Cutting People Off
Hey, this is really random and Iβve never done this before, but recently I worked up the courage to cut off some friends, and idk if this would help anyone but, I wanted to say that if you think of cutting them off or other people tell you to after you have been mistreated by them, you should probably go through with it. I didn't realise until I cut these people off how miserable they were making me, how judgemental they were or the fact that they didnβt have my best interests at heart, like your friends/S.O should do. I had let myself be used and abused by these girls for 4 years and I finally had enough. Luckily, I have other people in my life who donβt mistreat me or dump me when someone new comes along, but this isnβt the case for everyone. Donβt let people push you around because you feel like you donβt have anyone else to turn to, because i promise, you do. And if they get annoyed at you because you removed yourself from the situation, like these girls did with me, it says a lot more about them than you, donβt let them make you feel bad for making decisions that they get annoyed about, you are responsible for your own happiness, not theirβs. DONβT STAY IN A SITUATION THAT MAKES YOU MISERABLE!!!Β This may have not helped anyone, but I felt like I needed to get this out. If any of you feel like you need to talk or want some advice, you can always message me (Iβve been told i give good advice but Iβm not sure lmaoo) xoxo
