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Ok so this post is extremely long and I put it all together for my blogs Feeling sad page but as I don’t have a huge amount of followers I realize so many people are not seeing this information so I’m posting it here too!

alternatives without harming yourself:

holding/squeezing ice.

splashing your face with water.

getting a rubber band and snapping it against your skin (this could hurt, though it’s better than other ways that people usually choose to self-harm).

take a hot shower or bath.

eat something sour. it will take your mind of the urge. (lemon, sour lollies)

massage where you want to self-harm.

get a red pen or red paint and draw/paint over where you usually self-harm.

remind yourself as to why you shouldn’t do it. (scars, harms organs, leave memories etc…)

describe what you are feeling. (is the urge/pain in your chest, fists, legs, arms, head).

killing yourself will not help. it is not a solution.

you have your whole life ahead of you. you have so many more years that you can accomplish things in. for example;

having a family.

getting married.

to watch the sun rise.

to watch the sun set.

to save someone else’s life.

finish school.

get your dream job.

to laugh.

to smile.

to go camping.

travel to new places.

to wake up every morning to the person you love.

friends.

family.

to keep that promise you made.

to accomplish a goal.

to meet your idol.

to listen to new music.

theme parks.

video games.

chocolate.

to be able to look back and say “i made it”.

what you’re going through is temporary.

in case you need to hear this:

you are loved.

you are wanted.

you are needed.

you are beautiful.

you are handsome.

you are important.

you are not alone.

you are okay.

you are strong.

you are worth it.

you are smart.

you are not a failure.

you are useful.

you are going to be okay.

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tips to help overcome loneliness

10 tips on how to work through feelings of social isolation

8 tips to overcome loneliness

ways to deal with depression/stress

having a bad day?

make a comfort box

10 things to do when you feel like crap

how to find a new normal in the middle of depression

you are not alone in the way you think you are

reasons to stay alive

how to stop trying to think yourself into happiness and actually arrive there

cheer me up

help guide (dealing with depression)

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eating disorders

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281 reasons to recover

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why you must eat

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something fishy

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what to do if your friend is hurting themselves

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additional treatment options for ocd

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post-traumatic stress - self-help guide

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schizophrenia

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schizophrenia: coping with delusions and hallucinations

paranoid schizophrenia coping and support

treatment

an introduction to the treatment of schizophrenia

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common drugs and medications to treat schizophrenia

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self-harm

cut something that’s not real skin

half of us

help guide

recover your life

self-injury outreach & support

how to care for cuts

resisting cutting

25 ways to avoid self injury and prevent self harm

tips to help stop cutting

99 coping skills: things to do instead of cutting

what to do when someone sees

how to fade/cover scars

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suicide

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what to do when someone is suicidal

how to help someone who is suicidal

here’s what you tell someone who wants to commit suicide

help guide (suicide prevention)

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therapy

how to get free therapy

getting a therapist - a brief step-by-step

psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist or counsellor?

50 signs of good therapy

50 warning signs of questionable therapy

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imalive

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7 cups of tea

kids help phone

positive love network

trans lifeline: 877-565-8860

depression hotline: [phone]

suicide hotline: [phone]

lifeline: 1-800-273-8255

trevor project: 1-866-488-7386

sexuality support: 1-800-246-7743

eating disorders hotline: [phone]

rape and sexual assault: 1-800-656-4673

grief support: 1-650-321-5272

runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000

exhale: after abortion hotline/pro-voice: 1-866-439-4253

[synodicsean]

Dont forget about Crisis Text Line! 

Text HOME to 741-741

[bristlee1]

for those who might need it

[groupthinker]

the one that stuck out to me was “save someone’s life”

[stabbetharenny]

you’re not alone.

[thestarmirror]

This is do important

[cvntyblogger]

this is so so important.

[lil-stark-deactivated20240119]

always going to reblog this.

[softchaoticmuse]

“So, THAT is your comfort character?”

*points at the dead fictional man with a tragic past and unresolved trauma*

[deadbeatmaker]

making art is just like showering………can’t get up and do it, can’t stop when you’ve started. you want to crawl out of your skin if you don’t do it often enough. everything in the world is the exact same

[quotebookshelf]

“Death is the mother of beauty. Only the perishable can be beautiful, which is why we are unmoved by artificial flowers.”

— Wallace Stevens

[dovabunny]

The single funniest thing I’ve seen in 2019 (sound on)

[jl-streams]

This is so funny? Why does it only have 500 notes I’m screaming I feel this Italian in my soul

[chattermaxunderthesink]

“i’m sad and idk how to feel better”

“i don’t know what to draw”

“i always mess up”

“BUT I SUCK”

[rakubell-deactivated20180711]

LISTEN TO BOB ROSS.

[edwardspoonhands]

Bob Ross was paid $0 to make his series. He made a living giving lessons IRL and later selling his own line of paints and brushes.

[amisbro]

I apologize for not reblogging him as much but everyone needs this on their dash daily.  Seriously everyone needs this on their blog or wherever. Do they rerun this anymore or no?

[aishet-chayil]

Words of wisdom!

[hamletthedane]

Want to learn something new in 2022??

Absolute beginner adult ballet series (fabulous beginning teacher)

40 piano lessons for beginners (some of the best explanations for piano I’ve ever seen)

Excellent basic crochet video series

Basic knitting (probably the best how to knit video out there)

Pre-Free Figure Skate Levels A-D guides and practice activities (each video builds up with exercises to the actual moves!)

How to draw character faces video (very funny, surprisingly instructive?)

Another drawing character faces video

Literally my favorite art pose hack

Tutorial of how to make a whole ass Stardew Valley esque farming game in Gamemaker Studios 2??

Introduction to flying small aircrafts

French/Dutch/Fishtail braiding

Playing the guitar for beginners (well paced and excellent instructor)

Playing the violin for beginners (really good practical tips mixed in)

Color theory in digital art (not of the children’s hospital variety)

Retake classes you hated but now there’s zero stakes:

Calculus 1 (full semester class)

Learn basic statistics (free textbook)

Introduction to college physics (free textbook)

Introduction to accounting (free textbook)

Learn a language:

Ancient Greek

Latin

Spanish

German

Japanese (grammar guide) (for dummies)

French

Russian (pretty good cyrillic guide!)

[gothamscribbler]

i don't think some people grasp what kind of difference there is between a person who dislikes snape and a Snater.

a person who casually dislikes snape tends to stay in their own little area. they don't seek out snape fans, and could probably tell you something they like about him when asked.

this, for instance, is me with remadora. i don't like it, but i will 100% recognize this a personal issue, and i can see why people do ship it. i just have my own issues with it. i'm not out here actively going after remadora shippers for their ship.

but a Snater is different. Snaters act like their dislike hatred of snape makes them morally superior. a Snater will actively seek out snape fans and harass them. a Snater, usually also a Marauders Stan, will attempt to justify the Marauders' treatment of snape as kids by pointing out things that happened when snape was an adult (snape was a magical nazi!) even though james and his friends probably weren't privy to that information and they'll never consider that such treatment led him to becoming that - he just always was. at eleven years old, snape was a full fledged death eater, because that's how voldemort rolls apparently.

a Snater will purposely antagonize a snape fan. a Snater will never admit any of snape's redeeming qualities, because the gospel of all the young dudes says snape is a bad person. a Snater will insist the text backs up their points, even when presented with proof that it does not.

a Snater would argue with harry potter himself about severus snape. let that sink in.

[sxrvantofallah-deactivated20180]

Seven practical steps to help you face difficult situations.

1. Salah:

Make sure you stick to praying on time – 5 times a day. Never miss salah and do your best to pray each Salah with sincerity as if it’s your last salah in this world.

2. Read Quran:

This Quran is so beautiful that no matter what difficulties you face you’ll find solace in it.

3. Make Dua:

Especially the dua for removing anxiety.

“O Allaah, I take refuge in You from anxiety and sorrow, weakness and laziness, miserliness and cowardice, the burden of debts and from being over powered by men.”

Allahumma inni ‘a’udhubika minal hammi walhuzni, Wal’ajzi walkasali, walbukhli waljubni, Wa dal’id-daiyni wa ghalabatir-rajal

[Sahih al-Bukhari, 7/158]

4. Give Sadaqah:

Give lots of charity, as much as you can, because it helps push away hardship. And if you can’t give money, even kind words or physical sadaqah can do (i.e. helping people physically or emotionally).

5. Set Goals and Have Vision:

Don’t let shaytaan play with you and keep replaying the video of your hardship in your mind over and over again, move on! Set new goals, new projects, and remember you’re with Allah, nothing should stop you!

6. Wake up Early:

Wake up before fajr and work on your ideas and projects, or simply read Qur’an. Getting busy before day break is a definite way to move away from your hardship and overcome challenges. Get most of your ideas/work done in these early hours, these are blessed hours.

7. Hardship is Not Lost:

Remember, Allah will never forget the injustice/hardship you faced, so don’t worry about seeking revenge or trying to get justice.

“…Allah is not ever unjust to [His] servants.” [22:10]

In the end, I pray that Allah (Subhanahu Wa’Tala) removes all your ordeals and hardships, blesses you all with a good life and helps you remember Him day and night, for “Verily, with remembrance of Allah, do hearts find rest”. (Surah Ar-Ra’d , verse 28)

- Islam Practise

[4madjar-deactivated20191122]

Never delay or neglect repentance/istighfaar & keep sending salwaat upon The Prophet ﷺ.

تقبل الله منا ومنكم

[tranquil-fajr-deactivated202301]

May Allah forgive us for all the times we've viewed Islam as a burden. For all the times we've missed our prayers or rushed them. For all the times we've prioritised matters over this world over matters of the hereafter. Ameen.

[teaandplantdad]

modern tech academia

planning your day using a laptop or smartphone

using an ebook reader to read books on a long train ride

staring out the window late in the evening, watching lonely cars drive by

writing letters to your best friend once in a while becuase it feels more personal than texting

reading in candle light during a power cut

having a small dance party on your own, the music coming from your bluetooth headphones

riding your e-bike to the nearest museum or library

taking online classes and lectures

zoom meetings with your study group

taking a social media detox to focus more on your studying

a spotify playlist with your favourite classical music

searching online the location of the nearest thrift store

switching off your phone early to get a good nights rest becuause there is an exam the next morning

getting emotionally attached to old objects like typewriters and sometimes still using them just for the aesthetic

[wonni]

[kr1g]

@sapphicspritzee look tiktok stole the post you made like 7 years ago

[eyeseyesbaby]

im fucking losing it lads

[punny-trash]

[slapandticklelol]

“This poem doesn’t rhyme.”

Dude about to make haikus:

“Oh you haven’t heard?”

[matt-the-blind-cinnamon-roll]

fuck you

[curiooftheheart]

The first line is six syllables.

[wonderfulworldofmichaelford]

THIS

POEM

DOES-N’T

RHYME

That’s 5 syllables

[curiooftheheart]

Poem is two syllables. Po-em.

[wonderfulworldofmichaelford]

Poem is ONE syllable, who the fuck uses two syllables to say poem?

[curiooftheheart]

What the fuck are you on about? Literally just say it out loud. Po-em. One syllable would be like Pome.

[wonderfulworldofmichaelford]

“Pome” IS how you say it you neanderthal. Who the fuck says PO-EM?

[haiku-robot]

“pome” is how you say it you neanderthal who the fuck says po-em

^Haiku^bot^9. I detect haikus with 5-7-5 format. Sometimes I make mistakes. Disappointing each other includes you. | PayPal | Patreon

[zoanzon]

[callmebarbie]

girlie stop scrolling through tumblr you are one second away from crumbling under academic pressure

[visit-ba-sing-se]

what I love about tumblr is how random it picks it faves. a shipost with 3 typos could go viral. the same post 2 hours later could get like two notes. you could draw the next Mona Lisa and it could get buried in the search function. you could make a way too personal post and over 1k people reblog it in 1 hour. Russian roulette every time you hit that post button baby.

[visit-ba-sing-se]

honestly where else can you have the experience of refreshing your dash hoping for at least one (1) sympathy note on something you poured your heart and soul into while seeing a text post float by that reads “soup gay” and is at 100k notes, surrounded by memes someone dreamed about 

[jenlog]

if any minors are following me

always make sure to start forging parents’ signatures on the first day of class. that way, your teachers won’t know that you’ve been forging signatures for the rest of the year

[sophiamcdougall]

My poor dad is dead now, but I feel he would like the widest audience possible to know that he used to routinely hand his teachers the following note. “In my opinion, David is not fit for Games today. Regards, David McDougall.” My dad was not named after his father, whose name was, in fact, Victor. My dad’s reasoning was he could never be accused of forging anything, because he hadn’t. He’d just offered his opinion, in writing. He was never challenged, and never went to Games.

[ralfmaximus]

When I was a senior in high school, my dad left the state but I chose to stay and complete my education. I already had a car, a job, and dad co-signed on an apartment before he moved away. All of these things were totally doable for a high-schooler in 1981.

Because I was 18 and “parentless” we filed paperwork with the school granting me permission to write my own excuse notes. Which, of course, I had a fuckin ball with:

- Ralf was late to class because he was surrounded by panthers

- Please excuse Ralf due to a sudden and fatal illness

- Ralf needs to leave school early because he has a phrenology appointment

…and so on. They couldn’t do anything about it, since there was no rule saying the notes had to be make any goddamn sense, they only had to exist. And be submitted by an ‘authorized parent or guardian’ which, in this case, was me.

One day I showed up late for school and  – as per standard procedure – stopped by the attendance office to check in. There was a new employee or temp or something manning the desk that day, and they demanded to see my excuse note.

So I grabbed paper & pen, scrawled “Please excuse Ralf for being late to school”, signed it, and handed it over. She was NOT amused. 

“No honey, it needs to be from your mom,” enunciated slowly like I was mentally damaged.

“I’m authorized to write my own notes,” I replied.

“No you’re not. Sit over there.”

And they made me wait for the Vice Principal to show up, which eventually he did. Who took one look at me and hooked a thumb in my direction.

“What did he do?”

“Forged an excuse note!”

“He’s authorized to write his own notes.”

I was now over two hours late, but the look of shock and hatred on the new lady’s face was worth it. 

[dungeon-mouse]

I wonder if werewolves are immune to transfiguration magic? Like what happens if someone really powerful transfigures lupin into idk a toad right before the full moon rises. Would he just keep being a toad or would if break the transfiguration to turn into a werewolf. Would he turn into a were toad. Toadwolf? What if he was transfigured into a chair. Werechair. Lifelong affliction terrible curse avoided by a loophole of become chair for 1 night a month. He’s a chair but he’s still chained up in the shrieking shack.