I'm seeing a lot of posts lately about "friends" being shitty with y'all, and let me tell you something I learned the hard way.
If they make you feel uncomfortable about something, and you even told them about it THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS.
If they make fun of you, of your interests, of something you did that they found "stupid" THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS.
If you feel like you can't talk with them about what's making you suffer or something that it's really bothering you THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS.
If they are excluding you most of the time, if they are making you feeling unheard THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS.
Just close those toxic "friendships". You don't need them.
You need someone who makes you feel good, heard, loved, appreciated.
You need someone that encourages you to be better, to feel better.
You need someone you can fully trust, someone that treats you like a proper human being.
You need someone who respects you, ALWAYS, not just in some occasions.
You need someone that appreciatesyour interests, and listens to your rents about them, even though they don't share them with you.
You need someone that loves you just the way you are, and that doesn't makes you feel miserable for just being yourself.
Dump them, you deserve better, I mean it.
Better to be alone that wasting your time with a bunch of assholes just because you think that "it's normal, I'm just being dramatic about it", and just because you think you don't deserve better.
No, no you're not being dramatic. No, you are not a bad person for wanting better, and yes you definitely deserve better.
