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The Signs Pet Peeves
Aries: beating around the bush
Taurus: Fidgeters
Gemini: having to keep explaining themselves
Cancer: messiness
Leo: stingy people
Virgo: being pressured
Libra: Confrontational People
Scorpio: Liars
Sagittarius: dwelling on the past
Capricorn: people who doubt them
Aquarius: being told what to do
Pisces: being ignored
hi, i saw your post on the moon signs and was wondering what you meant by pushing aqua moons to be the best messengers or else it comes as a predictable gaslighting exercise?
Because Aquarius as an energy squares or challenges Scorpio, note that emotional sincerity isn't their sole priority as they are a highly mental, detached sign (air). Due to that airy disposition they can very quickly reduce people’s responses to something very intellectual rather than go deep into emotion or think about how their values are shaping the situation (Taurus) and need to move towards speaking from the heart (Leo, their polarity). It's easy when you are detached to confidently assume the conversation is going well because of your own eloquence and in a way Air signs can manipulate themselves best of all into thinking things are smooth before recognising the reality of everyone else’s differing emotional climates. We are somewhat conditioned to praise people who have the gift of the gab rather than challenge or oppose them (which is what I mean by being pushed to be the best messengers they can be) Also Aquarius is very advanced in so many ways but even the most intelligent of us need to slow down while they are connecting with people and find their footing on the Earth we share before soaring through hyperspace again!
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Sometimes, I see peole saying that they don’t understand how libra can be a leader but, libra is all about the others, they always take always in consideration and they want the best for everyone like honestly libra is a great leader. Maybe Aries has the passion to fight but Libra wants to make your life easy, Libra wants to know your opinion, Libra cares about you. The most important thing for Aries is to win the battle but, for Libra is for you to stay ok. How can you don’t see a leader?
Astrologers are not fortune tellers. We don’t just randomly get a natal chart and say, bam! This is who you are and who you’re going to become. This is the relationship with your mother. And that’s not how it should be done, and I wish I followed my intuition on that for the first few charts I’ve read. Reading someone’s chart takes a lot of interaction between the person reading the chart and the chart holder because the chart can manifest in COUNTLESS ways. Even the smallest configurations and planets can work in ways you wouldn’t predict. Usually when getting a reading, people often go to an astrologer when they have an issue or need help with something. When they have questions or need to self-improve. When you’re reading someone’s chart or asking someone to read yours. talk to them. If they ask about love, Ask them about the current relationship they’re in. How they love (regardless if the chart says it). How their past relationships were. See how they operate their chart and how other predictive tools have affected them, and then help and read.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
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Venus in Scorpio
By Jeff Green
As a pre-existing pattern, individuals with Venus in Scorpio have learned to inwardly relate to the depth of their soul and inner life, through an intense self-examination that has focused on the nature of their motivations, intentions, fears, and desires. These individuals are psychologically orientated within themselves, and, consequently, towards other people. Why, why, why? defines the essence of how they relate to other people. Inwardly, the Venus in Scorpio individual is like a compressed coiled spring that cyclically expands and contracts in such a way that each expansion / contraction leads to ever-deeper levels of self-knowledge of an emotional and psychological nature. The inner compression that is motivated by the necessity of self-knowledge produces a vibrational intensity that radiates from the soul. The auric atmosphere that surrounds the Venus in Scorpio person, as a result, is one of a penetrating intensity that is able to evaluate the essence of any situation or person with whom he or she interacts.
The intensity of the auric atmosphere that radiates from the Venus in Scorpio person is quite interesting in that it is analogous to the eye of the eagle. The eye of the eagle is uniquely structured to have the ability to focus on the large picture while at the same time telescopically zooming in on its point of focus. In the same way, the Venus in Scorpio person inwardly relates to his or her inner landscape, and simultaneously relates to the outer environment and other people.
Inwardly, these people are forever monitoring their interior environment, their ongoing state of beingness, in a general way. Within this state of beingness, the Venus in Scorpio person will then zoom in on any given emotion, feeling, sensation, thought, inspiration, dream, or desire in order to understand the causal factor, the 'why' of its origin. Understanding the causal factor in this way thus leads to self-knowledge or understanding. When this is occurring, the Venus in Scorpio person deeply internalizes in such a way as to shyt off the external environment. For those who do not understand how the Venus in Scorpio person inwardly relates to him- or herself, this can be quite disconcerting.
The intensity of the internalized focus radiates outwardly in such a way as to cause others to feel generally threatened without necessarily knowing why. The reason for this effect is that the vibrational magnetism that is radiating froom the Venus in Scorpio indiviudual magnetizes the Soul structures of others in such a way as to cause an instinctual response of insecurity. Most people are not accustomed to looking at themselves as deeply as does the Venus in Scorpio person. Thus, when others are in proximity to the auric atmosphere radiationg from the Venus in Scorpio person, they are instinctively magnetized at a Soul level. This in turn causes their own survival instinct to be activated at an unconscious level because of the depth of the reaction that is created within them relative to the nature and structure of their own reality. It is as if contact with the Venus in Scorpio person causes them, for some unknown reason, to question who, why and what they are. This effect is but a reflection of what is occurring within the Venus in Scorpio person at all times. The intensity of this effect on others is relative to how deeply compressed and withdrawn the venus in Scorpio is within him- or herself at any given moment. The inner intensity meter can range from one to ten!
Outwardly, the Venus in Scorpio person relates to the environment and others in the very same way. On the one hand, they deeply, quietly, and intensely survey and monitor the ongoing nature of their environment, and the people in it. This allows them to remain in a state of stability and security. This ongoing monitoring is absolutely necessary for the Venus in Scorpio person because every one of them is born into this life, as a pre-existing pattern, with fundamental fears of betrayal, loss, and abandonment. Thus, their survival instinct is intensely geared and conditioned by these fears. Accordingly, the generalized monitoring of their environment is highly attuned to the potential of any person, condition, or circumstance that may cause these instinctual fears to manifest in reality. When they detect any potential threat to themselves or those that they love and care for, the Venus in Scorpio people's eagle eye will zoom in and focus on that perceived threat with the intensity of a laser beam.
With their survival instinct conditioned in this way, the Venus in Scorpio people instantly evaluate any person, condition or event that may constitute a threat. The pre-existing survival instinct in these indiviudals is oriented to preparation for any possible life situation or condition. This dynamic of evaluation and preparation is, again, conditioned by their inherent fears of loss, betrayal, or abandonment, and determines how they will respond to any person or life situation. This is why the Venus in Scorpio person appears to be defensive and distant in his / her initial interactions with others.
An evolutionary intention that all Venus in Scorpio people have had over many lifetimes is one in which their Souls have desired to remove all sources of external dependence. This intention has manifested because of the Scorpionic tendency to overly identify with, and give too much meaning to, any person, condition, or situation that allows them to feel safe and secure. Anything or anyone meeting these requirements will typically be attached to for as long as possible. When this rigid and fixed attachment becomes a casual factor inhibiting further growth and evolution, then a removal of that which is preventing the necessary growth will occur.
On an inner basis, this process of enforced removal will also manifest when the Venus in Scorpio people have become too fixed and rigid in their inner relatedness patterns within themselves. In other words, they will periodically eliminate what they feel they inwardly need in order to maintain a sense of meaning in their lives when those things lead to a fixity of how they are relating to themselves.
This enforced removal occurs in order to induce necessary growth. Rarely do the Venus in Scorpio people consciously realize when they have projected too much meaning or intensity into a person, life condition, or inner dynamic that symbolizes security and safety to them. Thus, when that which they have overly identified with is removed from their lives, the psychological experience is one of intense loss, betrayal, or abandonment. The typical reaction is rage and anger, because the temptation when this occurs is to feel victimized (Scorpio is part of the natural triad between Cancer and Pisces). As a pre-existing pattern, many people with Venus in Scorpio are born with such anger.
The real issue, again, is that whatever the Venus in Scorpio person has focused on or determined that it needs for a sense of meaning, stability, and security to exist in his / her life has been and can be rigidly held on to for too long. Because one of the underlying dynamics or laws of life in time / space realities is evolution, there is an inherent limit to the funcion and value of any given dynamic, condition, or relationship. Evolution is a function of metamorphosing limitations. Thus, when the Venus in Scorpio person has overly identified with something to the point of limiting his or her necessary evolutionary requirements, a removal of that which is limiting the growth will occur with or without the co-operation of the individual.
In their intimate relationships, the Venus in Scorpio people will naturally desire to probe the depths of those that they love. They are, again, naturally pscyhological. Thus, they will relate to their intimate others in terms of how and why they are psychologically and emotionally structured. They desire to know what motivates others, and what that person's intentions are for watnting to be part of their lives. Paradoxically, the Venus in Scorpio people desire to be with someone who can help them understand the depth of their own Souls, their fears, their needs, and their desires, and yet simultaneously fear allowing anyone to get too close to them in this way. This fear, of course, is inherent because of the subconscious memories of loss, abandonment, and betrayal that have preceded the current life. Thus, the Venus in Scorpio people will 'test' those that want to be close to or intimate with them. It is as if they require potential partners to prove their love or intentions before they will allow themselves to become open or available.
The Venus in Scorpio people desire to attract another who will help them understand the depths of their Souls, and will often attract others who desire them to do the same for them. All too often, as a result, the Venus in Scorpio person will attract others who will feel and expect that he or she can help them emotionally and psychologically heal and repair themselves. This dynamic can be very attractive to the Venus in Scorpio person because it creates an illusory sense of safety in which the partner appears to intensely need them. This dependency makes the Venus in Scorpio people feel safe, relative to the intensity of the expressed need. As a result of this, they will find themselves in the role of an emotional and psychological healer, which allows them to feel safe, yet simultaneously allows them to conceal their own deepest wounds and fears. The Venus in Scorpio people can conceal their deepest fears and emotions in many ways because of their inherent fear of being vulnerable. This fear is, of course, a reflection of uncertainty regarding whom to trust, and trust issues in general. When this kind of dynamic is created, the Venus in Scorpio people not only undermine their own deepest desires and needs in a relationship, and the desire for another to understand the depths of their own wounds and needs, but also create the karmic danger of manipulating the other to keep him or her dependent. The potential manipulation can occur because of their ability to identify the deepest emotional wound in the other, and, by identifying that wound, present themselves as the only one who can help him / her heal it. Yet unconsciously the Venus in Scorpio people do not really want that wound to heal, because then the partner would not need them, and then the sense of security and safety in the relationship that the Venus in Scorpio people are dependent on would not exist.
When this is the operative dynamic in the Venus in Scorpio's intimate relationship, it is a reflection of the permetating insecurity with which he / she is born. Consequently, this dynamic generates many manipulative forms of control that can be as extremely overt as they are subtle. And much to the amazement and bewilderment of the Venus in Scorpios' sense of reality, they keep finding out that there is no security in this type of relationship. This occurs because the types of people that they attract will only sustain the relationship for the duration of the need that attracted them to these people in the first place. Thus, this dynamic only guarantees the experience of loss, abandonment, and the emotional intepretation of betrayal fo rhte Venus in Scorpio individuals. Rarely do they understand that it is their own emotional dynamics linked with the fear of loss that is the causal factor in this experience. And just as rarely do they understand that they themselves can be manipulated by these types of partners as the partners themselves desire to have their own needs met.
In essence, both partners will attempt to limit the growth of one another relative to the needs that they both have that brought them together in the first place. This becomes the causal factor in the psychological and emotional manipulations. And by trying to limit the dynamics in the relationship to only those that reflect the needs that brought them into the relationship, they will exhaust those dynamics to the point where no more growth can occur. When the resulting limit of no more growth occures, then the causal factor that leads to confrontations and the loss of the relationship is in place, unless a desire that allows for new dynamics and experiences to occur manifests. Because of these dynamics, the Venus in Scorpio people can thus be extremely jealous, possessive, and controlling of their partner. They feel threatened by situations real or imagined that threaten their control; and the partners they attract can be of like mind.
Some individuals with Venus in Scorpio, especially those that have Venus retrograde, have skipped steps in evolutionary terms. The nature of those skipped steps is specific to emotional dynamics. The reasons for avoiding or denying the nature of their emotional dynamics can have many causes, and each birthchart that has this dynamic must be examined to understand the individual reasons. These individuals will create a life in which, through evolutionary necessity, they will be plunged into their emotional body and dynanics through intense emotional and sexual experiences. The nature of these experiences is typically based on deep violations of trust, emotional disillusionment, emotional betrayal, emotional abandonment, and, in some cases, sexual violations of one kind or another. They will typically attract people who are emotionally dishonest, manipulative, and narcissistic, and who may be pathological liars.
The Venus in Scorpio people require an intensity of emotional and psychological experiences in order to become aware of the depths of their own dynamics, motivations, desires, and needs.
The need for intensity manifests as a deep emotional communion or discussion with the partner, as a deep and permeating sexual experience that ignites the sensation body, or as deep emotional confrontations or cataclysms that enforce the question why to manifest within their consciousness. Another form of intensity that can lead to the necessary awareness is almost totally emotionally isolated, not allowing for anyone to penetrate their carefully constructed emotional flak jacket. This kind of withdrawal leads to an inner compression that will generate awareness at some point, usually when they have become exhausted from such isolation.
Their need for intensity exists because intensity forces an awareness of that which is hidden or unconscious within them. When the Venus in Scorpio people feel that they need something for growth and self-discovery, they will focus on it intensely. They will attempt to totally absorb whatever they need in order to grow. Through absorption, an osmosis takes place in which they become that with which they have identified and to which they have formed a relationship. In this way, they feel secure and actualize their own power because of their ability to penetrate to the essence of that with which they have identified and to which they have formed a relationship. Their challenge is to understand when to let go or to change their inner dynamics, life conditions, situations, or the emotional / psychological dynamics that are existing between themselves and their loved ones specifically, and others generally. When this understanding and the consequent behavior does not exist, then this becomes the causal factor in creating loss, confrontation, abandonment, or betrayal that is experienced in a variety of ways.
The intensity of these types of experiences will force, at some point, an inner awareness of why these kinds of experiences are happening. This awareness will lead to self-knowledge; and self-knowledge is to be hoped to lead to change. If not, then the dynamic of repetitive compulsion exists until the Venus in Scorpio person becomes exhausted through the experiences that the repetitive compulsion dictates. When they become exhausted in this way, the venus in Scorpio people will then finally apply the knowledge learned relative to the question of why.
Sexually, the Venus in Scorpio person desires an intensity of physical and emotional sensation. There is a fundamental desire to merge and be absorbed into the entire essence of the partner, and thus the self. The intensity of sexual energy, and its release, allows for a relaxing of the inner compression of the Soul. Generally speaking, these people are deep, passionate lovers who need to be gently and intensely touched. They have a keen awareness of the power of touch, and can instinctively know just how vulnerable they can be in a sexual situation through the quality and nature of their partner's touch. The current status or overall nature of their own inner being will be reflected in their own touch. Touch is the one dynamic in which Venus in Scorpio people cannot hide or conceal themselves. When they feel safe enough to make love with their eyes open, there is no greater level of sexual intensity that can manifest from an individual. They can be acutely aware of the various sensations going on in their partner's body and Soul, and harmonize with those sensations in order to deepen and intensify them. Their sexual energy is constant even though some may attempt to transmute it through various other foci.
Venus in Scorpio people manifest a deep fascination with the mystery of sexual energy, for it symbolizes the mystery of life / death / rebirth. It represents a vehicle of self-discovery to be explored in every possible way. Some will have desires to explore what others call sexual taboos because of an inherent resistance to being limited to sexual social conventions. Some will have desires to use sexual energy as a way of transforming themselves and / of healing themselves and others. Thus, these types will be orientated to sexual rituals and methods whose specific intent is to heal and transform. Others can use sexual energy as a way of controlling their relationship. Still others can use this energy as a way of hurting, possessing, and dominating their partners. A variation of this is using sex magic to get back at other people by whom they have felt wounded in some way. All Venus in Scorpio people naturally desire commitment and monogamy from their partners in every way, including sexually. By nature, they are naturally monogamous and value the dynamic of commitment. Of course, other life or birth chart factors can alter this natural condition.
The Venus in Scorpio person inherently emanates an intense, if quiet, magnetism that can instinctively excite others sexually even if they are not attracted to the Venus in Scorpio person as a whole. The actual attraction is not specifically sexual even though it may feel that way. It is actually based on the inner intensity that manifests from the Venus in Scorpio person; and this vibrational intensity is unconsciously interpreted by others as something they need within themselves, even though what that specific need is can essentially be unconscious or undefined. Vibrational intensity in any form is always interpreted by people as the possibility of transformation even when that vibration creates a fear reaction. The nature of this vibration that emanates from the Venus in Scorpio people reflects their own Soul's intensity. Thus, this vibration naturally stimulates the Soul structures of others. And, for some, this will automatically stimulate the primary brain wherein lie our sexual instincts and desires. Generally, the Venus in Scorpio people are just being who they are, unaware of the intensity that is manifesting from them. At worst, however, some Venus in Scorpio people who observe others reacting to them in this way will begin to consciously manipulate their sexual energy in order to fulfill some sexual desire or need that is connected with power.
For evolution to proceed, the Venus in Scorpio person must embrace its polarity: Taurus. The essence of this lesson is to realize that every projected need they create is connected to some deep inner wound. The projection of the need is thus motivated by the desire for another to somehow repair this wound. Conversely, the intention in the Taurus polarity is to learn how to repair these wounds from within themselves. This will lead to a condition of self-empowerment, self-reliance, and self-sustainment that creates a deep and genuine state of inner security. Once this occurs, these individuals will relate to others in general, and their intimate partners specifically, in an entirely new way. Now they will encourage the independent actualization of their partner, and help motivate them to do this. Their partner will encourage them in exactly the same way. By changing their inner vibration in this way, they will attract differently. Thus, the dynamics of manipulation, control, betrayal, loss, and abandonment will disappear from their lives.
In addition, this lesson demands that they learn how to relate the nature of their emotional reality ass it is without concealing it, altering it through misrepresentations, or representing it in oblique rather than direct ways. Until they learn how to do this, the Venus in Scorpio people will never have their greatest need and desire fulfilled - to have at least one other person in theri life who totally understands who they are, how they are put together, and whey they are put together this way. By learning how to do this, they will then learn how to identify the actual needs of their partner versus telling the partner what they need. And, of course, they can now attract another who reflects this very same psychological, emotional, and vibrational shift. The scorpion has now metamorphosed into the eagle via the Phoenix.
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Me: *is at a party* Me: ok no discussing astrology this time Me 15 minutes later: Thats because you’re a libra actually
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libra moons are the worst to argue with bc they never fucking know what they’re talking about they just say what sounds good to them…. like it usually goes like this:
somebody: *makes a valid point*
libra moon: no. *makes semi valid point*
somebody: well you’re wrong because *valid point*
libra moon: ok well let’s agree to disagree i’m right too i mean lol true but im totally missing your point right now and this conversation has not changed me whatsoever as a human being
if i have a scorpio moon in the 4th house could that intensify my feelings?
Whenever you are around family or even talking about your early life attachments, memories, or even just in a sensitive place in your own room, that Scorpio energy is activated. And so you may be generally guarded about your family or try to talk about them factually and detachedly without involving how you felt.
The 4th house is the heart space and any issues in those close, deep relationships bring a lot of pain and intensity unless you take those steps to channel the energy and resolve them. It does intensify your feelings in the sense that you grew up too fast, were exposed to ‘adult’ situations too young, learned to distrust or read between the lines early as a means of coping. It can mean upheavals in whatever home you try to recreate as an adult until you start to release the pain properly without hurting yourself or perpetuating cycles of melodrama. But as it is your moon here it needs emotional sustenance and nurturing and thus you must recreate a safe and secure place to be gentle with yourself and feel connected to dark emotion, perhaps through art, and understand what happened and what you discovered about who you are (which is buried under the emotional weight or intensity) It also means be careful who you let into your space as that scorpionic charge will want to purge their soul of bullshit (and also may get controlling).
I often see Cancer being questioned for its cardinal nature. The cardinal mode is a mode that shows a spark of energy, a spark of leadership. The questioning comes from the conflict between the modality and the planet that rules Cancer.
Cancer is ruled by the Moon, a planet that is focused on emotions. Emotions are usually seen in society to be weak, mistakenly undervalued and misunderstood, when it is actually a very strong force to use. Some people tend to not understand that to be emotionally strong is to be a leader since emotions are collectively not valued for what it is in society. The fluctuating nature of the Moon can tend some to think that Cancer is a mutable sign because of the constant change, and that’s due to the fact that Cancer’s esoteric ruler is in Neptune, a planet that rules the mutable sign of Pisces. The fluctuating nature that is represented here shows the fleeting nature of emotions as a whole, not the actions of Cancer as an archetype. Cancer actually uses the fleeting nature of emotions to initiate actions.
Cancer is also a sign that rules the home, which brings up the suggestion that they are fixed, when they’re not always like that. There will always be some kind of fixation, mutability, and cardinality of some sort for every sign, but the most natural tendency of energy is what exactly classifies the modality for all of the signs. Cancer is a cardinal sign because it is the only water sign that is willing to openly and clearly express their emotions to lead and do what they want, even though they would really love to keep themselves private due to their feminine nature. Scorpio would much rather keep those emotions hidden to keep them stable as a fixed sign. Pisces as a mutable sign will either hide or show their emotions to go with the emotional flow of the world.
Cancer express its emotions to get what they need, and it’s cardinal because it will go against their established surroundings to get what they want. For Cancer, this is the past and the home. Cardinal signs go against their surroundings to get what they want and that is exactly what Cancer does. Leaders defy the odds, and Cancer does just that as a cardinal sign.
Signs As Couplets
Aries // “I’m untamed and wild, like a wildfire.”
Taurus // “I am decorated with what represents me, I am expensive, I am lovely.”
Gemini // “I am hate and love, intertwined, not balanced, but as one.”
Cancer // “I am not just tears, and sniffling noses, I am hurricanes and striking poses.”
Leo // “I am the sun, shining on everyone I know, Showing them brightness, and proving they’re perfect.”
Virgo // “I am as beautiful and soft as the virgin, but as rough and confident as the bitch.”
Libra // “I am equal parts rebellious and full of justice, balanced, beautiful, and rigorous.”
Scorpio // “I am balled up fists matched with falling tears, I am a weakling who knows no fear.”
Sagittarius // “I am the wind, constantly rushing, going everywhere and seeing everything.”
Capricorn // “I am ambitious, not because I was born under this star, but because I have seen the worst and wish to make it worth it.”
Aquarius // “I am a fighter who knows no restraints, I plan on being my own, and to break away from those who are plain.”
Pisces // “I am told I am weak and soft, cute even, but I am wise and cold and willing to get even.”
Lifehack: avoid having to deal with people coming for you by always coming for yourself first
