lovely

Hi I'm Jerinna! I'm a bag filled with gay, pan romantic, and non-monogomous marbles but if you accept that we can be friends (: I love super hard and passionately but hey, someone out there is the same I suppose ! Message me if you want to get to know me more!

[traauma]

this isn’t living

[bpd-italy]

how to avoid guilt-tripping people accidentally (will be updated as i think of examples)

don’t insult yourself. it seems like you’re looking to make them feel bad for you. it also makes it look like you’re playing victim. (ex: “i’m a shitty person.” “i should just die.” “i’m just stupid.”)

say, for example, “i feel like you dislike me” instead of “you dislike me.” you don’t actually know how they feel and being accusatory like that is a huge turn off.

when apologizing, make it genuine. don’t bring up how you feel and instead apologize for how you made the other person feel. how you feel can be brought up later.

remind people that you genuinely want to get better and tell them to call you out when you exhibit problematic behavior.

it’s perfectly okay to be angry that your trauma left you with these symptoms, but that doesn’t make it okay to continue problematic behavior and make no effort to fix it. you can do it with some effort. i believe in you. and feel free to add on.

[oldhagshitposter]

Sometimes, you don’t feel you’re to blame! And that’s okay!! But it’s important to make your loved one feel validated. Apologize anyways. Trust me; It’s hard but it makes you and your loved one feel better in the end. Once they feel better, try to explain how you feel. You’ll find they’re much more open to hear what you have to say.

[inkedmoments]

Hey there!! I’m looking to meet new people ^-^ are you queer and polyamorous? If yes, great! We’d get along just fine! Like this post and I will immediately follow you back! Let’s be friends!!!!!!! 💖💖💖💖

[arrow-of-pallas-moved-deactivat]

Cuddling is good and valid and not inherently romantic and can be completely platonic reblog if you agree.

[wolfpilled]

“there’s a lot to unpack here” is the academic equivalent of “yikes”

[gazanarchive]

I overthink. I over love. I over feel. I’m the sea or I’m nothing.

Juansen Dizon

[ithelpstodream]

[curlicuecal]

This actually made me feel really good about my day because I somehow managed 80 points?

a fuckin. professional.

[asb29]

If you’re still checking up on me, miss you.

[inkedmoments]

Hello!! I’m a queer woman who also likes women!! 💖💖💖💖 I want to meet more of you and perhaps find queer love in the midst of things! Like this post for a follow back!

[leslieknope2k44]

a guide to wlw period pieces

[astronomical-vodka]

i’m bored. send me asks

200: My crush’s name is: 199: I was born in: 198: I am really: 197: My cellphone company is: 196: My eye color is: 195: My shoe size is: 194: My ring size is: 193: My height is: 192: I am allergic to: 191: My 1st car was: 190: My 1st job was: 189: Last book you read: 188: My bed is: 187: My pet: 186: My best friend: 185: My favorite shampoo is: 184: Xbox or ps3: 183: Piggy banks are: 182: In my pockets: 181: On my calendar: 180: Marriage is: 179: Spongebob can: 178: My mom: 177: The last three songs I bought were? 176: Last YouTube video watched: 175: How many cousins do you have? 174: Do you have any siblings? 173: Are your parents divorced? 172: Are you taller than your mom? 171: Do you play an instrument? 170: What did you do yesterday? [ I Believe In ] 169: Love at first sight: 168: Luck: 167: Fate: 166: Yourself: 165: Aliens: 164: Heaven: 163: Hell: 162: God: 161: Horoscopes: 160: Soul mates: 159: Ghosts: 158: Gay Marriage: 157: War: 156: Orbs: 155: Magic: [ This or That ] 154: Hugs or Kisses: 153: Drunk or High: 152: Phone or Online: 151: Red heads or Black haired: 150: Blondes or Brunettes: 149: Hot or cold: 148: Summer or winter: 147: Autumn or Spring: 146: Chocolate or vanilla: 145: Night or Day: 144: Oranges or Apples: 143: Curly or Straight hair: 142: McDonalds or Burger King: 141: White Chocolate or Milk Chocolate: 140: Mac or PC: 139: Flip flops or high heals: 138: Ugly and rich OR sweet and poor: 137: Coke or Pepsi: 136: Hillary or Obama: 135: Burried or cremated: 134: Singing or Dancing: 133: Coach or Chanel: 132: Kat McPhee or Taylor Hicks: 131: Small town or Big city: 130: Wal-Mart or Target: 129: Ben Stiller or Adam Sandler: 128: Manicure or Pedicure: 127: East Coast or West Coast: 126: Your Birthday or Christmas: 125: Chocolate or Flowers: 124: Disney or Six Flags: 123: Yankees or Red Sox: [ Here’s What I Think About ] 122: War: 121: George Bush: 120: Gay Marriage: 119: The presidential election: 118: Abortion: 117: MySpace: 116: Reality TV: 115: Parents: 114: Back stabbers: 113: Ebay: 112: Facebook: 111: Work: 110: My Neighbors: 109: Gas Prices: 108: Designer Clothes: 107: College: 106: Sports: 105: My family: 104: The future: [ Last time I ] 103: Hugged someone: 102: Last time you ate: 101: Saw someone I haven’t seen in awhile: 100: Cried in front of someone: 99: Went to a movie theater: 98: Took a vacation: 97: Swam in a pool: 96: Changed a diaper: 95: Got my nails done: 94: Went to a wedding: 93: Broke a bone: 92: Got a peircing: 91: Broke the law: 90: Texted: hour ago [ MISC ] 89: Who makes you laugh the most: 88: Something I will really miss when I leave home is: 87: The last movie I saw: 86: The thing that I’m looking forward to the most: 85: The thing im not looking forward to: 84: People call me: 83: The most difficult thing to do is: 82: I have gotten a speeding ticket: 81: My zodiac sign is: 80: The first person i talked to today was: 79: First time you had a crush: 78: The one person who i can’t hide things from: 77: Last time someone said something you were thinking: 76: Right now I am talking to: 75: What are you going to do when you grow up: 74: I have/will get a job: 73: Tomorrow: 72: Today: 71: Next Summer: 70: Next Weekend: 69: I have these pets: 68: The worst sound in the world: 67: The person that makes me cry the most is: 66: People that make you happy: 65: Last time I cried: 64: My friends are: 63: My computer is: 62: My School: 61: My Car: 60: I lose all respect for people who: 59: The movie I cried at was: 58: Your hair color is: 57: TV shows you watch: 56: Favorite web site: 55: Your dream vacation: 54: The worst pain I was ever in was: 53: How do you like your steak cooked: 52: My room is: 51: My favorite celebrity is: 50: Where would you like to be: 49: Do you want children: 48: Ever been in love: 47: Who’s your best friend: 46: More guy friends or girl friends: 45: One thing that makes you feel great is: 44: One person that you wish you could see right now: 43: Do you have a 5 year plan: 42: Have you made a list of things to do before you die: 41: Have you pre-named your children: 40: Last person I got mad at: 39: I would like to move to: 38: I wish I was a professional: [ My Favorites ] 37: Candy: 36: Vehicle: 35: President: 34: State visited: 33: Cellphone provider: 32: Athlete: 31: Actor: 30: Actress: 29: Singer: 28: Band: 27: Clothing store: 26: Grocery store: 25: TV show: 24: Movie: 23: Website: 22: Animal: 21: Theme park: 20: Holiday: 19: Sport to watch: 18: Sport to play: 17: Magazine: 16: Book: 15: Day of the week: 14: Beach: 13: Concert attended: 12: Thing to cook: 11: Food: 10: Restaurant: 9: Radio station: 8: Yankee candle scent: 7: Perfume: 6: Flower: 5: Color: 4: Talk show host: 3: Comedian: 2: Dog breed: 1: Did you answer all these truthfully?

[rawmeharry]

Get to know me a little better ASK Prompt.

1. What question do you hate answering? 2. If you could be anywhere in the world right now where would it be? 3. Do you have any obsessions right now? 4. Does anyone in your real life know you have a tumblr and do they follow you? 5. What is something you disliked about today? 6. What’s one thing that people compliment you on and you don’t know why they do that? 7. Do you like bubble baths? 8. Do you talk to yourself? 9. Are you a writer? 10. What are somethings you’ve written? 11. Has someone ever written something for you? 12. Have you ever gotten a love letter? 13. Favorite quote? 14. Name one book that you will always remember. 15. Name the top five things you spend the most time doing. 16. What are your 5 favorite songs right now? 17. What’s the highest you’ve accomplished in school? 18. What do you do when you wake up? 19. Morning showers or night showers? 20. Beer or Wine? 21. inside or outdoors? 22. Morning or Night? 23. Summer or Winter? 24. Rain or Sun? 25. Ice-cream or Cookies? 26. Sweet or Salty? 27. What is your favorite beverage? 28. Has any one person ever made you so angry that you couldn’t forgive them? 29. Are you outgoing or shy? 30. Has someone ever made you cry? 31. Who are you looking forward to seeing? 32. Have you ever liked someone so much it hurt? 33. Do you have a crush on anyone right now? 34. Does anyone have a crush on you? 35. Do you still talk to your first crush? 36. Name a person you love? 37. Ever broken someone’s heart? 38. Ever been heartbroken? 39. Do you ever want to get married? 40. Who are five people you find attractive? 41. What’s your dirtiest secret? 42. Has someone ever bought you a drink? 43. Have you ever gone home with someone you just met on a night out? 44. Does talking about sex make you uncomfortable? 45. Why did your last relationship end? 46. Would you get back with the person you were last in a relationship with? 47. Have you recently made any big decisions? 48. What has been your most favorite moment of 2017? 49. What did you do on April 7th, 2017? 50. Are you excited for May 12th, 2017?

[niceaf]

Big god // Florence + the machine

[absinthe-14]

[alisonzai]

[teathattast]

the holy grail

[processintegrated]

wrong

im sure i am missing some but we’re getting there

[processintegrated]

[weirdmageddon]

[slowjamastan]

[ryumako]

[captainsnoop-deactivated2020041]

[carry-on-my-wayward-butt]

[oddity-txt]

[toe-socks-are-cool-blog]

Quality content

[portmanteau-bot]

quality + content = qualitontent.

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[inkedmoments]

Hhhh im that anon that you were pretty and i wanna message you but,,, im awkward n' shit so like ???

Omg aww don't be shy my dear 💖💖 I won't bite , I'm super thankful that you messaged me even anonymously 😊 regardless of what you decide to do I hope you're doing okay and are having a nice day!