actively ghosting

Simone //22//Greece

[blackcoffeestudies]

Mutual fascination is always a risky business. Lacan suggests that it is the consequence of an imaginary identification in which the self strives to incorporate the other in an act as aggressive as it is loving. It is never clear who, snake or snake charmer, is mesmerized by whom.

Elizabeth Grosz, Jacques Lacan: A feminist introduction

[achillesinhighheels]

[smelsea]

From the Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Handbook [pdf]

[atramentumnoctis]

getting older and weirder and sexier and more perverted and gluttonous and intelligent and blunt and eloquent and spontaneous and skilled is literally what it's all about

[konoko]

[sea-mists]

your life is not on hold, this is your life!! every day is all there is!!!

[skinny-dippin-sasquatch-deactiv]

"But I do think the idea that basic cooking skills are a virtue, that the ability to feed yourself and a few others with proficiency should be taught to every young man and woman as a fundamental skill, should become as vital to growing up as learning to wipe one's own ass, cross the street by oneself, or be trusted with money."

–Anthony Bourdain

[fourthclub]

[hairscare]

pisses me off when i see people on other platforms talk about "everyone" abandoning tumblr after the sex ban and what a big impact that had. THE WEAK LEFT THE STRONG SURVIVED. REAL TUMBLR USERS WILL NEVER STOP. they could make a new update where you can only post 3 words at a time and id still be on here like "hey guys whats"

[deanwinchesterapologist]

we need smoking thats good for you now more than ever

[sioltach]

CATVISU WRAP SKIRT

[hagiomoto]

This should be a bigger news tbh

[hagiomoto]

YouTube Quietly Erased More Than 700 Videos Documenting Israeli Human Rights Violations

The tech giant deleted the accounts of three prominent Palestinian human rights groups — a capitulation to Trump sanctions.

[angelicdewdrop]

[8nin]

i understand why people go legit insane like i get it

[allsadnshit]

I can't stop thinking about this conversation I had with my dad in spring where he told me sometimes the change you need doesn't have to be going full force in the other direction - but just a slight shift that can be gentle and purposeful and still makes all the difference. This concept exists in taichi where instead of trying to stop a large force entirely you just shift its direction and use it's momentum to guide the movement where you want it to go.

I think this practice both physically and spiritually is what it means to understand restraint and gratitude because it recognizes even just a small amount is sometimes enough and worth it's power ten fold

[eatpussypraylove]

I kinda love when I take a picture of something beautiful and it looks like shit because it humbles me and reminds me to stay off my phone

[puppygirlirl]

you aren't insane you just live with your parents

you aren't insane you just live with your parents

you aren't insane you just live with your parents

you aren't insane you just live with your parents

you aren't insane you just live with your parents