The Ghosts of our Old Loves are Worst

"The irony is that I didn't believe in ghosts..." Chief Inspector E. Morse. b. 8/28/38, d. X/X/XX //Indie RP blog for a deceased and ghostly Endeavour Morse. Mun is of age; nsfw is tagged. Faceclaim: John Thaw//

[britishdetectives]

[love-personal]

[acchronychal]

“Hold the fuck up.” I say. I am the fuck up. Please hold me.

[girlwithapomegranate-deactivate]

cherish the healthy relationships that you do have. take care of them and nurture them because the vast majority of people you come in contact with won’t be able to provide what the people that truly love you do. never take love for granted, it isn’t guaranteed.

[slendergraspongrammar-deactivat]

Universal London [x]

[pursuecrazylife]

“He thought seriously that he should take up schoolteaching- primary school would be about his level; spelling, he thought, the safest bet.”

“The primary school became a distinctly firmer prospect as the minutes ticked by.”

- Colin Dexter, The Last Bus to Woodstock

Morse, after he yet again ignored basic clues and didn’t interview obvious suspects, so obvious that even Lewis notices.

[wordsnquotes]

I’ve noticed before that if you go too long without anyone seeing you, really seeing you, it’s easy to start wondering if you’re really there.

Maggie Mitchell, Pretty Is (via constantine-spiritworker)

[silkrobe]

Subtly Tries To Regulate Breathing Rate So No One Knows I Got Winded Walking Up The Stairs: a novel by me

[ctylerart]

Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people.

Carl Jung (via ctylerart)

[punchgod-deactivated20130427]

[ladisputa]

this made me laugh really hard why

[fafana20]

I’m very sorry for your loss. I’ll do all I can to solve the death of your friend/family member/pet.

The Doctor (via

fafana20

)

He almost made it. Allllmost. Still learning, bless him

(via punkrock-rebel-timelord)

[pine-tease]

PSA: Parents. Please do not emotionally manipulate your children.

They will grow up completely untrusting with a general sense of sadness and guilt.

Manipulation includes:

- “I just wish [something passive aggressive involving your child]”

- “You do whatever you want to do.” and then getting mad when they make the “wrong” choice

- Not believing them when they tell you something someone did or said to them, including their friends, your friends, family members, or even you

- Doing something shitty and then pretending you didn’t in hopes they’ll forget?

- Getting upset when they open up to you. About anything. Even if it’s something angering or disappointing. Don’t show them it’s dangerous or counterproductive to talk to you.

- Making them feel bad for the friends/significant others they choose, career path (or lack thereof), school choice (or lack thereof), gender/sexuality (or lack thereof) literally anything that either they didn’t choose or that they would be miserable without

- Do NOT EVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES pressure them to talk to you about personal things.

- Kids do not owe their parents anything. They did not choose to be born. You chose to get pregnant/chose to carry to term/chose to raise a baby (even if you didn’t choose all of these things, you at least chose one) under the assumption that you would love this child no matter what.

[yourstoryisnoteverover-deactiva]

Women belong in the kitchen.

Men belong in the kitchen.

Everyone belongs in the kitchen.

There’s food in the kitchen.

[therealsteelman1]

I can get behind this movement

[kimflewoverthecuckoosnest]

Can I stay in the dining room though?

[yourstoryisnoteverover-deactiva]

You can stay in the dining room. Food will be ready shortly.

[kimflewoverthecuckoosnest]

Thank you, I’ll set the table

[yourstoryisnoteverover-deactiva]

Use the good china.

[comradesaucegay]

Is your life one giant shitpost?

i spend most of my time watching masterchef australia or reading books so if my life is a giant shitpost it’s a very boring one

[apersnicketylemon]

Abusive parents can say “I love you”

Abusive parents can give their kids an allowance, gifts, toys and nice things sometimes.

Abusive parents can seem like parent of the year to outsiders.

Abusive parents can defend their children from outside threats and get them in all the best schools and programs and deal with school bullies.

Abusive parents are still abusive, regardless of the things they get right or the nice things they sometimes do.

[creativeandcoolusername-deactiv]

whoever wrote this evidently had an idyllic, sheltered, childhood…

[apersnicketylemon]

The person who wrote this had dishes thrown at them by the same person who said ‘I love you’ and tucked them into bed sometimes.

The person who wrote this would be severely punished and hit for being home even one minute late by the same person who threatened to call the cops on the two girls who bullied them relentlessly.

The person who wrote this was told over an over again by everyone that their mother was ‘incredible’ and ‘awesome’ by every one of their friends growing up despite being denied food to eat.

The person who wrote this got presents on their birthday and on holidays and had an allowance and was threatened with have everything they owned destroyed or have their pets killed on a regular basis by a parent.

The person who wrote this was called ‘stupid’, ‘retarded’, and ‘a useless idiot’ every time they couldn’t understand something by the same person who said they were ‘very smart’ and ‘had potential’.

The person who wrote this did not have an idyllic, sheltered childhood and spent years questioning if having dishes thrown at their head was actually abusive because that same person said ‘I love you’.

The person who wrote this is pretty pissed off that you would tell an abuse survivor that they had an idyllic childhood and assume there was no abuse just because the abuser was really good at making them question whether they were really abused or not, or that somehow saying ‘I love you’ made the abuse go away.

The person who wrote this literally has a personality disorder as a direct result of their parent who sometimes said I love you and got their bully’s in middle school dealt with abusing them.

But you’re right. How dare I point out that this is something ACTUAL abusers have ACTUALLY done.

[dalaisa-katili-deactivated20170]

Omfg I think they deleted their blog has no posts

[wnq-music]

How rare and beautiful it truly is that we exist.

Sleeping at Last,  “Saturn” (via kvtes)

[hiverallen]

Cesar Philipp, “Allegoria Della Primavera” (detail)