Things I can't say on main

Blackpill takes and Y haterism. Side blog.

[feminist-space]

[feminist-space]

[indigo-invictus]

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[nofinalgrlsjuststrongwomen]

you seem pretty reactive to lesbians critiquing your moid for a radfem with “manhater” and “future is female” in their bio

[meowykar]

I think bpers have established that women will never give up on makeup and vanity because appearance is one of the only things that men care about when it comes to women. Men and society has a whole has placed women’s value on how sexually appealing they are and how much they can serve others, and women naturally follow. Why don’t men wear makeup?

This is right. Women in general won't give up makeup and other feminine things just like most bihet women won't give up men. Wanting your appearance to be feminine is part of the submissive and masochistic nature of females. This is evident by the fact that lesbians and bisexual women also perform femininity in order to attract same-sex attracted women. And also by the fact that it's mostly women and gay/bi men performing femininity. I have talked about this before.

The only kind of het men who perform femininity are perverts and trannies. Most het men know exactly that femininity is degrading and signals submissiveness, which is what they're attracted to.

Back then when I discovered the first "blackpillers", before that was even a term, it was all about biological essentialism and ceasing to see women as nothing but victims, but rather as people who have agency and largely use it to uphold the status quo in many ways. I don't know when the term blackpill feminism and then sovereignty emerged. But I find it ironic that some women in blackpill spaces will use the exact same arguments that feminists use, to defend makeup, and that also under the guise of sovereignty. I recently made a post about how women should stop changing definitions, but I guess it's normal that things change. Just like radical feminism, now blackpill feminism has also changed.

Women won't change their ways and it's normal that they will use excuses for doing what they want without examining it and will react negatively to criticism about what they like. We just need to look at libfems for that. In fact that is just human. We all have our biases and will come up with reasons to defend them. I also noticed that a lot of blackpillers here seem to be younger, so I guess it's no surprise that they get defensive.

I lament the fact that all the women from back then are gone, but they probably completely gave up on women and focus on their own life, which is understandable. But I do wish women in blackpill spaces had the bite from back then.

Whatever, that's just how it is. I can't and don't want to control other peoples life and they can do whatever they want and so can I.

[kasira-rr]

Humans are instinctually repulsed by sex because it is a portal to this hell, sex can never be purified and there is no innocent version of it

[pisceanpharies]

It's true cause as children we're properly disgusted when we hear about it. Later, hormones take over and remove all sense of decency, causing people to start debasing and using each other for their bodies.

Very few make it through without getting caught up in it and even fewer of us find a way out of it and into celibacy.

[heteropositivity69]

today's blackpill: 100% of men would rape you if there was a guarantee that no one knew and there were no consequences

[maneatered]

You were born, you are enslaved, and then you die. What about this that makes people think making their kids go through the same thing is alright

[s4mm1ee]

Misery likes company.

[zyei]

people posting how much they hate bpf is literally so funny like brother Look Away Then damn let me and my six insane mutuals be pissed that other women sold themselves out for a smidge of approval from moids. god forbid a woman be mad lmao.

[indigo-invictus]

Western women have it so good actually they forgot how despicable creatures men are.

"Western women have it too good to complain" is also just a nice variant of "he might be drinking but at least he doesn't beat you, stop complaining because other women have it worse"which is classic silencing tactic.

Well of course moid lovers will emulate moids and their retarded tactics.

[indigo-invictus]

I wouldn't be calling foids, foids if they had basic ability to understand written text and used critical thinking skills.

[baraphalloplastyclinic]

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

[sunshineandrosesnoraincamemyway]

My stars the tags on this post are sad.

Anyways

I would love to be a housewife

[uptownthots]

average Christian

[s4mm1ee]

I no longer care for hose who get abused. At this point we have said literally all that we have left to said. Figure it out for yourselves.

[radioactivewisdomreactivated]

"Men and women need each other!"

Outside of reproducing, abusing their children, and making the lives of everyone who is not like them a living hell what do the average osa man and woman even enjoy doing together? The world would be better off if men and women stayed away from each other more. When they get together they only know how to destroy everything around them. They also do not like each other at all and need all kinds of rituals and religions to tell them how to effectively roleplay their household roles because they do not actually like the other's true self.

This is poetry, so sufficiently stated. I have nothing else to add, only admiration.

[landminesnake]

Women are half the population, scratch that, we are 51%. If they woke up and decided to collectively pick a female dictatorship that'd get 30% of moids blasted. Feminism would be over today.

But instead they protect their sons, there's even a subreddit for moms with rapist and molester sons, vote trump and continue birthing so they can keep getting dicked down.

[kasira-rr]

i don’t even care about veganism or vegetarianism personally and yet i still find few things more pathetic than a former vegan or vegetarian woman bragging about now eating meat after years of not doing so, just bc she got a bf who “convinced her”. just a loser through and through, stand tf up???

A lot of women abandon their political opinions and values for their moids lol because they lack spine, it’s not necessarily a female exclusive thing, couples shape each other, and people abandon themselves for their partners, I think it’s because a lot of people’s entire personalities are only constructed to attract a mate and get laid.

[indigo-invictus]

And moids get off on making foids abandon their values. They deserve eachother.

[radioactivewisdomreactivated]

It's deeply deeply distressing and disturbing to see older women whoring it out like that. Recently found out about the Oscar nominated movie Marty Supreme in which Gwyneth Paltrow is in a shower scene with Timothée Chalamet. And it's just. Fucking fuck man. I. I don't know how to explain it. Seeing young foids go at it is one thing but seeing women in their 50s, heck 80s (Helen Mirren), get naked like that on screen, really makes my heart sink. The other day came across a comment where someone said she and her partner both in their 80s. Have the best sex. What the fuck? Why do we need to know that? Someone's grandmother in her 90s is still having sex and has no qualms bringing it up with the grandkids. Jesus. Please. Not knowing how inherently submissive the whole act is for women even at that age. Makes me lose hope. All hope. I mean.. I know there is no hope sure. But getting reminded of it on a daily basis really fucks me up.

Unfortunately, they never age out of pandering to males. There’s been an enormous effort on feminists part to expand the definition of “fuckable” to include old women, because being seen as desirable by males is their life long objective. Women and men are equally obsessed with sex, and they're always seeking new ways to be validated through their physicality. They'll be the first to express happiness vibrating on an animalistic frequency, citing their "biological urges" nonstop, thus, resulting in what've you've described. Enjoy your ability to live and think rationally, even if it's at times distressing, it's preferable to see this primitive society clearly.

[gracecode]

feeling dysmorphic in a female body within this society and biological conditions is natural and a sign of self respect. it's not self hate, it's a rational response to expectations of society from the female body.

[evenlesssentimentaltranslator]

For real, you all need to stop listening to TIMs. They're pushing the "being a woman means liking norms of femininity" to serve THEIR interests, with no regard for the women who live in societies where that gets pushed on us.

[fretami]

100% and not even just "not liking femininity" actively feeling bad about your female sex characteristics makes sense in a world that sexualizes, degrades, looks down upon female bodies.

[residentsrink144]

Can't make this shit up

[residentsrink144]

Look at this teenage cunt.. most of teenage females are whore cunts like this and women here still wanna fight me that old women are worse lol

Teenage cunts are the embodiment of evil

[residentsrink144]

They always so vulgar and repulsive

[indigo-invictus]

This is what happens when kids have access to pornogaphy. And this is not the worst behaviour yet.

Teenage moids are even worse than that.

That's why Im strong proponent of beating children.

[degree-in-yapology]

Yeah, human females don't have many cool counter adaptations against sexual coercion, we don't do cannibalism, we don't usually gang up on coercive males to collectively beat them to death (a shame), etc. etc. And it sounds so bad because rape is a horrible thing and we want to have a defense against it, so…

Wait. Did you catch that? Rape is a horrible, traumatizing thing. It's even more traumatizing (50% PTSD rate) than being a soldier in active combat (17% PTSD rate) and comparable to torture (50% PTSD rate on average). But why? It feels stupid to ask, because it's so emotionally obvious, especially if you're a woman. But think about it. The only thing evolution sees is reproductive success, no? And she's getting reproductive success, no? Evolution should reward that, no? So why is it so horribly traumatizing to such a ridiculous degree? Why did many women throughout history prefer burning alive than going through that?

Because that is the counter adaptation.

That fear, that revulsion at the pit of your stomach while you're reading about this… those are counter adaptations. Sexual conflict is still going on, always has been and always will be. But sexual conflict is a conflict. It's not just females rolling over entirely all the time. If it was just females rolling over entirely, nobody would ever be traumatized by rape. But that's not what we see, at all.

The pain and the fear, those are counter adaptations. I heavily advise against anyone convincing you that that fear is entirely irrational and hysterical and stupid and that you should do something about it. A false positive ("yes, he's safe" when he's not) can have worse consequences than a false negative. Keep that fear, listen to it, do not let anyone label it racist/ableist/anything, and use your intelligence to act accordingly.

It's your counter adaptation.

Note 1: I'm obviously not talking about extreme cases of someone being so horrified by the possibility of rape happening to them all the time that they can't leave their house and become immobilized. Those people should obviously do something about that. My problem is that our positive culture and "it's mean/racist/ableist to be automatically afraid of strange men 🥲" approach convinced a lot of women to suppress their valuable instincts.

Note 2: I will talk about the weird ass fantasies some women have next time. Those fantasies do not change the PTSD rates at all.

[indigo-invictus]

I do think all other counter adaptations we had (like you know, comparable strength, and with it ability to kill the offender) were rendered useless when ys started targeting children.

[kasira-rr]

the love women feel for men isn’t unconditional at all. heterosexual relations, despite all its dangers and damages it poses to a woman’s health and safety largely elevates her status in a heteronormative society compared to anything else she could do sexually and romantically. she still gets to play delusional fairy tale love story like movies and books have promised her, fulfilling a selfish need within her. she, if she most likely desires, gets to be a mom and further her genetic heritage, she still gets to have sex and get that sexual degradation she so desperately craves, she gets to feel needed, hence why a lot willingly fall into a maid dynamic for their man, she gets to delude herself with having a “protector” at her disposal, she gets to say she “isn’t dying alone”(even tho we all are if you think about it). i could go on. nothing about the het dynamic from the female perspective is unconditional, it’s just blind and deluded. it demands at least some level of dislike of yourself if you are in any way cognisant of male supremacy in the world, a level of callousness for you as a human, which, let’s be fair a lot of women fucking hate themselves deep down. just entrenched in self pity and insecurity. most women are masochistic animals while most males are sadistic ones. they each get their needs met from each other and it’s with specific conditions needing to be met for that partnership to “work”(does it ever truly? oh well, they keep coming back)

Couldn’t have said it better thank you anon, from the female perspective it is absolutely not unconditional even if to us it may seem like she’s sacrificing more than she’s getting, but there is no such thing as an action without an incentive.

And I don’t like the idea that love has to be unconditional (which as we’ve established, it cannot be in the first place) in order for it to be “pure”, what’s the point of loving something that is useless to you? You love something that makes you feel good or helps you out in some way, it’s natural, just like how you love your pets or hobbies or friends or whatever because they give you a dopamine boost and reduce your stress and anxiety…unconditional love is bs, it doesn’t make sense and it shouldn’t even be an ideal. You don’t just love things without any reason.