Houseofhoney

Just call me honey 🍯 Instagram: nd.Reha TikTok: Reha.said

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I learned that I need to stop waiting for the next week the next month or year in order to start fresh and close a chapter that needed to be closed a long time ago

I wanna live my life to the fullest. And I’ll start today

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Find hope in the hopeless.

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I pray, not wish.

Because I have god, not a genie.

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Honestly I just really realised that I am not ready for a relationship or to even get to know someone.

I’m still learning so much about myself and trying to find my missing pieces. I’m growing, healing and reflecting.

I can’t give someone 100% of my engery and love when I’m not even fully charged.

I want to find myself first, understand what I actually want and then have someone that just adds to my happiness and is not the only reason for my happiness...

Am I the only one who feels like this ?

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[houseofhoneyr]

When your world moves too fast lose yourself in the chaos, and you introduce yourself to each color of the sunset. Reaquaint yourself with the earth beneath feet. your Thank the air that surrounds you breath you take. with every Find yourself in the appreciation of life.

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My dear sister

You were so full of life.

Your energy lighted up every room.

Your love for life was admirable.

But I know right now you are not you.

I know you are struggling.

I know you feel lost.

I know you have the feeling you can’t breath and the air in your lungs is getting tighter with every breath you take.

I know your world collapsed.

And I’m truly sorry.

I’m sorry I couldn’t be there to pick you up. I’m sorry I let it come so far.

I’m sorry that I can’t help you because only you can pick yourself back up when you are ready to.

I’m sorry this family is not making things easier for you.

And I’m so sorry you have to go through this.

But My dear sister if there is one person who can get only stronger and happier out of this, it’s you.

Take your time. Let the past heal and grow. It’s only a season like a plant you need to let the old leaves fall in order to blossom again.

And you will. I know that.

And once you’ve blossomed you will look back to this time And be so proud of yourself.

then you will know how much your actually capable of.

Have faith in god and pray.

Let your emotions out.

Find yourself again.

I’ll be here waiting for you with open arms.

I love you and I can’t wait to meet the old new you soon.

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If you're reading this and you're in a bad mental place, i love you.

I love you so much and you're gonna feel better one day.

I’m proud of you for letting yourself keep existing in the world, whether you went to class, talked to friends, just drank some water, or woke up at all.

You're wonderful. You're good. And you will be okay.

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[houseofhoneyr]

To the strong girl,

The girl hustling in the shadows,

The girl doing double the work for half the hype,

The girl who despite the pressures of the world keeps her morals high,

The girl who refuses to waste her time,

Your doing amazing and you will soon shine.

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[houseofhoneyr]

Tell me about your biggest fears, about your failures and about the things you are ashamed of. Show me every single side of you, everyone else is tired of, all the sides no one even knew before and start with the worst one. Love is not about perfection. Love is about understanding, trust and loyalty. Show me your darkness and let me light up all the rooms which were darkened by confused souls. Let me paint over all the disappointments with my own hands, so you can have a taste of my colours. Let me enter the place, no one was worth to stay at, and I will give you the key to a mystery, no one has even found yet...

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The first time. I was blinded by “love”

I was hoping it was a stupid mistake

Thinking it wouldn’t happen again

The second time. I was disappointed

I was believing it was just a bad day

The third time. I saw it coming. I knew I was your punching bag when things got heated

I was waiting for you to change while I lost count and You said it’s okay

And I silently stayed

But it’s not. The pain you left is not okay, my bruises are not okay, my damaged soul is not okay, my nightmares are not okay, my view of Love is not okay

You are not okay.

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[houseofhoneyr]

I hope your tears become the soil from which your growth takes root, and I hope that you become the best version of yourself as time passes.

I hope that you are in a good place in your healing journey, and if you are not, then I hope that you gain the strength to get there.

I hope you took everything that you needed to from those who came and left, and I hope you were there for yourself throughout it all.

And I hope you finally accept that you are worth all the love that you give to others, and so much more.

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[houseofhoneyr]

And I still cannot understand it - if our pieces were not meant to meet, then why did we ?

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[houseofhoneyr]

Sometimes you don’t realize how terrible someone treated you until you’re explaining it to someone else...

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Part 2

Real love happens after you truly get to know them, after you come to know their story, their darkness, their problems and everything messy and honest about their life that gives you an accurate account of how both your lives will be together. Real love is as practical as it is magical, and it comes after all the perfections have been stripped off from them and they are standing in front of you, their flaws laid out before you. So, before you decide whether you love someone or not, ask yourself this question – do you truly know the person whom you claim to love, or have you fallen in love with the idea of them?

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Part 1

You do not love them, you just love the idea of them. Do you really know them? After having a few conversations with them, perhaps you think that both your minds are similar, perhaps your personalities are too. However, do you truly know them? Deciding that you are in love with someone after a handful of conversations about art, history, philosophy or culture is not a strong foundation for love. These conversations take you both on a journey as further away from reality as possible, and for love to exist - you must be in touch with reality. You must know as much about the real world as you can, you need to know about their world - to be precise. You must khow the truth about the person whom you claim to be in love with, which intellectual or stimulating conversations cannot give you. Those conversations can tell you abou their mind, but not their situation. Those conversations can give you a glimpse of their thoughts but not their feelings.

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There is a plan conquer it. Think about it, in a world consisting of over 7.53 billion people, each capable of teaching you something – why did your path cross with this person? It was because you needed a particular lesson at this point in your life. Think about it deeply, only then will you stop treating your growth as an accident and start appreciating it as a beautiful journey meant just for you.