[misscrazyfangirl321]

Hey someone suggested I use ChatGPT to figure out adulting today, and as I was going through the mental list of places I'd rather look, I realized "beloved strangers on Tumblr dot net" was on that list.

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[notcruvusmemes]

Not me, but @bitchesgetriches has a lot of great resources for many of these topics on their website.

[bitchesgetriches]

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[sweetparagonradiance]

RIGHT PERSON. RIGHT TIME.

[misssassy56]

https://people.com/movies/kate-winslet-knows-actors-hiding-their-sexuality-homophobia-in-hollywood/

Here is an article for that anon talking about Justice where Kate Winslet talks about personally knowing actors who are in the closet.

"I cannot tell you the number of young actors I know — some well known, some starting out — who are terrified their sexuality will be revealed and that it will stand in the way of their being cast in straight roles," she said. "Now that's f***ed up." "I'm telling you," she continued. "A well-known actor has just got an American agent and the agent said, 'I understand you are bisexual. I wouldn't publicise that.' I can think of at least four actors absolutely hiding their sexuality. It's painful. Because they fear being found out. And that's what they say. 'I don't want to be found out.'"

I really don't know how many articles from how many different Hollywood insiders need to come out for some fuckass people in this fandom to understand this...

[holls24]

Since I’m seeing some doom creeping around here lately, here are two Important reminders from @astro-anon:

We may see the third-party narrative completely disappear after September.

By October, we might see Hudson openly showing that he's truly in love, without hiding it from the world.

Eyes on what matters, everyone 👀 Let’s keep watching. ✍🏼

[afro-star]

PSA for the Lurkers

Y'all are pissed and shook and upset. That's understandable you should be. But keep that shit to yourself. Nobody told Hudson the second he landed in Canada again to go running to Connor in Toronto like Whitney Houston.

Hudson did that of his own free will, because Connor was there waiting for him in Toronto as they planned.

Two Weeks:

All it took was two weeks of Hudcon being Hudcon to drive Solos, C/F shippers, and H/K stans into a frenzy. Crashing out all over the internet because Hudson and Connor stayed attached at the hip for two weeks in Toronto, living together, going on dates, and enjoying being with their actual partner.

I could see how after months of Connor and F fantasies, and bullshit theories about chicken bracelets, and Door Slamming in Paris, and Toe holding in Greece that seeing Connor and Hudson actually happy around the person they love has fried y'all's brains, but nobody made y'all make up these theories about chicken and a million hard launches of C/F that never happened. You just made that shit up and then got mad when it was pointed out.

Lurkers:

I've finally gotten around to y'all. You're not smart. You're not sly. You're not Hudcon down. You're not concerned. You're not bracing for the worst. You're full of shit, and you repeat yourselves which is why it's easy to notice when you pop up. In fact, you go from blog to blog with the same dumb ass asks. For a group who like to throw around things like "You're sick", "You have no lives", "You're pathetic", or of course "You're delusional". There is this thing called projection. You have got to be the weirdest motherfucker alive to deliberately come to our blogs to bitch and whine about shit you have no control over. Get over it.

Fuck A Birthday:

Nobody gives a fuck about K's birthday. Period. Nobody gives a fuck what is posted on her birthday. If you care so much you can send her a present and fly to Vancouver to give it to her yourself. Nobody cares. Hudson isn't going to post shit, because he is presently too dickmatized to care. However, since y'all want to play games, yeah Hudson is going to post on her birthday while he sits in Connor's lap wearing the chicken bracelet, and whatever other punk ass token or trinket y'all think means something and then go back to breathing Connor's breath.

Alright I'm done for the evening. If y'all don't like that we think H/K is PR, tough titties. If y'all don't like that we believe Hudcon are together and currently rearranging each other's guts, then fuck off. I'm being more crass than usual because nobody is forcing y'all to be here but since you are H/K is PR and I'm really going to piss some of y'all off I have never thought K was his actual girlfriend 🙃even before this PR push. What are you going to do? Nothing that's what I thought. I do believe that Hudson and Connor are dating and have been together since last September. I don't hear any Fandom Police at my door right now. No sirens 🚨. My mutuals and I may differ on the details, but we believe what we believe and it's not changing just because y'all don't have any Fandom Etiquette, or home training.

To my mutuals who put up with crazies in their inboxes I salute you 🫡. I'll see y'all tomorrow. To the lurkers and doomers 👇🏽.

[yenthecat]

HOLDING PAWS

[misssassy56]

just recently in the past year or so I think caleb hearon has openly discussed the issue of closeting in this industry and how it’s still a very standard practice to not disclose your sexuality. He literally said that a lot of the Hollywood heartthrobs we love and are loved by women are queer! this is still a problem and makes it hard for lot of people (including open folk like justice) from getting consistent good work.

Yup! I talked about that before here too👇🏼

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I don't particularly agree with Melena's tactics when it comes to how they want him in the closet but there's a reason for why they do...

[harryisamilf]

harry styles is a mother

[greeneyed-dimpled-frogrry]

Pregnancy watch begins. This is day 1

[medrawawi]

(un)stoppable shaneling meets immovable shane

[medrawawi]

dad posing with fish🐠

[itsmercuriosity]

Sooo someone asked me why these two talk so much, so here’s an astro analysis based on their synastry. Leeet’s goo

Only based on their individual rising signs I would say that H is the yapper one (he is ruled by Mercury being a Gemini Rising) and C is the listener (Sagittarius rising) buuuut let’s check their synastry.

Hudson’s Mercury in Aquarius touches Connor’s Uranus creating a conjunction (intense energy). This means that H strongly activates C’s mind and communication style. Hudson tends to start conversations, while Connor can get excited, jump between topics, ask questions, or suddenly go off on tangents. We also see that this conjunction happens in the house of communication (the third) so everything is amplified.

C’s mercury in pisces touches H’s 11th house. C communicates in a more intuitive, imaginative, and non-linear way. H may really enjoy listening to C talk about ideas, dreams, interests, or random thoughts. This is also the house of friendships, ruled by aquarius and saturn, very important for understanding each other.

The dynamic is like H starts talking and C gets mentally activated, then C starts adding random thoughts and suddenly both are yapping. Even if C is more of a listener, with H he starts talking and never stops 😭😭 They really understand each other mentally so much!

[misssassy56]

Oh so Friday date nights have become a staple, huh?😇

[nadi-nox]

I love Justice so I won’t comment on him until I see how he plays Harris. As for Charlie…that is a racist white man with a fanbase that supports that and I hate that that fanbase will be “joining” us. His stance during BLM was weird and I’m genuinely mad at what could happen for Hudson in the future from that side.

I hope everyone knows their place and understands that there’s a difference between the leads and secondary couple.

I honestly thought smarter casting choices would be made knowing the history of the fandom and how Hudson has been treated but I guess to Jacob it’s just Twitter mess so he did what he wanted. Maybe he didn’t expect to struck gold in waiters like Hudcon again.

This is about Charlie, not Justice^

[misssassy56]

At least we have this🫠🫠🫠

[medrawawi]

[medrawawi]

ilya / 17 weeks pregnant shane and their fetus bonding