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she/they 26 | call me b🧸

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heojayoon

[bonkie]

[cottagefaeries]

[cocainejuul]

I hope everyone grows tired of being cruel to each other soon

[animalamor]

[adioringly]

[taros]

[brujjiti]

[taros]

[beguines]

Carrie Fountain, from "Late Spring in the Mesilla Valley", Burn Lake

[meganrennieart]

[recaption]

[justsomeguycore]

also while i’m ranting about gender i always see debate about whether girls are rewarded for being tomboys or not and it’s like. actually girls are rewarded for mirroring whatever the situation demands of them. girls can’t be too prissy and refuse to play in the creek, but girls also can’t show up to girly events covered in mud. girls can’t have makeup art as a hobby or else they’re superficial, but if they never wear makeup they’re a slob and dumpy, etc. it’s not that girls are universally rewarded or punished for being tomboys, they’re rewarded for bending over backwards to always be exactly right for any given situation and punished for breaking those boundaries. so yes a classically pretty girl who cleans up nice is rewarded when she can ALSO be a tomboy. but a girl who is a tomboy all the time is definitely punished for never being able to achieve that prerequisite feminine side. this debate is over now thanks

[lousyfuckingratboy]

this is spot on. A woman's masculinity is rewarded as long as it doesn't conflict with being heteronormatively attractive and as long as the masculinity plays harmonising second fiddle to the masculinity of the men around her.

[lovenotereminders]

Having a bad day, having a relapse, slipping back into a bad habit, making a mistake, none of these things erase the progress you’ve made so far. You’ve done well before and you can do well again. All of the strides in the right direction that you’ve made don’t disappear just because you tripped over on your path. Get back up, keep walking, you can do it. 

[lovecatcher]

cafe hush

[medley]

https://www.instagram.com/p/CsOaAgSLfam/

[medley]

https://www.instagram.com/p/CsGigy7Lbqu/