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[quadriceps-deactivated20171230]

sipping on that no gf juice tonight

[hugedyke]

honestly if ur old enough for them.. Dating apps are actually pretty good? I know they have a reputation for hookups but thts not the case! u do see "unicorn hunters" or ppl lookin to "experiment" but if u ignore them and look for ppl genuinely wanting to find local lesbians/sapphics/wlw w/ for the purpose of dating ! i met my gf on one!!!

I’ve tried dating apps and have went on a few dates and have met a few cool people but from my experience a lot of it just seems really forced and I already have a very standoffish demeanor so I just really don’t think dating apps are for me. Still tryin tho 🤞🏽

[hugedyke]

heyyy 😙💞 how u doin?

Hi 😚 I’m ok how are u doin?

[hugedyke]

If there are any single girls reading this I’d just like you to know that I am also single...

[hugedyke]

hey I'm not sure if these features can be changed or not but I think random ppl can join tumblr groupchats? I was once in a gc just for wlw and this dude joins and is like "what's up" so uh. Keep that in mind I guess?

They can only join if they’re accepted into the group by the person who made the group chat so the person who made the group chat you were a part of accepted that guys request for some reason

[hugedyke]

I JUST ATE OUT MY FIRST GF IN A MOVIE CINEMA... Malificent is now for the gays 😜😜

You heard it hear first. Maleficent belongs on the gay flag

[hugedyke]

Hey as a fellow lesbian, I was wondering if it’s weird to think non-women are good looking. Like I can sit there and comprehend that a dude I see is an attractive person. But I’m not literally attracted to them?? I hear straight people say same gender people are attractive? So I’m curious if this is the norm.

Totally normal like even as a lesbian I can acknowledge how mmmmmm fine Avan Jogia is

[hugedyke]

I went to Queer Prom this year (still closeted) and managed to meet a girl and makeout with them in one night !! I actually did the not useless moment... my nb lesbian ass got a gf

I’m proud of you

[hugedyke]

Before things got official with my girlfriend, we were in the “talking” stage and had already slept together at this point. Fast forward a few weeks and she asks me on a real date. The date was really cute, we went out for sushi and kept it really casual. When we got back to her house we started kissing and things were getting really heated. I teased her for so long before eventually leaning over into her ear, saying “sorry, i don’t fuck on the first date” and then left. I scored a second date.

Big strap energy

[hugedyke]

Please dont tag queer as q-slur. Its no more a slur than 'gay' is. If someone wants to block it, they can blacklist the word queer. Some people who still like tagging it have it tagged as "q-word", so thats an option too.

Okay queer is most definitely a slur...so

[hugedyke]

are we sending Gay Asks™??? because I'm driving 6 hours to see my gf in less than two weeks and im so!!!!! gay and in love!!! we haven't seen each other irl since march (when we just started dating) and im so excited ive missed her sm!

Awe that’s so sweet I hope your drive goes well and you have lots of fun when you see her

[hugedyke]

im doing well!!!! trying to get my gren hair dye out of my hair because i wanna be pink!!! by the end of this week!!!!

Okay same!!! I recently dyed my hair red and turns out I hate red and tried so hard to get the color out and it faded to orange it was so ugly but I was really impatient and put blue hair dye over it even tho it wasn’t completely washed out and now my hair is like 3 different shades of purple it looks so weird like the roots are reddish/purple the center is purple and the bottom is very dark blue I look like a hot mess. At least you’re patient enough to wait for the color to completely wash out do not make the same mistake I did

[hugedyke]

Dumb gay story, I went to a queer prom recently and it was just a group of us lesbians and one trans guy and we were all like going back and forth abut how much we wanted a gf and then the single man was like to "y'all see that you've all complemented each other 20+ times and yet..." like excuse me sir Im a useless lesbian don't call me out on it

Okay FIRST OF ALL where were these queer proms when I was in high school what?? Also yeah he was right to call y’all out 👀

[hugedyke]

My gf of 2 years just broke up with me and honestly I’m just so tired. She was the only person I had, I was living for our future together. My family is violently homophobic and my friends are all tired of me talking about how sad I am and I just want to end things. There’s no reason to continue. I feel abandoned and I’m so tired of being in pain

I promise you that everything you’re going through is temporary and you will find people who will love you and embrace you and be there for you when you’re sad. Being in that kind of pain is so hard and sometimes life can be really overwhelming and really lonely but I promise you will always have someone who loves you and cares about you even if they don’t say it out loud. And life is all about experiences, good and bad, you’ll find someone to build your future with. You won’t feel this way forever.

[hugedyke]

2 months ago i found out my crush of 10 months didn’t actually like me and told me she did 4 months prior because she wanted to get over her ex and i blocked her because i knew i’d never get over her if i didn’t and now were in the same spanish class and i want to sob whenever i see her because i still like her so much hhh

Ugh I know the feeling I hate having crushes bc no matter how hard I try I just can’t seem to get over them fast enough. You’ll pull through and you’ll be over her soon enough, promise.

[hugedyke]

hi ive seen u use the tag lesbainsafe on ur posts, just wanna let u kno that tag is primarily used by transphobic lesbians who are trying to separate themselves from trans lesbians so yeah its best to stay away from that bullshit lol

Oh what the hell that sucks I just knew the tag was started by @lesbiansafe who’s blog is trans friendly but I guess transphobes have ruined that now too ):

[hugedyke]

I checked out the tag and it seems like most of the blogs using it are trans friendly and even trans lesbians use the tag themselves so I’m gunna continue to use it, you were probably just misinformed but I’m sure you had good intentions!

[hugedyke]

Is there anyone else out there who stans Jennifer Tilly bc I would love to talk to anyone who’d listen about how much I love her