I AM THOU, THOU ART I

[isoldio]

;; without a doubt, that is justice.

‎‎‎‎‎‎‎‎‎

hi, im spiderlily! i like arcane, hsr, crk, persona 5, bungo stray dogs, and sometimes other stuff. i post about my ocs sometimes.

i love writing, reading, collecting pins and keychains, clowns/jesters [characters and irl], and generally being a nuisance. i dont do DNIs or BYF, i just wanna have fun!

note; i interact from @snowglobe-summit and i never tag spoilers!

[crevicedwelling]

I still think this is the only good Reddit post ever made

(Scolopendra subspinipes)

[grungekitty-77]

Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.

It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.

Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.

Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.

Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)

Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!

You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!

If you want it in a simple phrase:

You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.

[grungekitty-77]

Fun fact, that was literally what inspired me to make this post!

[fuglyjeans]

Need money for milk tea

[aetherborne1]

ive been playing My Leisure Time a lot and I felt it was necessary to redraw Finn as this meme

[fvedyetor]

[djbodyhorror]

i am NOT immune to text post screenshots on top of images of the characters

[ami2kewl]

thinking of you!!!

[5ru9-deactivated20190406]

More Phantom Thief Mishima! I cannot be stopped!

[sonicmega]

“Trying to use my fanbase for your personal gain? You know I can’t allow you to take the easy road.

You stole my followers, so now I’m going to Steal Your Heart!”

[candiedfright]

ryuu version of this post. he needs some love even if in small, careful amounts

[theblackcatintheruemorgue]

AWWW I'M SCREAMING especially the Kaji one

[trees-waiting]

when they say “you’re hot” but kafka said “you’re the knife I turn inside myself” like do better

[foolishfop]

man I wish they’d make a version of Catholicism with just the cool art and the sadomasochism

[sangohigurashi20]

Ship so good at least one of them dies.

[little-blurry-stars5]

friendly reminder dazai had a genuinely hard time telling chuuya about his humanity. friendly reminder akutagawa kept his promise to not kill even though killing was his first instinct even after death. friendly reminder poe was the only detective that ever made ranpo feel something. friendly reminder fyodor was the only one who ever truly understood nikolai. friendly reminder tecchou placed jouno over the only thing hes ever believed in. friendly reminder rimbaud changed verlaines entire veiw on humanity and gave him faith in the human race. friendly reminder albatross didnt care if he got hurt or killed if it meant he saved doc. friendly reminder fukuzawa was the only one who understood fukuchi and his motives and couldnt kill him even if it meant saving the world. friendly reminder kunikida calls dazai every morning to make sure hes okay. friendly reminder ango genuinely felt so guilty about odas death he betrayed the government. friendly reminder-

[punkitt-is-here]

[mostlymilkwood]

if polytrix get around 700+ more fics they will not only become the biggest poly ship on all of ao3 but will do so by dethroning another kpop boy band

[sacred-portal]