The fact that gayness is so intrinsically tied to sex, and sexuality is fucked up. Being gay needs to exist outside of what you do in bed. This ends up sexualising children, I don't need to elaborate on what makes it wrong.
Allonormativity sucks, allonormativity ruins what it means to hold a certain identity. By extension, this makes being gayce, not experiencing the sexual attraction in homosexual complicated. If you don't experience the attraction that's in the name, can you really hold that identity?
Theoretically, in an ideal, accepting world? Yes. If you ask me, definitely, hell, I AM ace and homo. But many consider this identity to be invalid, wrongfully so.














