[distantsolacevictor]

Things have been really peaceful for me. (Aside from my job. I need to get out of here as soon as possible.) I'm actually thinking of looking for a newer one that's not in customer service or retail. I got an offer as a receptionist at a hotel not too far away from here that's offered to pay me so much better than being a waitress 🤮

[distantsolacevictor]

So many things have gotten so much better ever since I moved out of my old place. Ever since I started focusing on myself more I've made so much progress in my own life! The place that I live in is near the main street where all the shops/movie theaters and library is at. I've gotten out of the house a lot spend time with my friends. We go to the Saturday fair every evening go walk around and support smaller businesses. It's a bit difficult and exhausting to pay for bills and take care of my new apartment now that I'm learning to be completely independent.

But I never imagined a life like this for myself. I thought when I was younger life would be a mess (and it is in a lot of aspects) but I finally feel like I'm actually living. I have a group of friends that I hang out with regularly, a beautiful golden retriever I take out for walks to admire the sunset and recently got back into playing soccer!! I found a great all women's soccer club a few miles near my place and they've been so lovely to be around.

[distantsolacevictor]

It's not all doom and gloom out there in the world. Aside from a select few, most of the women that I've been able to meet are also share the same views on separatism, feminism, and males. It feels like you meet women who are obsessed with men and finding a date almost everywhere but there is hope for women. And I'm really really really happy to spend my time around women who focus more on themselves and their friends rather than having a partner.

[bookofknives]

my style? INCONSISTENT. but my commitment to womens art will never waver

[distantsolacevictor]

Things have been really peaceful for me. (Aside from my job. I need to get out of here as soon as possible.) I'm actually thinking of looking for a newer one that's not in customer service or retail. I got an offer as a receptionist at a hotel not too far away from here that's offered to pay me so much better than being a waitress 🤮

[distantsolacevictor]

So many things have gotten so much better ever since I moved out of my old place. Ever since I started focusing on myself more I've made so much progress in my own life! The place that I live in is near the main street where all the shops/movie theaters and library is at. I've gotten out of the house a lot spend time with my friends. We go to the Saturday fair every evening go walk around and support smaller businesses. It's a bit difficult and exhausting to pay for bills and take care of my new apartment now that I'm learning to be completely independent.

But I never imagined a life like this for myself. I thought when I was younger life would be a mess (and it is in a lot of aspects) but I finally feel like I'm actually living. I have a group of friends that I hang out with regularly, a beautiful golden retriever I take out for walks to admire the sunset and recently got back into playing soccer!! I found a great all women's soccer club a few miles near my place and they've been so lovely to be around.

[distantsolacevictor]

Things have been really peaceful for me. (Aside from my job. I need to get out of here as soon as possible.) I'm actually thinking of looking for a newer one that's not in customer service or retail. I got an offer as a receptionist at a hotel not too far away from here that's offered to pay me so much better than being a waitress 🤮

[honeyapplebutterfly]

“Calling gender dysphoria a delusion is offensive to detransitioners” no it fucking isn’t!!!!! Believing you should’ve been the opposite sex and hating your body enough to hurt yourself is delusional. It’s not an insult it’s RECOGNITION. I was a mentally ill 12 year old and I deserved HELP not a bunch of fucking hormones and an appointment to get my tits cut off.

[distantsolacevictor]

I feel like everyone should work in customer service for a year to see how terrible humanity really is. 

(Typing this really quickly on break) 

Especially how marriage and children just bring out the absolute worst in people. You don’t even need to experience a terrible relationship to realize that it’s an absolute nightmare of a situation to be stuck in you just have to watch and observe these people. 

I work part time in a diner and a majority of our patrons are newer families and married couples (considering the area that I live in). There’s obviously some that are really sweet and make sure their children behave but the ones that aren’t are awful. 

The ones that piss me off the most are seeing men just sitting there scrolling through their phones while their wives handle all the work with their toddler/newborn. Like I’ll see the baby in the carrier being rocked and pacified with a bottle and the toddler is sitting on her lap. Some of the worst experiences I’ve had were watching toddlers throw a huge tantrum over the food and their (usually) mothers desperately trying to get them to eat. And if it’s not that, then they’ll be on their iPads/their parents phone blasting music or a video. It's so annoying. This is why so many children grow up to be entitled, phone addicted brats.

This might be more of an argument to not have children, but I hate the way that some families will let their kids run through the tables and chairs and then get upset when the kid bumps their head into the corners of the table, trips over something or even rams into one of my co workers who’s carrying food. 

What even happened to teaching kids table manners??? Do these parents realize that being at a restaurant gives them the opportunity to teach them how to treat retail/customer service workers with manners and respect?

It’s usually the mom’s responsibility to control their children. Their eyes look dead and tired. Their husbands aren’t helping. They’re just… sitting there. I almost feel bad for these women but this is the life they chose. They start to look like every other woman that’s regretted having children/a husband in the past. They’re all the same copies of people who’ve had the life and humanity sucked out of them.  

[distantsolacevictor]

girl if you're single stay single. you got people out here apologizing for TAKING NAPS.

[radfemgoodnews]

Abortion in the UK has been decriminalised.

Women in England and Wales who terminate their pregnancy outside the rules, for example after 24 weeks, will no longer be at risk of being investigated by police.

Read more here

[entropymisanthropy]

I think going from caring too much to genuine apathy is kinda hard for me. I have too many emotions. But I am practicing.

[honeyapplebutterfly]

When one woman is killed every ten minutes, that’s normal.

When a few trans women are killed in a year, that’s genocide.

When it happens to female humans, it’s expected. When it happens to male humans, it’s a shocking tragedy.

[distantsolacevictor]

I don't even think believing that some women are inherently able to be saved is a 'black pilled' concept. It's just a fact of the world. There are going to be women who constantly reject and deny everything feminism has fought for. No matter how hard you convince them to leave a specific unhealthy environment, or worse stop enabling the people around them, they won't leave.

It's something you have to accept that no matter how much help you offer, resources you can give or advice and they don't take it, ultimately it is on them. They made their bed, let them lay in it. The only person you can really save is yourself in the end.

"But it's from years of patriarchal grooming!" But we have so many resources, and they're not taking it. If they want to sit and strew in their own self inflicted destruction let them. The best way to live life is escaping the melting pot of misery that they pull you into.

[distantsolacevictor]

Adding onto this, I have so many personal anecdote; especially from numerous women about the difficulties that it took for them to leave an abusive male partner, and how liberating it was for them to build a life independently of anything relating to a relationship/men for the sake of themselves, their children or just to protect themselves financially. I'm so proud of those women in my life. Yes there is hope for women, but for the women that actively fight to get it.

[donutfem]

Always be hope-pilled. Things are fucking rough. Many of us have experienced horrors that are almost unspeakable. But still there is good in the world. Females from all walks of life organize, look after one another, and advocate for one another. We are beating men in educational attainment, birth rates are going down, more resources exist for domestic violence and rape. And there is pushback to all of this! But we need to push back harder and continue to support and look after one another rather than allow ourselves to fall into despair. I believe in us.

[distantsolacevictor]

The world you envision won't happen unless you actively work towards bringing it. 🖤

[distantsolacevictor]

I think there's a lot of her things that could happen once a woman chooses her sovereignty. Refusing to interact with men and escaping their enablers and stop arguining with people who defend said enablers is so peaceful. To put it simply, it's like leaving an old retail job to focus on your own career. Learning for the sake of learning, and creating deep interpersonal relationships with other women who are also exhausted of how this world operates. I also think if you have the ability to be compassionate to people that need and want it for the sake of being compassionate, it's an admirable thing and the world needs more of it. Focusing on yourself is incredibly liberating and brings so much happiness.

[honeyapplebutterfly]

Maybe it’s overly optimistic but I really do believe there’s a world where all women are free. I don’t know how anyone could watch crowds of Iranian women dance and burn their headscarves and not see that there is hope for women. If Malala can take a bullet you can hold on a little longer and be a little louder. A future with female freedom means a current state of female anger. There is a wave of women uprising and I see it coming but it isn’t magic. We make it happen, especially those of us in any amount of privilege. Patriarchy, capitalism, and AI are unstable, female solidarity is not. The future is female, if we make it.

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[neopetdestroyer]

Suicide prevention sex 😭

[distantsolacevictor]

I think it's actually quite amazing to realize how much peace and freedom comes when you're not constantly trying to save people who don't want to be saved. I've accomplished so many things, personal, physically, aesthetically and mentally in life I'm so proud of now that I don't have a chorus of people moaning in my ear about how helpless everything is.