Ok hot take, we all know the scene where Jake goes to kill spider right? This one:
And Iâve seen a lot of people going on and on and on about how Jake doesnât really love Spider, how he sees spider as nothing more than a pet etc etc
But I genuinely think people are missing the point of this scene. This is the trolley problem. Itâs literally the trolley problem. Spiderâs very air breathing existence is a MAJOR problem for not only Jake and the Sullies, but the entire planet at large. Neytiri and Jake werenât wrong about that. We literally see the scientists experimenting on spider trying to figure out why he is like that. And Jake? Jake is not only responsible for his family, but he is TORUK MAKTO, a leader in the eyes of all Navi, that position hold culture weight. He is responsible for the protection of every Navi on the planet, and while he didnât want that position, we see through Tonowari and the metkayinia that his reluctance means jack shit. So posed with this imminent, direct threat to his people, he has to do something. It just so happens that the threat is a boy that he has inadvertently raised since childhood, who looks to up him.
Jake has to choose between the Navi and Spider. The lives of the many over the life of one. But spiderwoman, why didnât Jake just kill him when Neytiri suggests it? Because he doesnât want to!! He doesnât want to kill this kid!! But he has to! Itâs that or his people and maybe if he wasnât responsible for the Navi as a whole then maybe he could have said fuck it and ran off with the kid. But he canât! He is responsible and he does have to act or else people get hurt! He delayed the decision the first time around and him and spider got kidnapped!( Alongside dozens of raided villages) Am I saying itâs morally right or justifiable? NO! Maybe?? Itâs the trolley problem!! But two things can be true at once!
A) Jake (thinks he) has to kill spider to protect people
B) He loves Spider âwith all his heartâ
BOTH OF THESE CAN BE TRUE! Thatâs what gives a story complexity
There are other examples of the trolley problem that prove my point! Project Hailmary, with Eva Strat, essentially world dictator (and responsible for the continuation of the human species) sending Grace into space. Morally correct? Who knows! What she has to do to save the planet? Yes! Or another take, The Last of Us, Joel made the opposite decision, Ellieâs brain could have probably made a cure, but Joel wasnt responsible for the remaining humans survivors, he was responsible for Ellie, and thus the hospital massacre. He chose to probably doom everyone else to save her, morally responsible? Who knows! Understandable from a parentâs pov? Of course!
But then why did he stop for Neytiri?
Could be for a couple of reasons. He didnât want to kill Him and someone saying that he didnât have to gives him an escape. Divine intervention. Neytiri is also a leader of her people but has a better understanding of the cultural needs and views of her people that thus dictate their actions. He trusts Neytiri. Honestly it could be anything! But what Neytiri does in that scene is take the choice from Jake, the choice still had to be made, and in true western fashion the story goes for secret third option that probably screws everyone over but we feel more morally justifiable but Jake is no longer the one that had to make it . Neytiri takes that responsibility of spiders life on her, and off of Jake, so that he doesnât have to chose between the two. We all know that if it truly comes down to it, Neytiri wonât hesitate, but that doesnât diminish her arc of seeing him as one if the people, in fact it helps it by making Neytiri acknowledge that she would be killing âone of the peopleâ should it come to that. And those emotions tied to that decision, and choosing hope and to fight and have compassion for spider and maybe later humans is a big step for her!
I feel like viewers and audience have lost the idea that a protagonist and a âheroâ are two different things. And that being the protagonist doesnât automatically make them morally superior. If they did happen stories would be boring as hell. And unreflective of real life. People make different choices then we would, and often we are not even close to being in the circumstances that these characters have to operate with. Morality is a theme, not a rule book. I could yap not in this but enough now. Come yell at me with your thoughts!!