THEchad88

@hulknumber181

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That’s crazy doing the top ones first! Haha. Any particular reason for the change?

I think mostly for the best fit. All adult diapers are tight on my hips but looser around the waist. Sooo…I started doing the top tapes first to get the best fit around the waist and then basically whatever is leftover/feels comfortable for the hips, I just stick ‘em on. But I guess when I start with the bottom tapes, it feels more restrictive. Not sure if that makes sense 🙆🏻‍♀️

Tops first. Then you usually only need to tape bottom ones once. Bottoms first and i’m always adjusting after tops. Just sayin!

May this kind of love and acceptance find me again 😭

For all of us.

Just have a crush on you is all. Being a straight abdl guy, it's hard to find women who are according or also like this kink. Dating is hard as is, but it'd be nice to find someone like us. Have you dated vanillas in the past? Did it bother you?

When it comes to dating vanillas and introducing them to ABDL, all of my past partners were made aware of my interests at some point within the relationship, whether that was within a month or within a year. Dating vanillas can be more nerve-wracking given that their responses can vary or be unpredictable. I've been super fortunate that none of the men I've dated have had averse reactions which kind of speaks to the societal expectations we have for men and women. Most of them have found it endearing and participated in some capacity, some more than others. What bothers me the most about dating vanilla is the lack of of inherent understanding and initiative, but this is normal since it's not their kink.

Have you tried dating within the ABDL community? I know that can be a challenge in itself, speaking from experience, but who knows, putting yourself out there is the only way to attract other ABDL women who may be lurking. I have a feeling there are ABDL women out there looking for something too, myself included, but we lurk.

Personally, ABDL dating for me is like having to find gold in the mud. You have to sift through a bunch of men, questioning if they have solid intentions or if they just want something from you. I also don't like the feeling of being "idolized" which is a weird word to even say, but seriously, it happens. Men will want some "dream diaper girl" and do anything and everything to appease you. I don't want obsession and lust. I want to be seen in all aspects, way beyond ABDL.

This is very thoughtful.

highly recommend butt slaps while in a diaper

All day for days..

What’s the longest you’ve gone completely into a caregiver/little dynamic? Where someone else was completely in charge

I don’t think I’ve ever completely gone into baby mode. I feel like it’s kind of unrealistic to be a baby for an entire day but maybe that’s just me. I’ve experienced being fully little with 2 different people at different times of my life, both romantically involved. I would say a weekend of being little is about the longest I’ve played into the dynamic, but even so, things can easily just take you out of little space.

For example, let’s say you’re in the car and your partner asks “what do you want for lunch?” and realistically, a daddy will probably just make that choice, but he forgets and asks to be polite. Now you’re at the restaurant, are you really going to be little in the restaurant? No, you’re probably gonna start talking about real things and real life.

Maybe you’re in the car, but are you really going to sit in the backseat in a car seat? No, I’m gonna sit in the front passenger seat, take aux, and play the music lol.

Or let’s say you’re at home watching a kids movie in a diaper, all snuggled up to your daddy, but then you get an important call from your boss or a family member, ok you gotta snap out of it and be an adult.

It’s just small things like this that can take me in and out of little space, which is why I don’t think I’ve ever had long periods of just being a baby. That’s not to say that this is good or bad, it just is. I don’t think real life interruptions or smaller adult gestures take away from the dynamic you share with your partner, but I think it’s unrealistic to try to maintain little mode for long periods. Eventually your adult life needs attention as well.

Yup!

I'm squishy and I know it 😌

And i really wanna show it 😋

Yes this is awesome!

I'm here to love and be loved

Accept and to be accepted

I don't have to agree with you to love and accept you, only to understand you are trying your best to make sense of this thing we call life

Don't ever feel like you have to give up on yourself.

Accept yourself with ❤️

The rest of us will come around eventually or miss out on one of the greatest of all creations..... You 😇 😘

Accept the fact you are enough.

#facts!

New stitch shoes and me trying to be both a little girl and horny for Daddy's cock...

It's a potent mix. Taboo sure, but exciting and fulfilling none the less

P.s. im not quiet, you will need sound proof curtains and foam walls or all your neighbors will know you have company over 😏

All about this!

Forced diapers this Forced diapers that, yes absolutely

But being cood into them sweetly? Having someone who loves the changing process and is so sweet and gentle and takes all the time in the world? Someone who can't help themselves but to rub your belly and back and loves just resting their hand on the front of your diaper? The sweet teasing and soft praise when you do have an accident for them?

Yeah give me both please.

Woah who you been

telling about me?!

Sometimes I wear “big girl” pannies

(Over my babygirl diapies…)

Why is this not more of a thing?! #loveit

littleprincessbug3

Daddy found the perfect spot to eat breakfast and watch the sunrise! JFF🌄

That's what i'm talking about!

Since you mentioned sex between diapers changes, what would you prefer? 1) untape, being wiped clean and put on top of a fresh diaper while doing it to avoid leaks, and then having your tapes done up, or 2) untape, doing it over your used diaper to avoid leaks, then get cleaned up and tapped into a fresh diaper, or 3) something else?

I like the second one and have done that one quite a few times. It's hot 🥵 idk what it is about the squishiness of my diaper under me while we're having sex but gosh it's amazing 💦

Yup 2nd one is great!

Do you have a significant other

I thought I did, I thought I was done looking... but I guess I'm too much of a problem.

I require to much.... Maybe some people are better off alone 😔

Being wanted and understood are all ive ever wanted. Maybe in my next life.

Happens to the best of us.

I don't vaccinate, I have never vaccinated

nor will I ever subject myself to external chemicals to boost my perfectly healthy immune system. If that hurts your feelers please just leave, or ignore my posts altogether.

I will block you if you want to debate me on my own blog. I wont even think twice. Weee this is fun

Diapers for me are for coping.

They give me a reason to stay alive in this shit world ... just a bit longer at least.

It can be a kink for you.. but for me it's just a comfortable pair of panties, and I won't feel ashamed for wearing them or needing them. Anyone with issues remember you are the one with issues, not me. I'm cool with how I present myself.

I can't change your feelings, I can't remove your feelings of shame or regret. I'm only using what I have available to me to participate best I can.

This whole post is because I've had to block a few people today unfortunately..but for me... less is more.

So let the great purge begin.

Quality over Quantity.

You want my vaccination status

.... its right here. I don't take health advice from people who would die from covid If they caught it including old people, doctors and anyone else not healthy enough to survive a wimpy ass virus (that was probably deliberately released for a power grab.)

If you're unhealthy... and don't want to eat right or live a healthier lifestyle that's on you. You can't stuff your face and then restrict how I live. You can drink yourself stupid and then dictate what goes into my body. You're sick and vulnerable for a reason... and most likely that's on you.

I won't be punished for your lack of effort and discipline, you made your life choices. If you were born with a shit immune system I am sorry but again I won't crawl because you were born without legs or because it would make you feel better... your hardship is your own. Just like when I was homeless, nobody came to save me, I had to save myself.

I had covid last year, I got it from working at Amazon. I was sick for two days ... I have had ear aches as as kid that were 1,000 times worse. Covid to me was a joke and over with before I knew I even had it. And I never get so much as a sniffle. So any cold to me is dramatic.

If this bothers you, simply unfollow me... seek all the others out there who fall in line and agree with you. Find your people and do you...I genuinely want you to be happy even if we are polar opposites... But I won't limit my life for your feelings of safety.

I'll simply move you out of the way 😏 physically and metaphorically

I make my own path ... and I'll walk it alone if need be.

You can have all the restaurants and all the concerts... you can have all your little superficial social gathers....just give me the broken ;The forgotten and the misunderstood. I'll love them back to health.

I will love the unlovables... I will share my soul with those who know that they actually have one.

Faith Over Fear

I love the part,” I won’t limit my life for your safety.” Tons of that happening. That its ok to force others to an action out of perceived safety for someone else. Each persons well being is up to themselves.

"Don't forget your dirty diapers now"

Love this gif!!

Diaper check?

I still have butterflies 🦋 hehe. Maybe I need a bottle 🍼 or two 🤔

I miss these. Please bring them back ABU!

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Meeting someone with the same mindset as you is rare

Exact same? Uh...yeah! Its about close to it no?

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