Lighten Up & Live A Little

Sham | 29 | Just trying to survive, one hyperfixation at a time | I’ve got a lot of opinions | | Lyrically Illiterate | multifandom mess (mostly hockey soz w a lil bit of everything else) |

[lailesbian]

omg whatttt

[eudaimoniac]

MINTEN’S FIRST GOAL OF THE TOURNAMENT

[kaleidoscopeminds]

up for a cuddle at any time of the day ♡

[fortuneaday]

[rabiesofficial]

[starrynet]

what the online hockey discourse sounds like

[starrynet]

what is the responsibility of a wag jacket?

to change minds

to reflect culture

to represent all of us

to innovate fashion

to charge bravely into the future

to lead us where no one has gone before

Voting ended onApr 27

[hocketing]

legit teared up at this oh JAMIE <3

[jbthegift]

Pioneers 😭🚀 🌙

[muzzlesbian]

just saw a post talking about the misogynistic phenomenon of men frequently offloading household tasks to women & expecting us to do them... and describing it as "learned helplessness"

we are putting that term on the shelf

[muzzlesbian]

Learned helplessness is the behavior exhibited by a subject after enduring repeated aversive stimuli beyond their control. In humans, learned helplessness is related to the concept of self-efficacy, the individual's belief in their innate ability to achieve goals.

literal first paragraph of the wikipedia article for learned helplessness. this is a depression symptom. it is frequently caused by lifelong abuse from controlling authority figures. it is the exact OPPOSITE of an abuse tactic and would most likely be displayed by the WOMEN in that kind of scenario!!

the actual relevant term for what the man is doing is probably "weaponized incompetence" which is an abuse tactic. please for the love of fuck do not conflate the two

[susiephone]

pick a song that starts with number

400 luxe - lord

the 1 - taylor swift

29 - demi lovato

5 things i can see - teenage joans

21 questions - waterparks

4chan stan - lily allen

15 minutes - sabrina carpenter

7seas - chloe moriondo

1 step forward, 2 steps back - olivia rodrigo

3am - halsey

44 (forget forever) - woosung

2 bed, 2 bath (and a ghost) - bug hunter

Voting ended onApr 17

[ilya-rozanova]

OLIVER STARK as EVAN 'BUCK' BUCKLEY

9-1-1 | S09E03 : The Sky Is Falling

[scarlettohairdye]

This is probably a little too much nuance, but whenever I see a "all borders are violence" post (a political position I generally agree with!) I always add a little asterisk that says "*but the border checks that keep you from bringing homegrown produce into big agricultural areas to avoid the transmission of parasites and invasive species are actually fine and if we were more vigilant about that kind of thing maybe we wouldn't have spotted lanternflies in the states."

That doesn't work as well as a slogan, though

[bisquid]

Things borders should be for:

Biosecurity

Customs management (you do not want people importing a bunch of stuff that doesn't meet your country's safety standards, for example)

Things like that one lake in Europe where three national borders coincide and they built an island specifically so you can run between countries for fun

Things borders shouldn't be for:

Policing who can and can't come into a country

[frodo-of-the-nine-fingers]

childhood friends to complete strangers

[croszukis]

that's literally their son their winger they raised — TBL @ MTL 04.09.26

[coachspet]

this video makes me feel nauseous because of how soft their voices are. the realisation that this is how she talks to him off the ice, and this is how he responds. dizzy

[urie]

being obsessed with a hockey player is just like i love my Some Fucking Guy thats my baby his name is Some Guy i love you Some Guy i see you in every sunset Some Guy

[urie]

some of you guys are reblogging this post and the Some Guy youre talking about is sidney crosby. respectfully that is not Some Guy. thats sidney crosby. youre not appreciating the spirit of Some Guy

[cutecipher]

science has always been political. what gets studied. what doesnt. who gets to do the studying. on and on and on.

[cutecipher]

scientists on this post: yuuuup 👍

people who aren't scientists: um actually ☝️