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parents will be like "We're good parents! We did our best!" while their child is alone in their room, terrified of footsteps, unable to conceptualize being loved by anyone.

unwelcome-ozian

confusedandsleepy

Hey you know what pisses me the right off? When I'm trying to go through serious tags on tumblr, you know, the ones like "childhood neglect/ childhood abuse/ emotional neglect/child abuse/ broken family" those real serious tags? Those tags that are meant for people to vent in, find comfort, find help, do whatever they can to find solice in their shitty lives? Those tags? Yeah? And you know what I find instead of help/support/coping memes from real life individuals?

That's right. FUCKING FANFICTION.

Whenever I go onto ANY tag that has real life issues, real life problems, anything that effects actual people, all I see is fanfiction clogging up every. Other. God. Damned. Post.

Do you know how obnoxious it is to see someone come into your actual support tags just to post "Part 14 of Batman being a bad father." Absolutely fuck you. Dead ass, fuck you. You don't even tag your shit with FANFIC or FANFICTION. So don't try to go telling me

"Erm actually why don't you just block the ta-

BECAUSE I HAVE. I HAVE BLOCKED OVER 30 VARIATIONS OF THE WORD FANFIC/STORY/BATMAN/YANDERE/ONESHOT

BUT YOU GUYS KEEP ON MAKING A NEW ONE EVERY TIME YOU DON'T IMMEDIATELY GET 500 LIKES.

For the love of Notch get either get TF out of the real life issue tags, or tag your God damn content so people looking for help don't have to scroll by you glamorizing issues.

And why for the love of Notch is it ALWAYS batman?! He's in the child abuse tags. He's in the ASPD tags. He's in the NPD tags. He's in the emotional neglect tags. He's in the father issue tags. TAG YOUR SHIT AND STAY IN YOUR SPACE!!

crazycatsiren

Something I find quite disturbing: when an abuse situation involves a partner, everybody is unanimously quick with "leave them and never go back", but when it involves a parent, it's always an automatic "you can't just cut them out of your life they're your mother/father..."

funeral

The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook

stvrlightbpd

bpd is not knowing if you’re a good person or if you’re a bad person and you’re just gaslighting yourself to believe you’re a good person.

aleksanderyearns

sometimes i mourn the person i could've been if i hadnt gone through all this trauma and didnt end up with a personality disorder

co-fronting

Something that always bothers me in mental health spaces is the fear of relating too much to each-other across the lines of different disorders. Too many times I've met people who are not dissociative systems, but have dissociative experiences (such as from BPD), and they trip over themselves saying "no no, I mean, I don't REALLY understand what you go through, my thing is totally different," and it makes me a little upset. Disorders are just clusters of symptoms packaged together in a certain way, that's why the names and criteria often change across DSM and ICD editions, and viewing them as entirely exclusive clubs where only they could possibly understand anything about each other isn't a particularly healthy way of seeing it. The lines between disorder labels are blurrier than you think. You are not being a bad person or overstepping for relating to symptoms of a disorder, or people with a disorder, without having their specific label. Very rarely (if ever, frankly) is there a symptom that can only occur in one disorder, or even one type of disorder. Psychosis can occur in countless circumstances. Dissociation and identity compartmentalization can occur in countless circumstances. It's better to focus more on your specific symptoms and building community with your fellow neurodivergent people, using the resources that help you regardless of if they were specifically made for your diagnosis, over worrying about whether or not you're "allowed" to relate to something or experience something similarly to someone else.