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This is very important for a slave to learn!
time for another round-up. make yourselves known.
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slave contract
OK this is long - but is possibly the most comprehensive I have ever seen. So realistic and takes into account the âreal-life limitationsâ that so many donât understand about slavery. Enjoy folks and send me your thoughts or comment it. Reblog too!
slave CONTRACT
The slave, through signing this contract, is binding itself totally and completely, without limit (except as explicitly defined herein, or in Appendix L â âHard Limitsâ), irrevocably in servitude to Master. slave relinquishes all and both explicit and presumed rights, privileges, prerogatives and status to Master in order to become His property as a slave for Him to own and use as He sees fit.
slaveâs Basic Role
(a)Â Â Â slave agrees to obey and submit completely to Master in all ways. There are no boundaries of place, time, or situation in which the slave may wilfully refuse to obey the directive of Master without risking punishment. This is with the exception of those situations defined below as âslaveâs Vetoâ.
(b)Â Â slave agrees that, upon signing this slave Contract, itâs body, mind and soul belongs to itâs Master, to be used as He sees fit within the guidelines of this contract.
Š   slave agrees to please Master to the best of itâs ability, in that it now exists solely for the pleasure of Master.
(d)Â Â slave understands that all that it has, and all that it does, shall now move from right to privilege, granted only as Master wishes, and only to the extent that He finds useful.
slaveâs Safeword
(a)Â Â Â If slave feels that a situation has, or is imminently about to, cause permanent or damaging physical harm to the detriment of itâs long term health, slave may use the safeword â____________â to signify this. Master accepts the responsibility of assessing situations where slave uses the safeword and will, to the best of His ability, make judgment on whether to continue, modify or stop the current activity. slave will accept and uphold Masterâs safeword decision. slave acknowledges that use of the safeword is not a guarantee that an activity will end but instead is a request for Master to pause for thought. slave accepts that it might endure punishment for impromper use of the safeword.
(b)Â Â No other safewords exist.
slaveâs Veto
a)Â Â Â Â Â In accordance with conditions one through four outlined below, slave may veto a command given by Master and at that time refuse to obey that command. The veto only applies if:
1)Â Â Â Â Â The command conflicts with any existing law or may lead to fine or prosecution or other social defamation of slave, or
2)Â Â Â Â Â The command may cause extreme damage to slaveâs life, such as losing itâs job or causing itâs family stress etc.
3)Â Â Â Â Â The command will cause serious psychological or physical trauma to slave.
4)Â Â Â Â Â The command is given when Master is under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol or any other mind-altering substance that leads slave to believe Master is not considering His actions with due concern for slaveâs well-being.
slaveâs Behaviour
(a)Â Â Â slave will willingly, freely and to the best of itâs ability, immediately obey any order as demanded by Master. This includes, but is not limited to, unspoken standing orders that Master has taught slave.
(b)Â Â slave will willingly, freely and to the best of itâs ability obey all rules set out by Master and live by them whether or not slave is in Masterâs presence. All such rules will be kept in Appendix R (âRules of slaveryâ) and will be recorded as acknowledged by slave by it initialling next to each rule.
Š   The rules by which slave must abide can be added to, or altered, at any time by Master and the new or amended rule applies from the moment Master issues it, irrespective of whether that rule has been added or amended to Appendix R and irrespective of whether slave has acknowledged that rule.
(d)Â Â slave will willingly, freely and to the best of itâs ability submit to any training or training methods that Master wishes to use or apply in order to help slave to better serve Him and meet His needs.
(e)Â Â Â slave will always be completely honest and truthful and will never lie to Master or omit to mention all facts, actions or inactions, breaches of this contract or appendices or failed responsibilities implicitly inherent upon it through this contract and associated appendices.
(f)Â Â Â slave will never make any excuses for any failures, or for any of its actions, inactions or breaches of this contract or the associated appendices.
(g)Â Â slave will show Master the utmost respect at all times and never cause Him any embarrassment. This includes in any discussions, actions or activities with third parties and applies whether Master is present or not.
(h)Â Â slave will always endeavour to improve itself physically and mentally to better serve Master.
(i)Â Â Â Â slave will always be available to serve Master when required except by prior agreement with Master, or for work or family emergencies. Following any emergency that prevents slave from serving Master then slave will, at Masterâs convenience, present itself for any punishment deemed necessary.
(j)Â Â Â Â Master may, at His discretion, define rules requiring slave to seek permission to perform any and/or all independent actions such as making sounds, moving, bodily functions (urinating, defecating etc), eating, drinking and sleeping. Master may also choose to allow slave to perform any or all of these actions independently to avoid being bothered unnecessarily by slaveâs base functions. Master will make it clear to slave when it has been placed under this kind of full and unlimited control and again He will make it clear when that has been relinquished.
(k)Â Â slave will strive diligently to re-mould itâs body, appearance, habits, and attitudes in accordance with Masterâs desires. slave agrees to change itâs actions, speech, and attire to be more indicative of itâs owned state, under the direction of Master.
(l)Â Â Â Â slave will always speak of his Master in terms of love and respect, and address Him appropriately as âMasterâ, âSirâ, or however else as directed by Master. slave will never address any other person as âMasterâ but will use âSirâ or âMadamâ as directed by Master.
(m) slave will seek to learn how to please Master better, and will gracefully accept any criticism given in whatever form Master chooses.
(n)Â Â slave renounces all rights to privacy or concealment, of any kind, from Master.
(o)Â Â slave will keep itself clean and scent free at all times.
(p)Â Â slave will not engage in malicious gossip or use insulting or demeaning language towards others.
(q)Â Â slave shall not reveal the terms of its slavery to anyone else, even if such slavery comes to an end at any time.
ÂŽÂ Â Â Â slave shall not sit, lie on or use the furniture, in any way, without permission from Master.
(s)Â Â Â slave agrees to confess all of itâs desires and fetishes if requested to do so by Master, for His consideration.
(t)Â Â Â Â slave will answer truthfully and completely, to the best of itâs knowledge, any and all questions Master may ask of it. slave will volunteer any information that Master should know about itâs physical or emotional condition by respectfully requesting permission to âspeak freelyâ. This request may be granted or denied at Masterâs discretion.
(u)Â Â When in the same room as Master, slave will ask permission before leaving the room, explaining where it is planning to go and why. This includes, but is not limited to, asking permission to use the restroom.
(v)Â Â When in public, slave will stand and remain at Masterâs side at all times and will never speak to others without permission.
slaveâs Permanent Chores
(a)Â Â Â slave shall immediately start the oral servicing of Masterâs Cock every morning as soon as it is released from itâs cage. This should be without any encouragement or command from Master.
(b)Â Â Upon Masterâs arrival home, or at any other moment as demanded by Master, slave shall âpresentâ by dropping onto all fours with itâs pussy pointed toward Master, back curved and forehead down against the floor. slave shall silently and covertly follow Master wherever He goes, repositioning itself to always have itâs pussy pointing towards Him. This will continue until Master acknowledges slave by issuing a new order or stating âcontinueâ. slave will not rise from all fours until this time.
Š   slave is responsible for maintenance and completion of all household chores. This includes, but is not limited to, the following:
Cooking all meals including preparing food for Master while He is at work if required,
Cleaning including vacuuming, dusting, and maintaining the kitchen, bathrooms, etc.,
Ironing, laundry and dry cleaning,
Running errands and shopping,
(d)Â Â Chores do not apply if:
The slave is caged or somehow otherwise confined in such a manner that it is unable to physically complete assigned chores,
The slave has received leave from chores, given by Master alone, due to illness or work requirements.
slaveâs Dress/Body/Appearance
(a)Â Â Â slave shall diligently maintain and adorn itâs body parts in such manner as will ensure that they are fully open and available to Master. slaveâs body parts shall be able to be displayed in public or private, to others or to Him, when so ordered by Master.
(b)Â Â slave will only ever wear a simple, minimalist jock-strap when at home. This is in addition to any bondage or other adornments fitted to slave by Master. At times when slave has been ordered to be entirely naked, it must not return to wearing the jock-strap until ordered to do so.
Š   slave shall keep itâs body entirely clean-shaven or waxed and may request, but not expect, Masterâs assistance with this. If shaving, this ritual will be repeated on a weekly basis.
(d)Â Â slave shall keep itâs hair, cut and style, as directed by Master.
Slaveâs Time Off
(a)Â Â Â slave may request âtime offâ from Master but this must be approved by Him in advance. With the exception of work or family emergencies, slave can be recalled by Master at any time and slave will provide an estimated time of arrival back into service when it acknowledges the recall.
(b)Â Â Master will not unreasonably deny requests made by slave to visit itâs parents/relatives provided such requests are made with adequate notice.
Š   Under no circumstances shall Master force slave to cease communication with itâs parents or relatives. However, slave accepts that Master may decide on the appropriateness or otherwise of slaveâs friends and as such may order slave to break contact with friends He does not approve of.
Masterâs Role
(a)Â Â Â Master accepts the responsibility of slaveâs body to do with as He sees fit. Master agrees to love, care for, protect, and cherish slave, and to arrange for the safety and well-being of it. Master also accepts the commitment to train, punish and use slave as He sees fit.
(b)Â Â Master shall keep slave physically fit and healthy.
Š   Master shall look after the finances of the house and ensure that slave has enough to eat and a safe place to live.
(d)Â Â slave will retain control of itâs finances. it will pay a total monthly âtributeâ of ÂŁ _______ to Master, which will cover slaveâs contribution toward rent, food, bills etc. and also covers the required âappreciation tributeâ to Master. slave will have no further financial burden other than this monthly ÂŁ _______ unless it wishes to make further expenditure.
(e)Â Â Â Master accepts that slave is a valuable possession and as such Master will keep slave safe at all times.
(f)Â Â Â Master will not instruct slave to perform any unsafe or illegal acts or anything that is listed in Appendix L âHard Limitsâ.
(g)Â Â Master will, at His own discretion, allow slave limited but regular periods of âfree speechâ where slave will be permitted to freely express its thoughts without fear of retribution. slave will, however, remain entirely respectful to Master, but may ask for clarifications or express itâs concerns openly.
(h)Â Â Nothing Master shall request of slave shall cause it illness or physical permanent damage.
PunishmentÂ
(a)Â Â Â slave agrees to accept any punishment Master decides to inflict, whether earned or not.
(b)Â Â slave agrees that severe punishment may be required for any infraction of the letter or spirit of this slave Contract, and it will accept the correction gratefully. The form and extent of punishment shall be at Masterâs discretion. He may also punish slave without reason, in order to please Himself. slave may cry, scream, or beg, but accepts that these expressions will not affect Masterâs treatment. Furthermore, slave accepts that if Master tires of itâs noise, He may gag it or take other actions to silence it.
Š   Master is not limited by place, location or duration when issuing punishment. There is also no limit to the methods He may use (appendix L does not apply for punishments).
Rules of Punishment
(a)Â Â Â Punishment of the slave is subject to certain rules designed to protect the slave from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm.
(b)Â Â Punishment must not incur permanent bodily harm, nor the following forms of abuse:
Blood may not be drawn at any time. Punishment must stop immediately if blood is drawn
Burning the body
Drastic loss of circulation
Causing internal bleeding
Loss of consciousness
Š   Withholding of any essential materials, such as food, water, or sunlight for extended periods of time will not occur. With the exception of water, the maximum amount of time that these essential materials will be withheld is two days. The availability of water will not be withheld for more than four hours.
Terms of Address
(a)Â Â Â When around ânon-sceneâ members of the public, the terms âMasterâ and âslaveâ shall not be used by Master, slave or other people. In this situation slave should address Master using âSirâ unless instructed otherwise. Master and other people will address slave using any term other than âslaveâ.
(b)Â Â When around only those involved in the âsceneâ and at all times in private, slave shall address Master as âMasterâ. In this situation there is no limit to the terms of address that may be used by Master and other people to address slave.
Š   Written word â slave must ensure that it never capitalises a term of address relating to itself in written word. slave must also ensure that it always capitalises terms of address relating to Master in written word. This slave Contract follows this format. Master may choose whether or not to follow this format but will, nevertheless, always expect slave to do so.
Permanent Bodily Harm
(a)Â Â Â Since the body of slave now belongs to Master, it is His responsibility to protect slave from permanent bodily harm.
(b)Â Â Should slave ever come to permanent bodily harm during the course of punishment or in any other slavery related activity, whether by intention or accident, this contract will enter a state of unlimited suspension until such time when slave is ready to decide whether to re-enter slavery or be freed.
Š   Permanent bodily harm is determined as:
Death
Any damage that involves loss of mobility or function, including broken bones.
Any permanent marks on the skin, including scars, burns, or tattoos, unless such tattoos are accepted by slave.
Other People
(a)Â Â Â Slave may not seek any other Master or lover, or relate to others in any sexual or submissive way, either in ârealâ, âvirtualâ or âcyberâ time, without Masterâs express permission. To do so will be considered a severe breach of this slave Contract and will result in extreme punishment or slave Contract termination.
(b)Â Â slave agrees that Master possesses the right to determine whether others can use itâs body and to what extent such others may use it. slave has no say in the choice, volume or frequency of this use by others.
Š   Master will ensure that any others making use of slaveâs pussy for their penis will do so using a condom at all times.
(d)Â Â The use of slaveâs throat by others does not require a condom but, before ordering slave to service others, Master will ensure that slaveâs mouth, throat, lips and surrounding areas are free of ulcers, cuts etc. that might put it at risk of infection.
Unsafe or Illegal Acts
(a)Â Â Â Master will not submit slave to any unsafe or illegal acts, sexual or otherwise, including scat, blood, needles, knives or other weapons or indecent exposure. This does not limit any oral use, pussy use (with a condom) or drinking urine but slave will not be ordered to perform any acts with women, children or animals.
Work and Family
(a)Â Â Â Master will not submit slave to any actions that may result in it losing or seriously impacting relationships with itâs family.
Alteration of slave Contract
(a)Â Â Â This slave Contract may not be altered, except when both Master and slave agree. If the slave Contract is altered, a new slave Contract must be printed and signed, and the old slave Contract must be destroyed.
Termination of slave Contract
(a)Â Â Â slave may not terminate this slave Contract unless the Master breaches any of the clauses contained herein, especially with regards to physical harm or endangerment of the slave.
(b)Â Â Master may terminate this slave Contract by providing slave with six months notice.
Š   The slave Contract is valid from the date of signatures until the death of either Master or slave.
slaveâs Signature
i have read and fully understand this slave Contract and Appendix L in its entirety. i am also aware of Appendix R and the requirement to remain fully knowledgeable in itâs content.
i hereby agree to be bound by the clauses and limits of this slave Contract between the two parties identified as Master and slave herein.
Furthermore i agree that this contract will be held by Master and in the event of conflict with any other versions held securely online or elsewhere then the version held by Master will be deemed to be the authoritative copy.
i agree to accept Masterâs claim of ownership over my physical body, heart, soul, and mind. i understand that i will be commanded, trained and punished as a slave, and i promise to be true and to fulfil the pleasures and desires of my Master, and to serve Him to the best of my abilities. i understand that i cannot withdraw from this slave Contract except in the case my Master becomes mentally or physically ill, is incarcerated or breaches the terms and conditions of this slave Contract.
i certify that i am of legal age in the United Kingdom. i am legally and mentally able to sign this contract. i attest that i have no history of mental illness or any other condition which would impede me from submitting this document as a legally binding agreement. i have no other contracts that will conflict with this contract including power of attorney and i certify that i am signing this contract of my own free will.
Signed by, _______________________________
Dated _________________________.Â
Masterâs Signature
I am of legal age in the United Kingdom. I am legally and mentally able to sign this contract. I attest that I have no history of mental illness or any other condition which would impede me from submitting this document as a legally binding agreement. I have no other contracts that will conflict with this contract including power of attorney and I certify that I am signing this contract of my own free will.
Signed by, _______________________________
Dated _________________________.Â
To be applied in conjunction with:
Appendix L
Appendix R
Appendix L â Hard Limits
To be completed by Master, at His discretion, after discussion with slave.
If nil, indicate ânil offeredâ.
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To be acknowledged by slave by initialling, prior to contract signing.
Appendix R â Rules of slavery
To be created and amended as seen fit by Master, at his will.
All rules issued by Master apply immediately, even if not yet entered here. slave is expected to abide by all rules from the moment they are issued, whether written here or not, and whether acknowledged by slaveâs initials or not.
slave may pencil in a new rule that Master has issued but not yet written for Master to then make permanent with pen or re-printing, at his convenience.
1)Â Â Â Â Â slave will never touch itâs genitals.
2)Â Â Â Â Â slave will never ejaculate in the traditional masculine manner. Fluid release is permitted only as a result of anal penetration, prostate stimulation or penile stimulation by Master, and only then when given permission by Master. slave will thank Master on every occasion it is allowed such fluid release.
3)Â Â Â Â Â slave will not use urinals but will always sit on the toilet for all functions. Where possible, Master will direct slave to use female toilets.
4)Â Â Â Â Â slave will not speak unless first spoken to.
5)Â Â Â Â Â slave will never interrupt anyone else when they are speaking.
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100 ways I want to get abused in 2016
Found this list on tumblr and removed some and added some suggestion for an alpha on how to abuse a slave.
Sit back and make him suck your dick, nice and slow.
Train him to deepthroat your cock.
Fuck his face, balls-deep, like itâs a pussy.
Cock slap him.
Make him lick your sweaty balls.
Make him service you in a public place (e.g., a restroom, a park, your car).
Spit on him.
Make him clean your sweaty ass after you work out.
Make him wear a puppy tail in his ass.
Piss on him.
Piss down his throat.
Piss in his ass.
Make him drink your piss from a glass.
Piss on a pair of underwear, or a jock strap, then wring it out over his face.
Finger his hole.
Fuck his ass.
Spank him.
Paddle him or whip him.
Fuck him with a dildo.
Tie him up and use his holes.
Smack or slap his face.
Call him names.
Tag team him with a buddy.
Gangbang him with a group of friends or strangers.
Whore him out to friends or strangers.
Make him sniff and lick your piss- and/or cum-stained underwear.
Gag him with your dirty underwear, jockstrap or cum rag when youâre fucking him.
Cum on his face.
Cum on his face and make him wear the load out in public.
Cum on his ass.
Cum directly down his throat.
Cum in your hand, and make him eat it from your hand like a dog.
Organize a bukkake and cover his face with multiple cum loads.
Make him eat your cum off your buddyâs cock.
Cum on the floor or a table and make him lick it up.
Make him drink your load(s) from a shot glass.
Cum on food and make him eat it.
Double-penetrate him with another Top or with a dildo.
Flick or twist his nipples.
Write names (e.g., faggot, bitch, pig, slut), pictures (e.g., a cock and balls, a pig face, a toilet) or phrases (e.g., insert cock here, with an arrow pointing to its holes) on his body.
Make him wear a butt plug out in public (e.g., to the bar, to the gym, to the grocery store).
Piss on his underwear then make him wear them home.
Tie him to your toilet when you have guys over, and tell them to use him instead of the toilet.
Donât let him cum.
Make him ask your permission to jerk off or cum.
Make him eat his own cum.
Make him jerk off or finger himself while you and/or your friends watch.
Make him watch while you fuck another faggot.
Position him beneath you while youâre fucking another faggot and make him lick your cock as it goes in and out of the faggotâs hole.
Make him eat your ass while youâre fucking another faggot.
Make him clean your cock off after you fuck him.
Make him clean your cock off after you fuck another faggot.
Make him eat your load out of another faggotâs ass.
Take photos and/or videos of him servicing your cock.
Blindfold him when you use him.
Fist his hole.
Cum in his ass.
Make him fuck another faggot, or get fucked by another faggot, while you watch.
Make him and another faggot fuck themselves on a double-ended dildo while you watch.
Make him lick your feet.
Use him as a footrest.
Make him give you a massage or footrub.
Take him to a bar; when his beerâs empty, refill the glass or bottle with your piss and make him drink it in public.
Make him pee at the urinal (e.g., at the movies, at the gym, at the bar) with his pants around his ankles so everyone knows heâs a faggot.
Shave his body.
Make him wear a puppy tail in his ass.
Save your piss in a bucket, and make him bathe with it.
Keep him in chastity.
Decide what he wears.
Make him wear a collar and leash.
Keep him in a cage.
Make him do domestic chores for you (e.g., laundry, cleaning, shopping).
Make him sniff poppers, then use him.
Make him wear a ball gag.
Make him crawl in your presence, like a dog.
Make him eat his meals out of a dog dish.
Make him service anonymous cock at a gloryhole.
Engage him in forced workouts.
Make him beg for your cock.
Feed him your pre-cum.
Make him call you âMasterâ or âSir.â
Make him wear a hood while you use him so that the only sensation he has is the feeling of your cock in his hole.
Make him lick you head to toe
Make him drink a bottle of your piss left somewhere in a public place and order him to tape it!
Go in to a clubâs bathroomat the same time and order him to leave his half full glass of his cocktail in the toilet before you and add to the cocktail your piss, leave him the glass somewhere and order him to drink it in front of you.
Go to a public bathroom together and while standing in front of urinals make him put your head down to your urinal and drink your piss.
Make a video you raping him, cuming in his ass and forcing him to drink your piss and post it on tumblr claiming ownership of him.
Make him wear a puppy tail and take him for a walk outside.
Make him wear womenâs lingery and fuck him like a whore.
Mummify him and fuck him in his mouth and ass.
Tie him up with chains or rope and let him sleep on the floor next to your bed.
Choke him while you fuck him in missionary position.
Pull his hair while you fuck him in doggy position.
Make him wear a collar showing your ownership in public.
Make him come to your work place and service you in anyway you need.
Make him wear a cock cage.
Make him wear ball weights.
Make him give you his social profile passwords to monitor his communication.
Make him raport sexual contacts with other guys.
Make him write an online diary of all sexual contacts and sub duties.
Feel like 84 today, a full small bottle of piss from an alpha âŚ
A fun filled weekend :)
Slaves wishes.
Exactly what this slaves needs. To serve.
Audio from Men's Discussions
I have been digging through old archives and found the following audio recordings of Menâs Discussions that I moderated a few years ago at weekly gatherings for FetishMenSanDiego. Â These were extremely popular worldwide when they were new, being downloaded, and listened to, on every major land-mass except Antarctica (those darned penguins!).
Theyâre re-posted here, to help folks find something that may be of good use. Â They are a treasure-trove of interpersonal wisdom and open, honest sharing by many men.
Being an Effective Top
Intro To Master Class
Being an Effective Top: Why is it a Good Idea?
Being an Effective Top, Part One
What is the Ideal Top?
Being an Effective Top, Part Two
Being an Effective Top, Part Three
Top Talk
Bottom Talk
Leadership
Giving Permission as a Guiding Philosophy
The New Leaders
Constituency vs. Bossiness vs. Title Vests vs. Leadership
How To Build Real Community in the Internet Age
Jack McGeorgeâs 2003 Leadership Lecture
Welcoming New Men into the Community
Men in Crowds: Cooperation vs. Competition
Training a Submissive
Establishing Trust with a Capital T
Safe, Sane and NON-Consensual
Finding the Buttons
The Training Process
Relationships
How Do We Meet in the Internet Age?
Relationships, Polyamory and Jealousy
Jealousy
Single Men
Turn Ons/Turn Offs
Leathermenâs History
Stories From The Old Days
Papa Tonyâs Verbal History, Part One: The Good Old Days
Papa Tonyâs Verbal History, Part Two: The Bad Old Days
Miscellaneous Topics
Intentional Sexuality
Male Grief and Our Fathers
Body Electric
The New Generation (TNG)
Size Matters
Folsom Street Fair Tips
Role Play
Coming Out
Left Of The Slash
Internet Dangers
Review of the Butchmanns Experience in Arizona
Fisting for Tops
Penis: Friend Or Foe?
Fetlife Tutorial For Gay Men
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WARNING: Rated extra insidiousâŚLISTEN AT YOUR OWN RISK!
Use: loop this 20 minute-file using headphones while you sleep
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Calling all young fags!
This is a call for all young faggots who want to be owned and used by an alpha. Hit me up or reblog so alphas know you are looking.
Fake fags need not apply
Where are the young local Fags? Massachusetts here.
Like the post says above: no fake faggots. Stay the fuck away.
How to show respect and devotion to Alphas
1. If you are dining out with an Alpha (whether he is a work colleague or friend), always pay his bill. If the bill goes beyond your spending capacity, have something small and cheap yourself and let him have the best and most expensive food.
2. When an alpha is queuing behind you at the supermarket check out, let him pass and bow your head.
3. When you see an Alpha in the locker room of a gym with an inconvenient locker (ie in the corner or close to the floor), offer him your locker if it is at a better place.
4. If you donât serve an Alpha in real life, make sure you contribute financially to one of the Superiors here at tumblr (if you like a list of alphas accepting fag taxes, message me).
5. When an Alpha is queuing behind you in a public bathroom let him pass and bow your head.
6. When you address an Alpha or an Alpha addresses you, always refer to him as Sir, even if he is much younger than you. Bow your head for greetings.
7. Share your stories and thoughts on tumblr. Itâs important that the world understands that it is ok to be a beta male that needs guidance and leadership from superiors. There should be a network of betas that allows alphas to easily find a servant if they need one.
8. Never disagree with an Alpha, or contradict him. Alphas donât take interest in arguing with betas or fags. They do that among themselves.
9. Should you live with an Alpha, make sure you do all the household chores, in a way that it is not too obvious. Make sure that particularly the bathroom is always spotless.
10. Learn skills that enable you to be useful to Alphas (ironing, handicraft, giving massages whatever).
11. When an Alpha drops something on the floor and you are close by, go and pick it up for him, even if it just landed next to his shoes.
12. When you work with an Alpha on a joint project at work, downplay your contribution and praise him in front of the others.
13. Praise the Alphas you know every day, ie in front of other people. Be mindful of their achievements and the hard work they do to run our societies, and make sure everyone knows, a little bit like the apostles praised the deeds of Jesus.
14. When you see two Alphas talking with each other, donât interrupt them but wait at an adequate and respectful distance until they have finished, even if your matter is urgent.
15. When an Alpha arrives to a restaurant where all seats are taken, get up and offer him yours.
16. When you donât have much money to tribute to Alphas to make their lives easier, review your spending. There is always some way to reduce your spending to be able to make at least a humble contribution.
17. Encourage your friends to serve Alphas. Most men nowadays are ashamed to admit that they want to serve. Tell them itâs ok to be deferent and respectful to Alphas.
Learn it. Live it. Hierarchy is reality.
Some suggestions
Plenty of fags could learn from this.
No one is interested in a fagâs opinions, a fagâs personality or any other aspect of what makes a faggot unique. Faggots serve a purpose. They are a utility. Nothing more.Â
57 Ways to Humiliate a Sub Faggot
Humiliation is an important part of every faggotâs training. When a Man humiliates a faggot, Heâs teaching him humility (a faggot must remain humble and not allow his ego to get in the way of his ability to serve and obey superior Men), respect (a faggot must learn to show appreciation and esteem to superior Men) and obedience (a faggot must learn to cede all control to superior Men). Plus, itâs just plain fun to embarrass or shame a faggot sometimes â and faggots exist to amuse as much as they do to serve.
Unfortunately, faggots have very little shame. Therefore, it can sometimes be difficult to imagine new ways to humiliate them. With that in mind, iâve created a the following list of 57 ways for Men to humiliate Their faggots. Go forth, Men, and have fun playing with your subs!
Make him wear a butt plug and send him to the gym to workout â ensuring that he changes and showers in the locker room with the butt plug still in.
Cum on his face or in his hair, then send him out to run errands for You; make it clear that heâll be severely punished if he returns and You discover that heâs wiped the cum off.
Call or text him at will and order him to piss his pants and send You a picture of it. If You do it when You know heâs out in public â at a bar, perhaps, or on the train during their evening commute home from work â even better.
Serve him his dinner in a dog bowl and make him eat it â sans utensils â kneeling like an animal on the floor next to You while You sit and eat Your dinner at the table like the Man You are.
Make him serve as a piece of furniture â a footrest, perhaps, or a coffee table on which people can set their drinks â during Your next party.
Make him address You as âSirâ in public. He should already be doing it in private, but addressing You that way in public will take Your power dynamic to a whole new level. To kick it up yet another notch, make him call You âMaster.â
Outfit him with an ashtray mouth gag and station him on Your patio for smokers to use during Your next get-together.
Spontaneously order him to jerk off to completion in front of You or others in a random or inopportune time and/or place. Then, make him eat his load.
Forbid him from using the restroom for the day and make him wear a diaper, instead. Let him know youâll be inspecting the diaper later, so heâd better make use of it.
Make him use the bathroom â piss and/or shit, Your choice â in front of You or others.
Perform an unannounced strip search and/or cavity check in an unexpected time or place â out at a bar, for instance, or in the parking lot when Youâre out running errands.
Piss or cum into his food; make him eat it while You watch.
Forbid him to walk in front of You; faggots have to crawl on all fours.
Lock him in a cage naked during Your next party and let Your guests ogle at him like a zoo animal.
Dress him in slutty clothes and send him out in public to run errands for You.
Make him give himself an enema while You watch.
Make him use the urinal in a public mensroom with his pants around his ankles; or, if he has to shit, make him do so in a stall with the door wide open. Alternatively, or in addition, require that he always keep the door wide open when heâs using the bathroom at home.
Make him wear a leash and collar in Your presence. Or, even better, out in public.
Forbid him from making eye contact with You.
Handcuff him in public.
Make him kneel in a public restroom with the word âtoiletâ written on his forehead.
Lock his cock in a chastity device.
Lock his cock in a chastity device, then make him change at the gym, the swimming pool, the beach, etc., with the cock cage on.
Shave his head.
Shave all his body hair.
Scold him like heâs a little boy.
Reprimand him in public when he does something bad.
Spank him in public.
Write âfaggotâ on his face or body with suntan lotion, then take him sunbathing and let the sun âbrandâ him.
Make him wear a T-shirt out in public that says âiâm a faggot,â or âslave,â or âpussyboy,â or âcumdump.â
Put him in a timeout, standing naked in the corner facing the wall for a period of time.
Spit in his face â bonus if itâs a loogie â and make him keep it there to dry. Forbid him from wiping it off.
Take him to the bathhouse with messages like âbreed meâ or âi drink pissâ or âcocksuckerâ written all over his body in permanent marker.
Next time heâs eating Your ass, rip a fart in his face.
Next time You take a dump, take Your finger â or even Your turd itself â and wipe a streak of shit on his upper lip. Demand that he wear Your shit mustache there all day.
Make him suck a dildo in a public place â in the car on the highway during rush hour, for example â so others can see.
Only allow him to use the bathroom outside, like a dog.
Make him eat things out of Your ass.
Gag him with Your cock until he pukes, then make him lick up his vomit.
Make him sleep on the floor next to your bed, instead of in the bed.
Slap him. Hard.
Make him lick your shoes or boots â on command, in public.
Pee next to him at the urinal when Youâre out and about; turn and face him so that You piss on him instead of in the urinal. Laugh, and make him walk around with Your piss all over him.
Make him wipe Your ass for You. Either with toilet paper, with his hand or with his tongue. All three are extremely humiliating.
Make him verbally recite a list of five, 10, 20 â whatever â things he loves and admires about You.
Cut or a rip a hole in the seat of his pants and send him out wearing them without underwear on underneath.
Give him an enema and then take him on a walk around the neighborhood with it still in. Make sure heâs wearing light-colored pants or shorts. Heheheh.
Make him flash his hole to strangers in the car on the highway, at a rest stop, or another location of Your choosing.
Whenever You need to use the toilet â at home or in public â escort him in with You and make him lick it clean for You so you have a pristine place to relieve Yourself.
Clip a clothes pin to his tongue and make him say âi am a faggotâ 10 times until heâs drooling all over himself.
After you fuck him, hose him off naked in the yard like a dirty animal.
Make him approach a stranger and âconfessâ something dirty and embarrassing. Like, âHello, iâm a faggot, and i like to sniff Menâs asses.â Or, âHello, iâm a faggot, and my cunt is filled with cum right now.â Or, âHello, iâm a faggot, and i drink piss.â
Make him make animal noises for You on command: âBark like a dog!â Or, âMeow like a cat!â Or, âShow me what sound a pig makes!â
Make him clean his cunt every time he shits. Pre-mix a cleaning solution for him to use â Your piss, perhaps, mixed with some dish soap â and store it in a spray bottle labeled âfag bathâ or âcunt cleaner.â Make him display this cleaner next to the toilet in his home, where any guests are sure to see it.
Take him into a photobooth and make him pose for pictures with Your cock in his mouth, then walk away and make him leave the pictures for the next patron to find â not knowing who will find them or what theyâll do with them.
Make him approach a stranger at a bar, in a bathroom or at a sex club and beg for their cock, piss or cum.
Make him dust Your home using a feather duster stuck up his ass.
For all those who want tasks to do. Get started faggots.
Fags need to focus on what a man wants
I hear too many times how a fag, slave, or sub is suggesting what they think would be hot to do. They ask to be humiliated and used. They talk about their fantasies. The cunts are missing the mark.
It should always be about what a man wants and helping him feel like the King he is.
- pay attention to what a man says the first time. - donât ask 100 questions just notice what he enjoys. - donât make him repeat himself. - notice where he likes to sit when he enters. - is his drink within arms reach? - I what is his favorite snack and is it next to him? - does he like silence and to unwind without having to order you to around. Is the tv turned on to his shoe or the book he was reading out next to him. - is everything clean and smelling the way he likes - does he sigh in content when you take the initiative as a footstool after all the chores are done. - does he prefer you not be in view so you wait in a closet or knelt behind where he sits until needed. - he should never have to ask for a refill - he should never have to initiate boot or foot worship. - does it please the man you serve when you humiliate yourself for his amusement. - have you taken the time to have the items he likes to use ready without having to go look for them. - have you asked the man you serve if there is something he would like some better (after working on what he has already instructed - have you asked yourself what you could do to make His life easier or more convenient today?
These are minimal things a faggot should be thinking of. So the next time you think, âit would be really hot if master didâŚ,â try adjusting yourself to anticipate his needs.
Imagine how it would feel for a man not to have to order a fag to do the next basic thing. What if the fag just had what a man wanted ready.
Golden standard for us, faggots!
Beautiful post
So many faggots need to read this. Too many fags message me with their needs and wants while ignoring the words Iâm saying to them. I have no problem ending it with a fag when he doesnât listen. Using the excuse âbut Iâm just a dumb faggot who needs trainingâ. Fuck off. Every time we talk is a training session.
How To Apologize
Yes, sometimes we do need to really go down into the basics, donât we? I should be frank; most people do not have a clue how to apologize. Until about two years ago I had no idea how to apologize, because Iâd never given it much thought.
We can start by running through a bad apology.
- Use words that signpost what youâre doing as an apology; say that youâre sorry, that you want to apologize, that you regret your actions.
- Explain how it wasnât actually your fault, OR vaguely gesture towards some truism that exonerates you. This can take many forms, but it can be anything from âit was a dumb mistake, but we all do stupid thingsâ to âyou see I was already really angry about-â.
- Imply that the apology is all that is needed for things to return to normal, as though this is the default resolution.
Bad apologies look and sound like an apology superficially, present mitigating circumstances, and are made with the intention of returning things to normal. I hope that everyone reading this can understand that this approach is a bad one. Here is a framework for a good apology. Itâs pretty hefty, so certainly save it for a serious situation.
1: INTENT. Ask yourself why you are apologizing. To give a meaningful apology, you need to start with the intent to apologize. You arenât trying to fix the relationship or win them back, or get your friend to stop hating you, or anything like that. Youâre going in to show that you know what you did is wrong, to make amends, and you donât have any selfish intent.
2: DEMONSTRATE EMPATHY. Show the person youâre apologizing to that youâve given some thought to why what you did is wrong. Show that youâve put yourself in their shoes. Be ready to listen here, since the person youâve wronged may want to make sure you actually understand what they went through.
3: SHOW REMORSE. Say that you feel guilty over what you did, and that you know you did something wrong. If thereâs anything you can do to make amends, this is a good place to offer that.
4: EXPLAIN INTENT. With 2 and 3 behind you, you can simply make it clear that you wanted to apologize because you know you wronged them, and you feel it is right that you apologize. If you feel itâs necessary, make it clear that youâre apologizing in the hope of making things better and giving some closure, and not because you plan to gain something from it.
5: THEIR MOVE. This is an interactive process, not a one-sided one. Keep in mind that no one owes you their forgiveness or their time. So make it clear that you understand that. Itâs up to you whether you move past it. A good apology may improve your odds, since youâre showing real remorse and empathizing with them, but that isnât the purpose of it.
Hereâs an example.
I know that what I did was out of order. You were clearly uncomfortable and I pushed too hard, and I should have known that you would be embarrassed and angry. It was wrong of me, and Iâm sorry. I upset you, and I want to do what I can to make you feel better, or give you some closure. I hope that you forgive me, but I understand if you feel you canât.
Actually apologizing requires some introspection and maturity. To do it properly you need to put your own ego aside and do what you can to make the other person feel better. Itâs a skill that is definitely worth developing.
Good points! A few other things to NOT do when you apologize: 1) Donât make it conditional: âIf I said that, Iâm sorry.â The whole point of an apology is to admit you did something wrong, so donât try to weasel out of it. Better: âI said something that hurt you, and I really regret it.â 2) Donât make it about the other personâs perceptions: âIâm really sorry if you thought I was ignoring you.â This one is about trying to making the issue the other personâs reaction instead of your action. Better: âI didnât mean to make you feel ignored, but I did. Iâm sorry. Iâll be more careful next time.â 3) Donât use the passive voice. âMistakes were made.â Who made the mistake? Some other guy? No, YOU made it, so itâs youâre responsibility. You see this ALL THE TIME with politicians and corporations. Better: âI made a mistake when I stood you up. Iâm really sorry.â 4) Donât use what the other person did as an excuse to justify your actions. âYou cheated on me, so I felt I had to even the score.â Youâre an adult, and you have complete control over your actions. Just because the other person did something that upset you doesnât mean you get to upset them. Abusers use this CONSTANTLY as a way to make their victim feel guilty. Better: âI shouldnât have slept with him. I know I was angry that you cheated, but I still shouldnât have done it.â 5) Donât claim that what you didnât does represent you. âI know I lied to you, but thatâs not who I really am.â Sorry, buttercup, if you did it, itâs exactly who you are. Weâre defined by our actions and choices, not by what we want to be true. Better: âIâm sorry that I lied to you. I donât want to be the sort of person who lies, so Iâm gonna do my best to be more honest with you in the future.â What does this have to do with BDSM and kink, the whole subject of this blog? Two things. A) Kinky relationships are still relationships, and relationships involve apologizing occasionally. Doms and subs screw up just like everyone else, and we have to learn to apologize to those weâve hurt or offended. The line between BDSM and abuse can get a little blurry sometimes, and apologizing is one of the things that helps keep it from moving into non-consensual territory (although abusers often apologizeâsee #4). Iâve had to apologize to my boys several times, once or twice for really major fuck-ups. Itâs sucks, but itâs still my responsibility because Iâve got the control. B) A lot of guys eroticize cheating. This is particularly true of cucks and their bulls, as well as âstraightâ guys on the DL. If youâve got an agreement that cheating is ok, itâs not really cheating. If you donât have such an agreement, stop doing it and apologize and have a long talk with your partner about your needs. Cheating is, by definition, non-consensual, and non-consensual play insât BDSM; itâs abuse. Man up, even if youâre a pussyboy, and be honest about your needs.
I canât love this enough. Owning our mistakes and acknowledging that weâve hurt/upset someone is so important. Listen to understand, not to reply!