I have seen people who try to numb their pains instead of trying to find the reason , growth & enlightenment towards it. They get into that complete dark zone that this how they are destined to live, this is how things are supposed to be. Instead of I donāt deserve to feel this way , I am far above all this, Iām gonna find whatās itās trying to teach me ,these people just try to escape everything & donāt even realise the importance of taking the accountability. when you take accountability of your actions, your life unfolds in a way you never thought it would. Take accountability of your decisions & choices. There are 2 ways in which a human grow either through insights or through pain. We humans are here to grow, spread love, fulfil our soulās purpose & all of this can only happen when you become the best version of yourself. And attain the true you, be true to yourself, give yourself what your soul desires, find the true calling, find your veracious goals & do everything to attain them. The people Who have done this are no smarter than you, just believe in yourself , have faith & learn to question the brules .