Ikigai System

mixed origin system 15 y.o bodily NPD + ADHD + psychosis collectively they/them

[ikigai-system]

why does it literally. hurt to see doubles/irls of my source :[[

im a fictive of juuzou suzuya, and seeing doubles/irls just makes me... so incredibly uncomfortable? i start feeling nauseous and dissociated,,

especially when they say "if you think you're me dni" or something like that, and sound rlly salty abt it.. like thats literally a reality check within itself,, and kinda invalidating to fictives- like just say "doubles dni", its not reality checking and not that hard! we're also psychotic so other alters with identity delusions also feel this way when they're reality checked. idk it just makes me so upset for some reason :[

[iverna]

So Billie Eilish, a recording artist who makes millions with her creative work, has teamed up with Adobe, a multi-billion company, to bring us a contest where artists make merch designs for her for free, and only the winner gets paid. Sorry, a “prize”. And part of the “prize” is exposure.

Oh, and if you submit an entry, whether you win or not, you give them the right to use your work.

Contests like this are a scam. They’re exploitative. Always. They’re a way to get people to do work for free, and only pay the “winner”.

Billie Eilish makes music. She is a creative professional herself who makes money, a lot of money, with her art. She can afford to pay an artist to design her tour shirt. Adobe can afford to pay artists to do design work.

If she wants to give fans the opportunity to work for her - just invite portfolio submissions. Let artists send you work they’ve already done, pick one whose style you like, and hire them to make a design for you. Easy.

This, though? This is trying to use her fame to get people to work for her for free. This is trying to exploit her fans. Note how the key selling point they picked for the tweet isn’t the cash prize, it’s the exposure. This entire thing is based on the hope that people will be so excited to have their work officially featured by Billie Eilish that they’ll work for free just for the chance.

Don’t enter “art contests” like this. It’s not a contest, it’s a scam.

[ikigai-system]

ppl who use the "actually dissociative/did/osdd/etc." tag 😔 /neg

(doesn't apply to everyone, but usually anti-endos use that tag frequently </3)

[ikigai-system]

you know what rlly sucks?

we're a did system, and bc we're pro endo, we feel unsafe in traumagenic tags/osddid tags or "safe spaces". despite being professionally diagnosed with did for a few years now. it sucks bcz we'd like to meet ppl who share similar symptoms to us/are disordered :[

so we stick with endo tags, out of fear of being harassed 😭

[playing-card-coining]

Cutanigenic

an origin related to anime and cutesy media!

«────── « ⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅ » ──────»

free to use anywhere with credit ^^

coined by me!

Read my DNI before interacting!

[exploringweare]

I like seeing these flags around our community! I love how they are so validating, so unique and charming! I wanna see more of them around! So please keep em coming! I love these! I wanna see more! Thank you for your hard work! They're awesome!

Origin terms to me sound a little nerve wracking, but I love how this doesn't specify. It's not just for systems! This could just be a single alters origin! I want all my alters to be able to find such wholesome validity!

Sorry if this sounds weird! We just wanna spread the positivity and love! Don't know whose in! Just working with what we are working with!

[system-society]

To systems with personality disorders;

🌻you're wonderful

🌼you're real

🌻you're valid

🌼it's alright if your personality disorder affects your functions or origins

🌻it's alright if your personality disorder is cluster A, B, C, or other.

🌼your personality disorder does not make you inherently abusive or evil

🌻you do not need empathy to be kind and loving

🌼you do not need to love to care about others

🌻you're an important part of our community

make sure you listen to some music you like, talk with people that make you feel safe, remind yourself that you deserve to be here, hug your headmates who want them, and take some time to do something you all enjoy

have an awesome day🍵✨

[ikigai-system]

tysm!! we really needed to hear this <33

[vixendoe-archive]

you guys realize ‘reblog bait’ is a trigger tag for psychosis that can be set off by posts that say things like ‘reblog this or your dog dies’ ‘reblog this or you’ll never be happy again’ ‘reblog this to win a million dollars’ and not for posts like ‘hey rb this and put in the tags x thing’ right

[vixendoe-archive]

okay since some people in the notes are confused, and to be fair I didn’t word this post very well, here’s some examples on how to tag things

reblog bait: reblog this and you’ll have good luck for 10 years

reblog game: reblog and put your favorite color in the tags

reblog bait: if you don’t reblog this, we can’t be mutuals

reblog game: reblog to give your mutuals a stuffed animal

reblog bait: you’re a terrible person if you don’t share this, I don’t care about your blogs aesthetic

reblog game: reblog and tell me if you’re right or left handed

basically, just think. is the post giving a threat, ultimatum or guilt trip? if so, it goes under reblog bait! a post saying to reblog but doesn’t have anything like the above would go under reblog game. hope this clears stuff up

[cowboyviolence]

The dichotomy between ocs is so funny. Sometimes you're coaxing them out of the recesses of your mind like "pspspsps here sweetie dont be shy why don't you come tell me more about yourself" and sometimes its like there's a guy in here with you and he's punching the walls

[crayongirl]

@funnierasafictive @funnier-as-a-system

[plumslices]

mutuals im giving u hand cream

🧴

[gayvampyr]

cats aren’t jerks or rude or anything, they’re fucking comedians and they’re good at it

[gayvampyr]

like you’re really gonna get mad at a cat for knocking over your mug? like he did it to be evil? you really think a little furball who can’t remember what happened 10 seconds ago has the capacity to be malicious and ruin your life on purpose? he’s just having fun, doing quirky things on a whim. you’re gonna get mad at a silly little guy? for shame

[boymiffy]

childhood friends are like open wounds

[boymiffy]

um seriously? like i haven’t seen you since i was seven and i love you with my whole heart. we stopped speaking because you hurt my feelings and i sometimes look at that bracelet we shared. there is no healing. there is no going back. there’s no knowing if they think about it as much. there is just nostalgia and aching when you walk past cherry trees

[tributary]

christ and the antichrist implies the existence of an evil opposite for every person. what is the anti-you like

[tributary]

new ask game where your followers describe the anti-you

[inseriousneedofatherapist]

Ah, fine literature.

Pt.2

[sophieinwonderland]

Host Post: Sharing and Compromises

Maybe this is obvious, but I just wanted to say that if you want your headmates to respect you, respect them back. If a headmate wants to front while you're doing something, a "later" is always better than a "no." If what you're doing is important, or them fronting at that moment could create issues, try to explain that in a way that they'll understand.

Then while they're fronting, let them have the freedom to do what they want so long as it won't harm the system or others.

Sometimes, this might lead to some awkward situations, like having to explain why you were barefoot in 30 degree weather, trying and failing to climb a tree (really, Almond?) but it's worth it so that your headmates feel respected.

If your headmate wants to do something that you don't want them to, try your best to work out a compromise. Don't just refuse off the bat.

I haven't always been able to give Sophie everything she's wanted, but what I've learned is that getting exactly what she wants is often less important to her than just knowing that I respect her as a person and am willing to make compromises to make her happy. Although occasionally, if something is really important, no compromise is enough, and in those cases, it's good to be open to doing things that make you uncomfortable to make someone you care about happy.

That is all. I'll let Soph have her blog back now.

[ikigai-system]

I ACCIDENTALLY FOLLOWED AN ANTI-ENDO WHO OPENLY SENDS DEATH THREATS TO PPL SOBS,,,

our body is sick so ig we were tryna block but ultimately failed </33

[ikigai-system]

thing is, thats like the third time we've done that too </33

and thats on todays episode of: my thumb slipped, oops!

[ikigai-system]

I ACCIDENTALLY FOLLOWED AN ANTI-ENDO WHO OPENLY SENDS DEATH THREATS TO PPL SOBS,,,

our body is sick so ig we were tryna block but ultimately failed </33

[ikigai-system]

keep an eye out for ur inbox fellas, im sending positivity everyones way 👀👀