I feel as though I've fallen in love with my coworker but I'm scared to say anything to him about it die to this irritating little fact that I'm in a relationship. A bad one. I want to get out of it, especially now, but I have nothing and no one to go to for help. And now I'm being kept away from work and people at work are saying he loved me all along but that they're telling him to lose those feelings. I don't want him too! I want him to love me but I can't say anything without risking hurting him. I'm so tired I don't know how much more I can take.
Any advice highly welcomed I'm so sorry
i’m sorry this seems like a really tough situation :( what’s stopping you from leaving the relationship> is it dangerous? i dont know much about what to do here, especially if you don’t have a support system, but maybe there’s something you can look into? as for if to tell him or not, i don’t know :( thats not something i can decide- my personal view on this stuff is usually like “if you tell them and it goes badly, they should still be your friend anyway and if theyre not then they werent worth it” but i know this is harder said than done











