pick out these things and adjust accordingly, unlike the average self help book or online resource. But knowing the types of therapies available and what you want to get from therapy is an immense part of finding a therapist that will suit your needs, so please research things carefully and think over what you need before selecting one!

Go to therapy, y'all!

#ref #important #i forgot all my tumblr tags lol

buttleronduty

I can’t wait for the ep where they all go on a festival date. That’s what happens right?

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the dangers of giving your OCs interests is that in thinking about those subjects for writing purposes they become your own interests

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hang on

I’m going to create a new WIP with a protagonist who is passionate about fitness routines and applying to grad schools

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the dangers of giving your OCs interests is that you might turn into an actual horse

engekihaikyuu

Takeshi Naoki (Kai) wrote up a really long blog post (x) thanking everyone from Nekoma and the rest of the cast. He wrote individual paragraphs for each of his Nekoma cast-mates as well as a final paragraph for Kenta and Tatsunari, and his final words were for his character, Kai Nobuyuki. He considers Kai someone to aspire to and waits for the day that he can play him again on stage.

And just before bed, Ryoutarou updated again with photos with Shouri.

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I wonder what kind of symbolism they’re trying to get at

“There are a lot of giant robot shows in Japan, and we did want our story to have a religious theme to help distinguish us. Because Christianity is an uncommon religion in Japan we thought it would be mysterious. None of the staff who worked on Eva are Christians. There is no actual Christian meaning to the show, we just thought the visual symbols of Christianity look cool. If we had known the show would get distributed in the US and Europe we might have rethought that choice.” -Kazuya Tsurumaki, assistant director/art director on Neon Genesis Evangelion

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eva is literally fake deep

thanhpls

#i love this tbh #like their treating christianity like white people treat buddhism and what not is such an unintentional fuck you

whetstonefires

tbh the Japanese sprinkling Christianity into their media like a cheap vaguely spooky seasoning is a tonic for my soul

everythingfox

Baby elephant thought man was drowning and rushed to save him

wakandamama

HE JUSTA BABY 🥺

urbanfantasyinspiration

A baby the size of a truck 🥺

thespectacularspider-girl

I love elephants so much.

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When I was in Nepal, I went to an elephant sanctuary and saw this little guy. The little bundles of grass in his front of him were “sandwiches”, brown sugar and salt wrapped in sweet grass, and he was swaying from side to side while he ate, like a little food dance.

divagonzo

Reblog for someone to make you a dozen sandwiches for this weekend’s little happy food dance.

cerastes

So how is it that second-hand embarrassment is the single most powerful and weakening emotion one can feel from media?

Tragedy? Delicious.

A hard-earned happy ending? Wonderful.

A convoluted narrative? Keeps you glued.

Simple slice of life? It’s entertaining.

Second-hand embarrassment? Hang on, g, I gotta pause this for fifteen minutes, no, I cannot continue watching this right now, I am just not strong enough.

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AU where Hinata’s grandparents own a flower shop and he works there. That’s it. Oh yeah and also they’ve got that whole pay-for-“protection”-from-the-yakuza thing going on :)

Hinata is blissfully unaware of it

His grandfather told him that the big, gruff looking guy who shows up every month or so is just a family friend that loans them money fairly often

So he always greets him sunnily and doesn’t get why he seemed so confused at first

He eventually just gets used to it and just thinks the kid is weird

If/when a different person starts showing up instead, Hinata’s grandfather tells him the original guy got sick and was unable to come himself

He tells the new person to send his best regards to the other guy

They don’t take long to pick up on why and just kinda awkwardly nod

Fuyuhiko finds this mildly amusing when it’s offhandedly mentioned

I imagine the first time Fuyu actually sees Hinata in person, his first impression is that he’s adorable really really stupid

Hinata starts crushing on him practically instantly

When he and Fuyuhiko grow closer and will casually poke fun at each other (like you do) he doesn’t realize that he practically gives his grandfather a heart attack with every word as he fears for his grandson’s life

I mean honestly who wouldn’t when their grandkid is unknowingly making fun of a literal Yakuza boss

Idk I might think of more later this is actually really amusing and cute to me hah

yourplayersaidwhat

“I heard that internal bleeding is actually supposed to be way more dangerous, so, the fact all my bleeding’s on the outside means I’m probably fine, right?” - Our party’s main combatant, while stuffing her guts back in through an open wound.