The Human Women Guide

A blog which will guide people with dating and relationships. And give them a deeper understanding of the male and female mind. Some content on the blog is based on "The Human Women Guide" book written by Christian .O. Ortiz . 

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Girl : "Im not doing wife things for a man that is only my boyfriend"

Me : Then how do you become a wife? By showcasing wife qualities and actions DUH

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Traditional values this day and age? No. Let me break it down in simple form for those who do not know :

Back in the days women were not allowed to vote or work. This was because of men. Traditional values were created by men to control women and keep them from doing "more". Men wanted women in the kitchen, at the house etc. Women eventually got tired of this and started fighting to vote and gain the ability to work etc.

Now that certain women work they want to nitpick what they want and what they don't want from back in the days. Why the fuck are some women wanting something that women fought so hard in the past to eliminate? I will never support some toxic shit from the past that brought women down.

I'm all for men and women both working together to achieve greater. Nothing being one sided. The man should feel valued just as much as the woman. Men deserve to be taken out on dates too. Men like nice things too etc. Both genders matter. If I ever have a wife... We Will both work together to retire early together, we will both travel, both take care of each other. "oh I'm this gender so things must be like this".... Get the fuck outta here. That concept should be long dead by now.

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Some people online said "someone isn't entitled to my time" or "I can ignore someone if I want to". But in reality communication is important and goes a long way. Keep it honest and communicate. No more ghosting, no more hiding, say what you feel and move forward.

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There will always be someone that will find you beautiful. Just the way you are

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A good apology has three parts

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Notice toxic behavior and call it out

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How would you feel if someone said these things to you...

- You have to do this because of your gender

- I won't meet you halfway because you should do it

- Pay me gas money if you want me to see you. But you can't say it to me

- I'm not your room mate I will never go half with you. Go ahead and pay the huge bills. I'll pay anything that isn't as big.

You'll feel bad right? You'll think is one sided right? Seems pretty selfish? Seems like the person doesn't really care about what you have going on? What if I told you that certain women do this to men and this mentality is real? What if I told you that traditional values aren't as healthy as you think they are? Let this sink in. No gender should be used nor treated like this. Fuck the one sided shit

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Stop being the one who makes all the effort for someone. Sometimes you need to Sit back and let the ship sink.

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We need to stop letting people use the words, “I was going through something”, as an excuse to treat us like anything. We’re all going through something.

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Hurting the person who hurt you won't heal you

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Dating Nowadays (Ai composed)

Dating in the modern world has undergone a significant transformation in recent years. With the advent of technology, dating has become increasingly convenient and accessible. The rise of dating apps and online dating sites has made it easier for people to connect and find potential partners.

One of the biggest changes in dating is the shift towards a more casual and non-committal approach. Many people are now opting for hookups and casual relationships rather than traditional dating and long-term commitment. This is partly due to the ease and convenience of connecting with others through dating apps and the abundance of potential partners available.

However, despite the convenience and accessibility of dating in the digital age, there are also some downsides. One of the biggest concerns is the potential for deception and catfishing. People can easily create fake profiles and pretend to be someone they are not, leading to disappointment and heartbreak. Additionally, online dating can be overwhelming, with an endless stream of potential partners to choose from.

Another trend in dating is the rise of virtual and video dating. With the pandemic, people are unable to meet in person, so many are turning to virtual and video dating to connect with others. This includes video chats, virtual dates, and even virtual reality dating. These methods have proven to be popular and effective, allowing people to connect and get to know each other in a safe and socially distant way.

Overall, dating in the modern world has become a complex and dynamic landscape. Technology has made it easier to connect with others, but it has also created new challenges and potential pitfalls. It's important for individuals to be aware of the risks and to take precautions when dating online. However, despite the challenges, dating in the digital age can also be fun, exciting, and ultimately lead to meaningful connections and relationships.

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Andrea says she won't go 50/50 with a man. She also won't invest no money on her man. Women like this have no place in the dating world. I'm glad she was called out. And these be the same women who call a man "broke" but they do broke shit like this to begin with. Leeches at their finest. Providing nothing but their looks, vagina and time.

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The truth hurts. But someone had to say it. Seeing your partner struggle because you don't want to invest is selfish. You're either doing things together as a team or you can stay single