I am gayce

I'm a gayce person, welcome!

[iamgayce]

The fact that gayness is so intrinsically tied to sex, and sexuality is fucked up. Being gay needs to exist outside of what you do in bed. This ends up sexualising children, I don't need to elaborate on what makes it wrong.

Allonormativity sucks, allonormativity ruins what it means to hold a certain identity. By extension, this makes being gayce, not experiencing the sexual attraction in homosexual complicated. If you don't experience the attraction that's in the name, can you really hold that identity?

Theoretically, in an ideal, accepting world? Yes. If you ask me, definitely, hell, I AM ace and homo. But many consider this identity to be invalid, wrongfully so.

[iamgayce]

Sex repulsed, ace, gay people are valid, no questions asked. They aren't weird, they aren't prudish, they aren't lesser, they're valid. End of story

[iamgayce]

THE FLAG

What is this flag, and what does it mean? It's the gayce flag! I designed it, and did it by combining the gay men ocean flag, and the ace flag. Let's break down the colours!

Black - asexuality, same as the black stripe in the ace flag, this is where sex repulsed people are included too ^^

Teal - healing, queer people have dealt with a lot, and I felt like it was an important part to include

Purple - community, like in the ace flag, and it's what makes the ace flag recognisable, so it highlights the ace in gayce

White - non-binary and trans people, being agender I really had to include this

Light blue - love, romantic, platonic, queerplatonic, alterous, any kind of love ^^

Dark blue - the courage shown by activists and advocates, which are still needed for the ace, gay, and gayce communities

Cool purple - diversity and inclusivity, which is important in all the beforementioned communities

You are all welcome to use this flag wherever you want! ^^

[iamgayce]

What does "gayce" mean? It means gay asexual. What's that? Someone who is gay and asexual, like me! I'm gay, an agender, quite masc presenting person who is in love with a boygirl. I'm also apothisexual, hence I use the term gayce. What's this blog for? My experience being gayce, the observations I make in the world. I'll post art and stories and things too. I'm happy to have you here, and to answer questions!