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justanobedientboy

jessiemotionlessxxxbondagemommy

Bastinado play 🥵

idispensecutenoises

Seeee? You’re in control of your own fate… even if you don’t know what your rolls are deciding yet.

bellumiss

I will say that the leash has been fun. I've particularly enjoyed pulling you in for a kiss whether you want it or not, really yanking you around in general has been a treat. Problem is, though, you're not getting trained.

This is the remote for your shock collar. Yes, I switched your collar for a shock collar, yes while you were sleeping, at this point it's especially your fault for not noticing. Now, I'm going to tell you to heel, and if you don't, I'll shock you until you're on your knees whimpering my name. We'll keep doing this until you do what you're told like a good girl. Ok?

Heel.

tinyyfairyyk

do u like hard nipple clamp play?

yes I do 😇

(pic from an incredibly hot video @knottydevil 🖤)

cognitivebloom-deactivated20260

Wouldn't it be fun if your hypnotist could create different versions of you inside your own mind?

Imagine them being able to summon whichever version they're in the mood for just by calling her forward. If they feel like being a gentle handler, they draw out your eager little puppy self. If they want to be an owner of an object, they awaken the toy version of you, the one that is pliant, responsive, waiting to be used. If the house needs tending, they simply switch on the devoted maid within, ready to serve with pride. If they want to play God, they active the devoted worshipper.

All those selves already exist inside you… they just choose which one gets to step into the light.

lewdladylily

This is framed as a hypothetical but this works and my owner does this with me a lot. I can think of 8 different personality modifications like this my owner can use with a single trigger, ranging from a dumbed down pet like mindset to what we call "bitch mode" for when she wants me to help her dom someone else, to a slave themed modification complete with some very compelling artificial memories. She even has one we call "innocent" where I maintain all my kinks and general personality but I feel very inexperienced with sex and become easily flustered and much more hesitant about doing or saying sexual things.

I honestly think this is one of the easiest things to do with hypnotism. Bringing forward aspects of a personality, suppressing others, and playing off their recollection of previous states (like back when I was a very perverted virgin that dreamed about bdsm but had no experience.) It works so easily because your mind already knows what it is trying to do, it doesn't really have to learn any new tricks.

cognitivebloom-deactivated20260

Hey, thank you for sharing! It wasn't entirely hypothetical ^^

I do condition my maid persona myself. I have noticed I function much more effectively when I wear my maid outfit, and it's actually been going really well. For me, it's not really about the chores. It's about service. The mindset of service. When I put the outfit on, something shifts in me, like my brain recognizes the role and settles into it. The focus isn't cleaning itself but the fact that I get to be of service. That difference matters to me.

It's similar with doll headspace. When I doll myself up, my inhibitions lower. I become much more focused on being a pretty, silly, empty-headed doll on display for her daddy instead of worrying about shame or self-consciousness (though that part is still a work in progress). The ritual of dressing and presenting a certain way helps me slide into that mindset more easily.

Puppy me is also, for the most part, self-conditioned. She is happy, eager, very responsive to praise and training and especially to treats (treats are for training). She comes forward especially easily when I am spoken down to in the right tone.

In general, I am not a big fan of triggers. I only work with two play partners, and they're both very skilled at drawing out different personas (let that be the doll, puppy, maid, bimbo, worshipper) without needing formal triggers, usually just through tone and simple lines of questioning. It happens surprisingly fast. Once they start guiding me, I fumble quickly, almost like my executive thinking steps aside.

It was really great reading your experience, so thank you for sharing. I like personality play because it feels like permission. Permission to shed doubt, to let go of shame. It turns embarrassment into arousal. It quiets the noise in my head, especially the overthinking, the constant internal commentary and brutal self critism. What's left is something simpler. No more loud noises just subservience. Obedience.

candiid-caniine

automated edging by heart rate: version 2

a couple weeks back i posted about fooling around with an XToys integration for automated edging/denial. a lot of folks were curious/excited; if you want a quick recap, i'm trying to replicate the functionality of the NoGasm/Edge-o-Matic from MausTec without the high price point. $600. whew baby.

i'm happy to report that version 2 is a go and i'm in a lot of trouble..

the setup:

for version 1 i was using a Lush. this doesn't really work well for my body; i struggle to hit a hard edge until like 2/3 of the way through its battery life. this time i had a MagicMotion Umi going, and it uh. well. it worked much better.

a bluetooth heart rate monitor - i scooped one up off Amazon for like 20 bucks. so long as it's not app-bound/is discoverable by any BT app, it'll be fine.

xtoys on an Android phone running this exact layout. (it's the same as the old one, but connected to the Umi instead of a Lush.)

the results:

i used the same layout and settings for the HR monitor just to keep that variable unchanged. it was...quite effective.

last time i said the goal was hard edges every time the monitor stopped. this goal was...certainly achieved. i think out of about 15-20 pauses, over 80% were hard edges...tho don't trust puppy to do math right now.

my bedroom - empty save for me, btw - was full of a constant stream of "pleasepleaseplease nononono" for about 30 minutes.

at a certain point, i think my heart rate got + stayed high. at this point, the toy ended up on for long enough that i came a couple times; i left the program running bc i was curious if it would at least stop early enough to ruin any orgasm. sadly this was not the case.

next test:

stats. lmao i remain a nerd. denial turns me into a dumb slut tho so i'm gonna have to build in some independent stat-keeping that doesn't rely on me paying attention.

positioning. i had my hips in the air humping. this is fun but i do think that messed with the very end - i had better clit contact in one position, which is what i think overrode the biometrics in the end. next test i'm gonna pick a position and stick with it and see how long it edges me.

depending on that, i may fiddle with the HR intervals. i think the trick will be finding a sweet spot with monitoring that accounts for overall heart rate rise the more i'm edged.

further down the line:

automated clicker training still on the bucket list.

hey. heres an idea . shocks every time you whine. for me it's a very pouty "nooooo nononono." shocks repeat and grow in intensity until you say "thank you" instead. anyone? hello ?? is this anything?

there is just so much integration possible with xtoys. don't look at me i'm gonna be busy for the next two years. can i put this on my resume do you think?

troubleshooting + scaling

yes, my spouse does make fun of me for using tech industry terms on a sex toy setup.

will HR monitoring work consistently? i think like anything else it depends on the body of the bottom. i start breathing really short and fast when i get close, and the squirming and whining certainly does the trick to raise the HR reliably. if you have a particularly bratty or stoic bottom at your disposal, though, it may not work as well. motion sensing could work - if you can find a "tell" that the person in question can't hide. XToys can connect to monitors that detect facial expression, environmental sounds, motion, tilt, all sorts of things.

just check out the list of public scripts sometime.

more about sensors: that being said, Maustec's stuff uses a pressure sensor in an inflatable buttplug. anal contraction is pretty reliably an indicator of impending orgasm. so that may be the most reliable input for the largest group of people...then again, i'm a big believer in the idea that perfection is the enemy of good (and, crucially, fun). find something that lets you have fun with your sub instead of going for the flashy thing promising you perfection every time; save that for the career doms with con performances lmao.

HoneyPlay does, however, have pressure sensing toys. might experiment with that later. just to say i did :)

toy compatibility: with my equipment, there's a large number of toys available to me. i think i'm probably more likely to find something that suits my anatomy + stimulation preferences than someone with a penis. that's something i'd be interested in hearing from others on (in fact i want to hear from y'all if you test anything based on this, point blank), but that's a gap in my knowledge that i can't handle alone. XToys does have a pretty good base of auto-strokers or vibrating sleeves, and if you're into prostate stimulation there's a lot of those compatible too. but i just don't know lol.

@hunted-seraphim asked about platform compatibility: XToys can run on iPhone in a more limited sense IIRC, can run freely on Android, and - short of that - works on any Chrome browser. (it seems to work okay on Firefox sometimes, but i have mainlined with my phone so can't say for sure.) the 1 limiter i can think of rn is that at least (some?) Lovense toys require an additional component in order to connect to PC. but Chrome running on a phone of your choice should be fine.

thank y'all for coming on this adventure with me. if you try anything like this i'd love to hear about your setup/how it works out! <33

knottydevil

Discipline After Class

Featuring Stormi

Full video out now of fansly

dominantwife51

Clothing.

I know there is alot of talk, and pictures depicting men wearing women's clothes. That's fine if that's your kink. But for me, I like to keep my husband naked. Absolutely naked. Not even a watch. When we are alone, he never wears clothes at all.

As soon as we are alone, I look at him and say "clothes off " and that's that. He strips, puts his clothes in the laundry, and remains that way until he needs clothes again. Of course, I can wear what I want. Its fun to walk around clothed while he has to remain naked.

Access all areas. I can walk up to him while he is doing the dishes. Stick a finger into his butt. Or I can cup his (my) balls. Give him a little tease. Giving him multiple erections every day. But mostly, I can see him. As I've said before, i like men. I am attracted to men, so having a naked one around is hot.

He doesn't complain anymore, he used to. He would tell me it was cold, so I learned to turn up the heating. He would be embarrassed, but he got used to it. Sometimes, I keep him naked for days or even weeks. It depends on how long we are alone and whether we have other important things to be doing (that require clothes).

I can take photos of him and film him naked. I've got quite a lot of photos and videos of him cleaning the house naked. Sometimes, I have him pose for me.

A good husband, in my opinion, is naked unless clothes are absolutely essential.

noveliti-deactivated20251217

pinene

overall, this idea that sex is supposed to be a sequence that roughly follows kissing -> handjob -> blowjob -> penetration, and the subsequent idea that each of those steps is inherently more intense/intimate/pleasurable than the last.. is like literally such a nuclear heterosexual suburbs lawnmower-owner mindset.. no sex act is universally more intimate or pleasurable than any other. you can have anal sex that makes you want to die and a handjob that makes you want to propose. if one act is special and ideal to YOU, that's great, but everyone needs to quit acting like we all have identical sexualities

princessella34

Only for the bestest boys

hypnotic-kink

msadist4dolcettf

The 4 stranded cunt rope

Is the best. Allows for the outer cunt lips to be trapped between 1 & 2 and 3 & 4. The clit trapped between the two middle strands, 2 &3.

Provides and permanent feeling of being a packaged sex object and a tireless stimulation of your clit as it it cuts into your sex. It can also be used to keep an object lodged inside the fuck object. A fuck object with something fucked up inside her is constantly reminded that she's a fuck object. Her sexually focused on sexual submission and her body flooded with the right kind of hormones.

Perfect for edging. If she still orgasms too much, consider placing the rope in a chilli solution overnight. Possibly assisted with a clit pumping before mounting the rope for extra chafing punishment.

Here is a good guide for a cunt rope (aka crotch rope):

This is a classic simple waist harness with a little teasing feature. Think of it as an un-chastity belt made from rope...

Although only two stranded it can easily be augmented to 4.

sadimasterr

Well... It IS a kind of Chastity Device.

nyxtickled

cnc but you have to say your safeword 2x, so you get to experience the beautiful masochistic terror of your safeword being ignored and you can even keep enduring more and begging for mercy but you just have to say it one more time to really make it end

nyxtickled

ok wait no. cnc but you roll one die with your eyes closed before you start. your dom sees the number but you don’t. that’s how many times you’ll have to say your safeword, so you just end up crying it out anywhere from 1-6 times (two dice if you’re feeling super masochistic so it’s 2-12 times) and you can keep begging and pleading and screaming as you try to endure longer, but you’ll just have to hit the magic number eventually to make it end