How Deep is your Love?
Would you consider yourself a Loving person? Ask me this question 3 years ago and I would reply with certainty. But ask me this question now and I would reply 'to an extent'. Let me explain my logic...Â
Now I'm talking for myself here and if youâre with me then great! But I've grown to realise something...Â
Love is not a mushy thing or a subject for toddlers. It is easy to Love those who are easy to Love, and it's harder to Love them when they are not being so Lovable.Â
It's also extremely harder to Love your haters!! Like who wants to grab a coffee with your number 1 critic? I'll pass for now.Â
So, what is it about this true selfless, forgiving, non judgemental, always believing in the best, whilst eating a humble pie type of Love that stretches the capacity of our human hearts?Â
Personally, I think it's the lack of understanding of how God Loves us and the lack of power to accept that.
We must admit that most of us donât realise how much Love is lavished on us day by day. Weâre plagued and have developed the self infecting mindset about our self value due to what people have said or how they treated us.Â
But wait, let me stop there and get back to this subject of Love.Â
In the words of the wisest man who walked this earth, 'freely you have received, freely give', now what if we haven't opened ourselves up to receive an increased measurement of God's love?
How do we freely give what we have not received?
Love is a supernatural language that translates us into the best versions of ourselves.Â
Love is prophetic as it see's the best even when it's not so apparent. It believes the best when people are acting like the worst and chooses to calls out the highest potential in that person.Â
Love is also freedom. It allows people to be ugly and then finds so much joy in discovering the beauty within that chaos.Â
Love is sometimes strange. It makes people look weird and do weird things like pick your loved one's nose ( maybe that's just what I'd do LOL)Â
And truthfully Love is a risk - it leaves you open to getting hurt.Â
But my point is this, Love has so many shades to it that it demands an increase of capacity on your behalf. If you truly want to embody Love, it's going to cost you a price.Â
Truthfully, you canât have the pleasures of Love without enduring the pains of Love.Â
I really like this inspirational prayer uttered by my uncle Paul, a legendary spiritual figure, he prayed:
May you have the POWER to UNDERSTAND, as all God's people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how DEEP his LOVE is. EPHESIANS 3:18 NLTÂ
This encourages us to take the limits off our Love. I dare you to ask God to reveal to you more and more of how much he Loves you, and ask him to increase your capacity for Loving people.Â
To understand God's Love you need to ask him for the power. His love is like a dynamite that if you would fully experience it, you would ignite and explode. His power gives you the capability to experience and demonstrate Love.Â
All in all my purpose in writing this is to stir up in you the desire to Love outside your comfort zone and become someone's encounter of Love today ( 'Love encounter' sounds like a saucy dating site but I digress lol... forgive me)Â
I believe you can do this. Let me know how it goes.Â
Peace out! Isaac Tendo #TheCreativeParadox














