Someone wrote:
Love just never seems to come to me as it does for others. No matter what - whether I'm searching, talking to someone, or completely shifting the focus to working on myself. It doesn't matter. Boys just find no further interest in me other than a vent tool, one make out sesh or ext. Is it possible that i never find anyone like ever?
I answered:
It’s completely natural to want a real connection, and you will eventually find the right person who values you for who you truly are.
But if someone is using you as a vent tool or just for a quick hookup, it simply means they aren't the right fit for you. While we don't have to hold bitterness toward them—since everyone operates at a different level of maturity—you do need to step back and protect your emotional energy.
Stop giving deep emotional access to people who only offer breadcrumbs in return. Focus on aligning with people who match your depth, respect your boundaries, and show genuine reciprocity.










