"Why am I not getting my desires?"
I need to start affirming that I get a dollar every time people ask me this lmao
Exactly. Why aren't you getting your desires? If you're the one deciding what's going on in your reality then why the hell aren't you getting your desires?
The answer is simple, it's because you've decided you're not gonna get your desires.
But again, why would you decide that? Well, maybe deep down you don't want to get them.
And again, why don't you want to get your desires? Because that means changes, and changes can be very scary sometimes.
And you're probably wondering "how is me suddenly having more money a scary thing?". That itself isn't scary, but people often fear things that are unknown to them. Suddenly your mind comes up with million different scenarios of what can go wrong. "I want to be a millionaire but what if I lose my money or what if someone tries to rob me or what if people around me change or what if bla bla bla...". Your brain is simply trying to protect you from bad situations and that's why you secretly decide that the best option is to just not change anything.
It's kind of like when someone is in a toxic relationship and everyone is wondering why they just can't leave. That person most likely knows that it's toxic and that they're only getting hurt but at the same time they feel comfortable because they know what to expect.
If you can't get your desires it means you feel safer and more comfortable without them.
Maybe you're thinking about all the bad things that can happen to you and how you can suddenly lose something you really wanted. And that would hurt, right? It would hurt a lot. And you don't want to get hurt so you're pushing it back.
But the thing is, you're forgetting that you can just decide that nothing bad is going to happen when you get your desires. You decide what happens.
So please really really think about all the things that scare you about getting your desire, write them down if you want, and then just take a deep breath and tell yourself that these things don't scare you because you're the one in control and you don't want them to happen and that means they're not going to happen.
Oh and to be clear, I'm not saying that people who are abused, homeless, poor, sick etc. want all those bad things to keep happening to them. It's just a fact that people stick to situations that are familiar to them, even if they're bad, because the unknown seems more scary.
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