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I’ve loved being able to express myself as a woman here, in a safe and meaningful way. Fuck the fucking patriarchy of this fucking website. Au revoir to all my fans and followers. May you give and/or get girlcock to your heart’s desire...

What time is it, you ask?

Time for your feeding.

Now lay back while I straddle your face.

My panties #panty fetish

We bickered about several things last night. We worked our way through it, but feelings got hurt. He left me this a few hours ago. A spreader bar, a good crop, and get-out-the-aggression sex > makeup sex. I love this man. 💋

1 holiday weekend. 2 of us. 3 days. 4 hands. 5 holes, all heavily used. Girlcock hanging on me or the bed ALL weekend!

Thank you!

To my now thousands of followers. I love that there’s so many pegging fans out there!! I’ve gotten lots of mail and messages with similar questions, so here’s some information about me:

I’m in my mid-40s and live somewhere in the mountains of the western US.

I’ve been into pegging sex since 2008.

Yes, my avatar picture really is me -- and yes, I do have great legs :-)

I peg him regularly, but I’m generally the submissive one. We both just really enjoy switching it up at times. He’s a natural dominant, but enjoys taking a break and finding some subspace (and those prostate orgasms!). And I enjoy taking the lead from time to time, though it took me a while to get comfortable in a dominant role. (But now when I put on corset/heels/cock and am holding my riding crop....well....)

We don’t play with cages/chastity. To each their own - it’s just not our cup of tea. (Though stories about hotwives turn me on...). For me, chastity wouldn’t make him any more eager to please me (he’s very obedient if I’ve got the girlcock on), and I can always tie him up if I need more control. Also, a cage would deny me the wonderful pleasure of playing with his big, beautiful cock (and getting blasted with that yummy hot come!)

I’m sorry to say I don’t know any magic way to make a woman peg her man, get her into pegging, etc. All I can say is communicate and be honest with your partner about your wants and needs. Having a solid, trusting relationship where you treat your woman right in all aspects of life is probably the best start IMO. My man treats me so well -- physically, emotionally, intellectually, domestically, sexually -- that my desire to please him goes through the roof. And you have to accept that it may be a hard limit for some.

What are some pegging ideas? -Send naughty texts all day about strapon play, then come home for a session. Have him waiting and ready. Something deliciously naughty about coming in, strapping up, and taking him. Bonus points for coming in wearing it under a trenchcoat.

-When out in public (parties are great), constantly whisper teasing things about strapon play into his ear. Watch the arousal on his face and in his pants. You’ll be dying to get home...

-Wear your strapon while watching TV. Get head and other pleasures during commercials while the heat builds. I love wearing it under a naughty schoolgirl skirt for this game.

-Before a girls’ night out, go to town on him femdom-style. You’ll have great flashbacks all evening.

-Say nothing, but fuck hard and make him talk about how much he’s enjoying it the entire time.

-You fully clothed, him fully naked nicely enhances the vulnerability/control aspect.

-Have a big “fight” - get angry, push and shove, wrestle. Have makeup strapon sex. My aggression level skyrockets when we play this little game.

-Make a pair of naughty, too-short cutoffs from some old jeans. Put on some high wedges, a sexy top, and wear the strapon so through the fly. Find a full-length mirror for some sucking and fucking -- the visuals are amazing!

-Pegging in front of a bunch of mirrors with him blindfolded.

-Film a session, then have him watch it and masturbate over facetime when you’re apart.

Finally, yes, we may post anonymous pics/video of us someday...you’ll just have to keep following to find out....

Keep your kink on!

-Rati

You have such an amazing blog. Lucky guy who gets to take your strapon ;)

Thanks for the compliments on the blog!Yes, he's damn lucky to get to take it. ;-)But I'm damn lucky to have a perfect ass and adventurous gentleman to use for my pleasure. I mean, he happily chooses to swallow my girlcock instead of oxygen. Hearing him gagging reminds me of that and makes me weak in the knees.

Hi, how often do you fuck your man with a strapon?

Very!

"I have a sore throat..." ...was the very first thing he said when he woke up this morning. I smiled and touched his neck. Rati got a bit ethusiastic with her mouth fucking last night 🙋

Hi, wonderful Tumblr.. Any tips for on how to take charge and penetrate my man? He wants it, I want to give, but we are both scared. any tips to overcome the apprehension?

Thank you! The blog is such fun.

If you are first timers, my tips would be to read up as much as you can about toys, prep, methods, etc., then to have fun with it, go very slowly at first, have lots and lots of foreplay on him with toys and hands before you take him for a ride, and communicate openly. Talk, talk, talk while you’re doing it.

If you are wanting to kick up the feeling of being in charge, my tips:

-Make a day of it. If you’re ready for pegging and have such a sexy blog, I’d guess you know how to turn each other on. Spend the day getting turned on, but with a focus on things that please YOU. Have him do little things or tasks (both sexual and non-) to your satisfaction. Remind him he’ll get pegged if he pleases you. We both find anticipation so exciting. I also like to make him masturbate for me sometime during the day if we’re planning a pegging for that night. You clothed in some hot shoes and stockings, him naked. Again, remind him if he doesn’t do it to your satisfaction, no pegging later. The more turned on you get during the day, the less apprehensive you’ll be when the moment comes.

- Blindfolds are incredible. We used them a lot at first to overcome apprehension. Having him blindfolded made me WAAAY less self-conscious to watch, give him instructions, talk dirty, etc. I still blindfold him often.

-Spend some time alone wearing your strapon before you peg him. Get used to wearing it, the feel of it, the look of it and you won’t feel as apprehensive. Wear it around the house, lie in bed and play with it, masturbate with it on, play with it in front of a mirror. I still wear mine around alone, and i find that seeing it and thinking of what I’ll be doing to him with it makes me wet and horny and the more horny, the less apprehension.

Good luck!

notes2myhotwife Hi iamrati. Thank you for such a sexy, open, well-written blog. I'm curious about two things. First, are you a monogamous couple or do you include others in your play? Second, does it turn you on more when you use a larger strapon on him? Does seeing him handle longer/thicker cock increase your excitement in some way? If yes, how? Thanks for your response.

Thanks for the compliment, I’m glad you like my blog.

Except for one time when we played in a foreign country with a sex professional, we are a monogamous couple. While we love group sex fantasies (I love two-women fantasies, and he loves the fantasy of being strapon spit-roasted), we know that, for us, making them a reality would likely lead to lots of unforeseen issues, emotions, etc., and we don’t want to jeopardize what a great thing we have.

As to the question on using a larger strapon, it varies for me. There’s no question that when I’m in the mood to put on my leather corset and thigh-high boots and use my riding crop, I love seeing that huge Outlaw hanging heavy between my legs. And there’s no question that seeing him take such a huge cock all the way inside is incredibly exciting.

That said, I can’t fuck him very hard or as fast with such a huge tool. And as readers of my blog will know, I’ve got a fetish for him deepthroating, and my Outlaw is just too big for that. Seeing him repeatedly take my eight-inch cock all the way down his throat, then take it hard and deep in his ass over and over, is sometimes more exciting than the “wow” factor of seeing him slowly take a huge one.

I love it all!

I just want to tell you that your blog is amazing. From your descriptions of your sessions, I can tell your husband is a lucky guy.

Thank you for the compliment! I think he IS a lucky guy, but I KNOW I’m a lucky girl. It’s not all luck. We both believe in being GGG:

G is good -- if you’re going to be a lover to someone, be good at it by learning what they like and knowing how to please them. Communicate openly, but also learn from other resources about how to please your partner.

G is giving -- Be a giving partner. Give them what they want, when they want it, as much as possible. Of course you wont always be on the same page all the time with availability, how horny you are, etc. We’re both still damn hot for each other, but there are certainly times where one of us isn’t as in the mood as the other...though we almost always oblige when the other has a need for sex.

G is game -- Be game to try new and different things. You might even discover things you had no idea you’d love. That’s exactly what happened with me after he asked to try pegging. He’s the most sexual man I’ve ever known (and that’s saying a lot), so he’s always game for anything I want to try.

After talking about it and researching many strapon options...which seemed like forever, we've finally found the time for a few sessions. She says she loves the feeling of having a cock and fucking me. Has that feeling diminished for you over time?

Congrats and welcome to the club! Hope you have lots of fun together!

For me, the feeling has only increased over time.

When we first started with pegging, it was a little bit strange and awkard and funny, because it was so new and different. In our day-to-day life, I’m very submissive to him and he’s a dominant alpha male, so it was a little bit hard for me to be the dominant. Now we both love the times when we get to switch.

Early on, I’d sometimes wear my strapon around the house when I was home alone. It got me used to having a girlcock, and I started to love wearing it. Once I’d pegged him a few times, when I was less self-conscious and saw the incredible pleasure he got from it, I started to LOVE having a cock and fucking him. We talked about everything very openly (communication is so key), so I knew that he loved having me ‘own’ my girlcock and doing all the same deliciously nasty, rough stuff he does to me with his cock.

Early on, we also discovered that role-playing games help enhance the dynamic (secretary’s revenge on boss, cop/prisoner, the ‘casting couch’ with me as the film producer and he desperate for the part, rich woman with boytoy servant, etc), and we still do role-plays sometimes.

Now it’s just a part of who we are sexually, and I never fail to get hot and wet when I strap it on, knowing that it’s “my tool, my rules.” Once he knows he’s going to get pegged and there’s a prostate orgasm coming, he’ll do whatever I want. Knowing that he’s so desperate for the pleasure only I can provide is ALWAYS a turn on (who doesn’t love being the object of desire?), so I have fun with it and do things that make me feel even more powerful -- I’ll make him beg to suck it, I’ll slap his face and tongue with it or hold it against his throat and show him how deep I’ll be going, I’ll make him beg me to fuck him, or have him watch me stroke it while he fucks himself with a plug and tells me how much he wants it. And I will say that putting him on his knees and making him maintain eye contact while he’s giving me head makes me dizzy with power and ravenously hungry to fuck him.

Hello there. Your posts and stories are so amazing! Great job!

That’s so sweet of you to say. I feel so lucky to have an enlightened man who’s secure with his sexuality, a strong sex drive of my own, and a very kinky mind.

As always, I aim to please....

Do you share photos with your followers? Also, does your man ever wear a plug?

Sorry, don’t share photos with anyone other than my man. We talk about posting a faceless photo of a pegging session, so that might happen someday.

He LOVES plugs, and has three. A small one, a big one, and a medium-sized glass one. He’s been playing with plugs since long before I met him. He always wears a plug during foreplay/sex before I fuck him with a strapon. Sometimes I’ll come home and he’ll have one in and he’ll show me, ‘cause he knows it gets me pretty much instantly wet. And we’ve gone grocery shopping together a few times while he had one in -- I’ll discreetly give it a little tap or push while we walk the aisles. ;-)

Right Now

He's horny from my last couple of posts. We started happy hour about an hour ago. He wants me to peg him right now. So I'm going upstairs to give him 10 inches

PUBLIC STRAPON

I’ve worn it in public a few times.

Once, I wore it in the car and drove around while he gave me road head and fingered my pussy at the same time.

Once, I wore it to a hotel bar under a dress while we had a drink before going upstairs to fuck.

Once, I wore it to a dimly lit restaurant after a day of skiing.

And I’ve fucked him good in hotel windows, but that’s not really public (though I always hope someone sees).

These days, we use MUCH bigger strapons than we used to, so it would be next to impossible to be discreet. I use my Outlaw the most these days, and I just don’t think I could hide that!

One of my biggest strapon fantasies is pegging him in public. Maybe someday we’ll find just the right dark alley or something....

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