Living In The Midst Of Day Dreams

hs class of '22 / she-her/ xvi/ aspiring english literature/classics major/ virgo/ yes i listen to sweater weather

[europeanarchitecture]

English Gothic Cathedrals

A History of Architecture on the Comparative Method by Sir Banister Fletcher

[suninks-moved]

I LOVE YOUR WRITING!!! ONLY WROTE ONE WORD? BEAUTIFUL. WROTE TEN PAGES? AWESOME. HAVENT WRITTEN IN MONTHS? YOURE STILL DOING GREAT SWEETIE

[iamcland3stine]

i needed this omg

[heronb]

ok not to be adhd on main but if you even JOKINGLY make fun of me for my interests thats it. i wont ever be able to trust you again because im positive youre constantly judging me and making fun of me behind my back. thats just the way it is!!

[heronb]

to all the people vaguing people in the tags: get better friends

[heronb]

it ABSOLUTELY is, adhd and autistic experiences overlap so so much and i have both so this post is solidarity

[quinintheclouds]

If I may add, as an ADHD person if you insult (even jokingly) something I enjoy, I will no longer enjoy that thing as much. Every time I watch that show you called cringe I remember that you did that. You said the writing was unfunny, so now I don’t laugh at the jokes as much, even alone, and I feel like I shouldn’t enjoy it anymore if it’s bad. (And then I also believe you think I’m unfunny and my sense of humor is just bad) So I have to rationalize “Ok I know this part is awkward but I like it a little sometimes” in my head to justify my enjoyment, and that just makes the whole experience less fun. I’ll never express strong interest in something around you again. 

Sharing hyperfixations is a VULNERABLE act of trust, and if it goes badly, we just go right back to being ashamed of being happy.

[thatsmycigarbutyoucanborrowit-d]

WAIT SO THIS ISNT NORMAL??????????? I THOUGH EVERYONE HAD THAT.

[iamcland3stine]

y-your friends arent supposed to make fun of your interests?

[gold-finch]

books?? amazing. paperbacks?? soft, cozy, may fit in your pocket, cheap so you don’t feel bad for taking notes in them. hardcovers??? beautiful, pristine, ground you into the world they hold by making you grip them tighter, the stars of every bookshelf. ebooks?? convenient, cheap, always with you, a vast library that you can hold in your palm. new books?? crisp, the smell of wood, ideas waiting to imprint themselves upon the world. old books?? objects transcending history, sweet smelling, enriched by the hands that stroked their pages. books.

[nomediocre]

Move and live at your own pace. Just as important, live for YOU!

[disc80s]

[april]

buddy its november

[april]

wait.

[apocalypse-gang]

Are finales that hard?? Or are you just that homophobic?? That bad at writing? Just pretend you like your fans somewhat. Jesus. Y'all deserved more

[pill-bottles-as-percussion]

I know this is about SPN but I read “finales” as “finals” and thought this was a specific call out post to me not writing my final paper. 

[apocalypse-gang]

The implication that you thought I was calling you homophobic for not doing your paper is killing me

[valtsv]

fuck you (confession of love)

[listentothestories]

[5nov202-deactivated20210826]

before you post, consider:

is it FUNNY BUT ONLY TO YOU AND A FEW SELECT MUTUALS?

is it USELESS?

is it a COMPLAINT?

will it KILL YOUR FUTURE CAREER?

if any of the above are true, hit that POST button!

[chocolatecroissant]

productive things to do that aren’t studying

make your bed

take a shower

do some journaling

exercise/take a walk

try a new recipe to make for lunch

tidy your room

listen to a podcast

declutter your phone and laptop

read a book

take a break (taking breaks are productive!!)

[cheapfilling]

college is catered towards the able bodied and able minded. school applauds people who can stay up all night, skip meals, and work endlessly. that kind of extreme contribution is expected. why are disabled people being squeezed out of academic institutions? why should I feel inferior because of some arbitrary and ridiculous standard?

[sickly-tired]

The undying truth.

[sylveon-trender-deactivated2019]

Not to mention, every college campus Ive ever been on is MADE of stairs and hills.

[captainamerica-inmiddleearth]

I tried to talk to one of my college professors about my ADHD once and he literally stopped me and said if I couldn’t handle it I shouldn’t be there

[closet-keys]

Read the book Academic Ableism on this subject. It’s an excellent read and I genuinely think about it all the time still even though I read it a couple years ago.

[fullofbugs84uy894ujui9]

reminder that this blog, while not politically focused, supports BLM. bootlickers and racists aren’t welcome here, and never will be.

[desihinata-archived-deactivated]

rivals (romantically)

[tracing-rivers]

I apologize for the harshness of my words, Miss Bennet, but your family is just so cringe

[argumate]

I simp for you most ardently

[sapphic-poets-society]

My current aeshtetic is going through dark academia posts romanticising studying while procrastinating my homework