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currently working through some stuff on my own, please share love with each other

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uhm okay so sometimes i feel like a burden. so basically i was in a science project with some of my friends and it got a bit messy. they ganged up on me n stuff and then the teacher suggested i moved group to my other friends. these two are ppl i get on with much better but i felt bad because i kinda just crashed their group and they said it was fine but ack idk i just felt like a nuisance and like i was annoying them even though i tried to help aaah. they weren't giving off any vibes (part 1)

but i just felt in the way and like i was annoying them. i get that feeling a lot and i really hate it. have any advice? (part 2)

bro . it is okay to need other people and it should not be intrusive for you to be in their space if they are your friends !! understandably, sometimes people need space to reflect and such but in this situation, it seemed like it was okay ! if it’s still gnawing at you, go talk to them about it and i’m sure they’ll come through with the reassurance and confirmation you’ll need. 

in terms of eradicating that feeling, it might not be as easy. it’s something that’s part of self-love, in a way, in acknowledging and accepting that your presence is not a burden to anyone and people appreciate your company. it’s by no means easy but it will come with time, and you will grow in the meantime. do not fret ! :D

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hi :( i don’t rlly have anyone to talk to but !!!!! i think i may be gay???? i don’t have a strong attraction to women anymore and it makes me uncomfortable to think abt marrying/dating/intercourse w women.... and i have gf but idk how to tell her :( any advice ????

hey anon !!!!! i think that it might be best just to break things off with your gf and be honest about what’s been on your mind, or at least ask her to give you some space to sort out your sexuality. if she cares about you she will understand, and it’s unfair to her to be strung along ... the more time you let this fester the more it’ll hurt in the end. i know this stuff is challenging, but don’t feel pressured to put a label on your sexuality either. do what makes you happy. i hope you are doing well :) 

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waiting for my “love at first sight” moment

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AAAA YES PROUD OF U FOR TRYING TO NOT SELF ISOLATE IM WORKING THRU THE SAME THING RN!!! HUGS UR AMAZING !!! 💕💕💕

thank you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we will power through this together :D

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hello!! How’re you? Saw your post that you’re in the mood to talk so WHAT IS UP?

hey !! i’m just kinda in a mood to reflect, but not really to hold a convo lmao ... i’m terrible at continuing conversations so oftentimes i just like to talk to myself ... feeling kinda individualistic tonight if that makes any sense 

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kiss me and make my head n heart spin !!

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i want to love you so wildly and with so much freedom

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i stain your hands with dreams promising a better world

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cherish the sublime with me and call it a date

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you make real life feel like a dream

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so i saw the last anon and I'd love to be soft too so like... i hung out with my friend, who i have a b i g crush on, today and like aksjsj. she was in my house & room for the first time then we walked to the library together like??!?! ok we went there to work on a school project with two other people so,, less romantic but still! i! AND AT THE LIBRARY WE SAW THIS LITTLE KID AND SHE LOOKED SO CUTE WHEN SHE LOOKED AT HIM I. that seems really weird when i type it out but yaknow? (part 1)

n like she always hits me playfully and stuff. and just she’s so PRETTY n funny and I don’t know .. then i paid for her food, she kept saying i didn’t have to but she didn’t have any money and I wasnt gonna let her starve!! like,… i just. want to be with her. but i don’t really think she would ever like me but … i don’t know I’m holding out some hope??? maybe??? (part 2/2)

this is so sweet i swear my heart is in a puddle on the floor rn 

oof honestly i’d say go for it go go go get your girl she seems like an angel and so do you :((((( don’t extinguish the hope just yet, i’m rooting for both of you !!!

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Hey! Sorry if this is kind of weird.. but I was hoping you had some advice for me maybe?? Me and S/O have been together for over a year, but sometimes I feel like he doesn't love me. It hurts a lot when he doesn't give me the attention I want, and it hurts even more realizing that I feel that way. I'm REALLY needy, and I hate that so much, but I can't help it rll.. He gets mad when I get mad, and I get mad when he gets mad so, it's really hard not to fight. (1/?)

Sometimes we stay happy for a long time, then all of a sudden, it disappears.. I love them. To bits. I really do. But it breaks my heart thinking that they don't feel that way. I feel like they don't even care enough to calm down. Can't really talk much tho. I'm the exact same. Really scared we're not meant to be.. Thanks for reading, and sorry it was boring or stupid! Ly 💚 (2/2)

aww anon no need to apologize for this, i’m happy to listen !! i think it’s just a matter of communication; i usually think that talking this out with your partner is generally the best idea just because you can lay everything out on the table and really see what’s going on ... people don’t always realize that there might be an issue !! it’s difficult to bring this sort of thing up, though, and they might not always want to reciprocate with the same effort that you put into the conversation, but it’s worth a shot and if they aren’t willing to work out the issues, then they might not be worth it in the long run D: 

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wanted to know .. how do you know when someone you have a love hate relationship with likes you? i know.. it sounds a little crazy but over time becoming his friend.. i started to like him.

:OOOOOOOO this is a bit more finicky of a situation !!!!! everyone is different, and they may send signals / or they may not that they may be attracted to you, so for your best bet i think if you’ve moved on to becoming friends, you can tell him about your feelings - it isn’t easy, of course, because you may be afraid of running the risk of breaking the friendship you two built, but if it’s strong it’ll hold !!! and who knows, maybe he’ll like you back too :D

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hi! i feel a bit behind and inadequate compared to my lovely friends. they’re all dating people who are kind and treat them amazing, and I feel like I’m in a rut because I want a s/o and I think I’m a decent, kind person, but I don’t feel like I’m as smart or funny or as pretty as my friends: any advice on how to make myself feel better abt being single??

hello mon amour !!!!! i will try my best to answer this ask –> let’s go !

i used to struggle with this a lot too; trying not to compare yourself to anyone else is really difficult, ya know ? it took me ages to learn how to focus on my own progress, and to drop all the feelings of envy and jealousy and everything that was chewing me up. i had to unlearn all the spite and all the hatred i felt for myself and everyone else ahead, and that was a lengthy process too. 

i’m not sure what eventually turned around; maybe it was because i grew up a little going into high school, or maybe it was just because i grew accustomed to this state. everyone is a bit different in how they approach these situations, and everyone is a bit different in how they view themselves / how they experience emotions, so i’m not sure how to tackle this in your specific scenario. 

personally, i’ve grown to enjoy the time i have to myself too when i’m not in a relationship. i slip into these occasional moments where i want someone to love me and for someone to love, and i despair about how i crave touch or intimacy, but it’s also lovely to just have some of that energy spent on yourself - you needn’t pin your whole self-worth on your relationship status, nor do you have to depend on a relationship for happiness !!! i assure you, you’re just as smart, funny, and beautiful as all your friends who are in relationships. 

do not fret, mi amor !! love will find you when it does <3

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im like that other anon omg!!! ur acc tastes like those sherbet push pop ice cream thingies 2 me

really ?? :OOOOOO i should try one soon they sound so good and i’m craving something sweet rn 

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hi i’m feeling soft rn i’m gonna ramble abt my bf for a bit! ghgnghhg he,, smells so good?? like literally so good. i love his smell. his jaw?? delicious. wanna kiss every inch of it. his neck too... especially along his adam’s apple. wanna run my fingers through his hair and teach him how to properly kiss (he opens his mouth to wide but i love him) also,, i love him?? what’s up with that?? never been in love before sjfjsjfjdjjfj. but like?? i genuinely wanna b with him for a longgg time?? (pt1)

(pt2) and ugh,, i just think abt him all the time and i’m, Terrified of losing him but he’s so so good? and we’re still a lil awkward and we’ve still got stuff to figure out and. aa. i just want to stay with him all the time shfjsjfj he was sick a few days ago so i couldn’t see him at school and then he showed up again and was like !!!! also: his voice?? ughhh it’s hot and deep and gjghfjgn and like,, i wanna do it all with him like not just sex n stuff like life u know?? and im,, terrified bc

(pt3) ive never, experienced Anything like this like he literally makes my heart ache and i realize it probably won’t last forever but!! what if!!! what if we get married or some shit!!! i can’t stop imagining our future together!!! we’re not even publicly dating!!! but ugh! he’s just,, everything reminds me of him and he’s always on my mind and he makes me!! happy!! snjfjsjfjsb thank u for listening to me ramble abt my boi

hey anon !!!!! i’m so sorry for getting back to you so late … but this is so cute it made my day to read this :DDDDDD i wish you two the best of luck !!! don’t be so terrified of losing him, my dear, you sound very smitten and i’m sure he’s very smitten too :(

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you handed me a bouquet of blooms and i melted at their touch