because i’m sick of explaining my sexuality and people not understanding it
demisexual - only being able to feel sexual attraction towards a person if an emotional bond was formed OR if you feel romantic attraction
demisexuals can have, and enjoy, sex. however, not all demisexuals desire sex
many demisexuals that desire sex focus more on how it feels, rather than their attraction towards the person
demisexuals are often attracted to fictional characters
demisexuals are also often attracted to people who cosplay their favorite characters
many demisexuals can only have a crush on one real person at a time. like, they can be attracted to many fictional characters, but only have 1 person they know in real life that they like
demisexuals never really look at somebody they’re just seeing for the first time twice. it isn’t until an emotional bond is formed that they start noticing physically attractive things about that person.
demisexuals are not “picky”
demisexuals are not just “waiting until marriage/waiting to meet the right person.”
basically, somebody’s whose demisexual can’t just look at a stranger that people think is attractive and feel the same way
yes, demisexuality is a real thing