oh so when PETER PARKER gets sensory overload he has spidey senses but when I do I HAVE AUTISM
you both have autism hope this helps

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oh so when PETER PARKER gets sensory overload he has spidey senses but when I do I HAVE AUTISM
you both have autism hope this helps
Literally this.
People don’t want restrictions cos they want to fuck up your social life, or to stop you seeing your support network etc.
They want restrictions so their employers can’t force them into work.
The problem with having lesbian moms is you try to be super cool and cut all your hair off and buy a leather jacket and wear boots all the time and then you go to some event in your neighborhood and all these women three times your age start cooing “oh you look JUST like your mother when she was your age, my gosh what a blast from the past, oh I just love your hair”
And let me be very clear, okay: I’ve seen pictures of my mom when she was my age, and she looked cooler than I ever will. My mom had exactly my fashion sense except she was two point five degrees butcher and habitually took over government buildings. My other mom was about six degrees butcher than that, and SHE had a motorcycle. Both of them have been charged with felony arson. I’m the prep member of my family and there’s nothing I can do about it.
Please tell me at some point in your life some dick was like “we’re calling your parents over your behavior” only to have a bigger, more badass version of you come strolling in
Look obviously that happened many many times, usually with misogynist or ableist teachers. But I have a BETTER story than that, which is that when I was in 3rd grade, I went to this tiny alternative hippy school—it was a regular public school, it was just small and staffed/run by hippie communists—and my 3rd grade teacher was a woman who had been in an organization with my mother, and they had done direct action together more than a few times. We’ll call her D. One day I was sitting in D’s class, eight years old and bored out of my mind, and I scratched my name into the back of my plastic chair with a rock. Was this reasonable behavior? No. Why did I do it? Only the gods can say. I don’t actually remember doing the scratching, I just remember looking at the rock in my hand and my name on the chair and going, “HUH. That’s not good.” So obviously I got caught, bc I couldn’t reasonably convince anyone that I wasn’t the one who had done it, since it was MY NAME, and as punishment for this act of arbitrary vandalism I was sentenced to recess detention for two weeks. It was October so this included Halloween. Halloween, to be clear, is a high holy day in San Francisco, and I was devastated to miss the informal festivities that would be occurring at recess that day, and I wept and wailed about this at home for some time until my mother decided that this was disproportionate punishment and took it into her own hands to do something about it. So my mom walks into D’s office on a day when my mother does not have to be at work at a scheduled time, but D has to get her students from the yard in about ten minutes, and my mom sits down and says to her old friend and comrade, “Miranda is really upset about having detention on Halloween.” And D explains to my mother why the detention was issued, what the circumstances were, and my mother nods, and listens, and doesn’t argue, and doesn’t show any sign of getting up from her chair. And just says again “She’s really upset about having detention on Halloween.” And D looks at my mother, and she looks at the clock in her office, which is telling her that she has to be on the yard in 2 minutes now, and then looks at my mother again, who shows no sign of having anywhere to be, my mother with whom D has organized and successfully executed multiple sit-ins and takeovers of government & corporate offices, and D says, “Okay, she doesn’t have to have detention on Halloween.”
Tell your moms that we love them.
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Family with infant, and disabled, autistic dad recovering from COVID, in a developing nation, caught between the bureaucracies of two countries, trying to keep our family together
10 November, 2021: We’re an American family with a daughter born in the Philippines during lockdown. I am autistic, and physically disabled. In addition to several unexpected financial whammies, a paperwork snafu on our daughter’s birth certificate is going to take about six more months to correct on the Filipino side (if we’re lucky), and only then can we BEGIN the process of having her US citizenship confirmed and get her a passport–which will take several more months–and on my disability.
Our visas will run out long before this mess is sorted, so Immigration says that unless we come up with about 12K USD for a different kind of visa, we will, legally, have to leave the country without our daughter, because she is stateless until this mess gets sorted. Normally we would just take a day trip outside the country to reset for another 36 months–and in fact, we were preparing to do than when lockdown hit–but thanks to the Philippines’ strict lockdown, if we leave, we can’t reenter on tourist visas. Obviously, leaving without our daughter is not an option.
I’m going to talk to Immigration again once I can be off of the oxygen machine for long enough, maybe see if I can get to someone with more authority, but they’ve already extended us ten months past the normal limit, so a longer extension is unlikely. If we somehow manage to not have to pay the 12K USD for the special visa, any money donated will go to paying off medical bills, and possibly help us relocate.
If you want more details: El’s birth had complications that more than tripled our hospital bill. Shortly after she was born, the project that was set to purchase one of my old stories for adaptation into a mobile game was canceled with no notice–literally days after I went into debt to replace my dying computer, counting on the money from the adaptation to pay it off. Then as the cherry on top of the entire mess, even though I’m fully vaxxed, I caught COVID, and am on oxygen recovering, so there’s that expense, too.
DONATION LINKS:
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If you would like to help, but need to use Facebook Pay or some other means, message me and we’ll figure something out.
Thank you to everyone who has already contributed!
EDIT: It is illegal to do most kinds of work on a tourist visa, even if I were able, and if Zoey weren’t taking care of the baby and me full time. She is still looking for online remote work, though–the only kind she can legally do here–even though it pays less than half of US minimum wage. (One more way companies from wealthy nations exploit developed nations, but that’s a whole rant on its own.) It’s still not going to be enough, though.
Nov 20, 2021: It looks like they MAY be opening things up enough for us to reset our tourist visas before our current ones run out in March.
But… between the medical bills for El’s birth complications, my COVID treatment, trying to get my mouth fixed (bc the doc says if I don’t, I’m going to keep breaking teeth and losing the bone mass in my jaw), and all the legal fees with extensions, getting El’s birth certificate fixed, and the mandatory travel involved with all that, we’re still on the hook for several thousand USD, so any help is still greatly appreciated.
My disability is enough for our normal monthly expenses, but this additional burden is crushing.
EDIT: If for some reason you cannot use the above links (some folks outside the US have had trouble), then one the below should work. And thank you again.
Go to paypal.me/droberthamm and type in the amount. Since it’s PayPal, it's easy and secure. Don’t have a PayPal account? No worries.
Thursday, December 16, 2021
So thanks to Omicron, we’re still going to need the SRRV.
Thanks to a few of you, we are a bit over a quarter of the way towards the 12K we need by February, so thank you!
Even if I can get the SRRV in time to stay here with El until she has a passport, Zoey will have to go back to the states because she doesn’t qualify to be added to it, but it would mean El would have at least ONE of her parents here to finish getting things straightened out, so that will be less traumatic than being left here alone–which is what Immigration says we will have to do if we don’t come up with the money for the SRRV in time.
I’m going to try to change their minds and get them to just extend us again, but they were pretty adamant when I spoke with them before.
To explain the visa mess a little more: Most foreigners who move here (unless they are rich, or married to a Philippines citizen) renew their tourist visa every two months, which you can keep doing for up to three years. At the end of 36 months you have to leave the country for a day and come back to reset. That’s impossible right now because the Philippines isn’t letting anyone in on tourist visas. Thanks to lockdown, we were unable to do that, and they’ve already extended us ten months past the usual 36.
In the (unlikely) event that I can get them to change their mind amd extend us for another six months or so, so that I don’t have to get the SRRV, everything donated will go to medical bills and any needed relocation at the end of the (hypothetical) new extension.
(Because thanks to the Philippines’ COVID policies, even with an extension, we’ll still have to leave and abandon the life we’ve built here at the end whatever extra time they give us, if any, unless they reopen the county by then–just we’d be able to do it as a family.)
For those of us who can give to any of the funds with equal ease, is there one that is one that is easiest for you?
They’re equally easy, but the first PayPal link (it leads to a page that says “Rob’s covid/El’s citizenship fund) seems to take the lowest fees out, thanks!
Got it! Cheers!
*toddles off*
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