iced latte, please.

[sunnyandpositive]

My past week on Japan

[tastefullyoffensive]

(via luxuryxo)

[egderpss]

[djlegz]

I don’t like sports, but the Bearcats are my new favorite team.

[sweaterkittensahoy]

I love how it gets more elaborate each time. These boys are thinking this through.

[bastillry]

This is my favorite post of all time

[rbright1127]

I’VE FOUND IT AGAIN

[itsnickki]

Self-Compassion is not self-pity. Self-Compassion is not self-indulgence. Self-Compassion is not self-esteem.

http://self-compassion.org/what-self-compassion-is-not-2/

[itsnickki]

don't settle

[existentialwhale]

Active ways to cultivate positive body image:

(Because oh my god, it’s so hard, and everyone’s all like stop feeling so bad about yourself and it’s like how???) 

Be naked. A lot. Sleep naked. Have sex naked. Eat cereal naked. (Or naked and wrapped in a sheet. Favorite thing.) 

Follow beautiful, confident, (un-photoshopped) body-positive babes on the Internet. Unfollow anything that makes you feel insecure. Exposure is key. You’re not going to get it if you don’t seek it out, because the media sucks and wants us to feel like shit about ourselves so they can take our money. (Some hashtags to follow: #effyourbeautystandards #bootyrevolution #blackisbeautiful #transisbeautiful #wheelchairlife #fatkini #fatshion)

Lingerie. Next best thing to being naked. 

Self care, babe. Different for everyone. (Me? Showers, books, shaving my legs, nature walks, dark lipstick, good playlists, clean rooms, candles, sexy time.) 

Get ready in your underwear. Boobs = happiness. 

Self portraits. Be pro-selfie. Take a million selfies. Take sexy selfies. Take no makeup selfies. Take bad angle silly selfies. Take artsy tripod selfies. Take everything-is-on-point selfies. You’re gorgeous; document your gorgeousness. You don’t even need to post them. 

Stop with the self deprecationnnnn. Pleeeeaseeee. It’s hard to control your thoughts love, I know, but you can control what you say. NEVER insult yourself out loud. Dare I say compliment yourself out loud? (And if you can, do your best to try to body-positive-ify your thoughts too.) 

Sex (including solo sexy time), wine, and chocolate. In that order. 

Share the body love. Compliment your girlfriends. Cultivate a nonjudgemental, supportive, lift-each-other-up “we’re so cute” friend group. Everyone’s insecure. Compliment your besties. And strangers, too. Be that person that makes everyone feel good about themselves when they’re around. 

Good luck gorgeous. It’s a battle. We gotta unlearn all this societal bullshit.

[mytinyskullsizedpornbrain-deact]

Reblogging cuz this is vital. Especially the point on self-deprecation. Stop that shit now. It is a glamour-don’t, a welcome sign for fuck ass ppl.

[wnq-writers]

You’re allowed to move on with your life while keeping the memories of the past. You’re allowed to keep the memories of the past while letting go of the people in them. You’re allowed to let go of those people while still cherishing the moments you spent with them.

creatingnikki (via wordsnquotes)

[itsnickki]

breathe

When you turn your back to me And I beg you to speak to me wrap your arms around me comfort me make me happy again As if it’s your responsibility I should get up and leave I should grab my jacket on the way out And my keys And all the love and dependency I gave you but not myself I should walk outside alone In the middle of the night I should not fear the cold because at least I can feel the biting wind Instead of your numbing silence I should run laps around your apartment building blood coloring my face and fingertips making me feel the warmth from my own strength In this body that doesn’t need anyone else’s touch but my own I should walk home straight and true Instead of tripping over myself Walking in circles making room for you I should go looking For the rest of me The one that laughs And does not stare at phone screens The face that looks forward not back I should find it When I no longer lose myself to you I should find it when I finally let myself fall in love with my solitude I stop at my door alone in my room finally alone I can finally breathe

-NN

5.4.16

[thenordroom]

Lovely Gothenburg Apartment

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[f-tine]

[embrace-mystyle]

e m b r a c e m y s t y l e 

[declaringwar]

Dreaming

[djsourceunknown]

[llundqvistld]

[accidentalfisting]

[jisant-deactivated20210304]

[itsnickki]

things you're allowed to worry about

1. graduating 
that means passing my classes (at the very least). just do it, you’re almost there. 
2. culture show 
memorize your lines and do a kickass job on stage 
3. finding out where I’m gonna be 
keep applying, don’t lose hope 
4. wearhaus 
do a good job, kickass at this too and save money 
5. get a hot body 
just imagine how hot you COULD look at edc. run often, toni mar workouts 
6. drink water 
this should be a simple thing 
7. find comfort in yourself first 
before looking for it in others once you’ve done that, everything will fall into place. step back and let time run its course

[blownawaytruth-blog]