you lost me.

[attainablerecovery]

[what-iz-life]

Normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you regardless of what they tell you. Giving you all of the right words, but none of the right actions is called manipulation. When a person wants to be with you, they prove it.

[i-wrotethisforme]

You’re not obligated to give someone what you think they want if they don’t have the courage to make it clear to you.

[remanence-of-love]

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

don’t delay your healing by keeping tabs on them. live your life. let them live theirs. let yourself move on, and don’t waste your energy on them.

[virgoassbitch]

Love hurts when you try to fit squares into circles. Sometimes someone just simply cannot be what you need in a partner. It doesn’t NECESSARILY mean that they aren’t a good person or a good partner for someone else. We all have our own individual set of needs and wants based on our own selves and the collection of our past experiences. Love takes more than just the feeling of love to work. Love is sacrifice. Love is an act. Love is respect and keeping promises, when we have the power to do so. Love is making the choice to be the best partner you can possibly be even when you know you will inevitably fall short. Love isn’t perfect by any means and it’s not ALL you need. You need action along with love to make it last. Feeling love isn’t enough. Love is just a vehicle but you still need to get in and drive it to the next destination which is commitment and then trust. The only way I can trust is by knowing my partner has the ability to be honest with not only me but also himself.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Your peace is more important than driving yourself crazy trying to understand why something happened the way it did. Let it go.”

— Mandy Hale

[what-iz-life]

May you never again get attached to anyone who isn’t for you. May you find a love who makes you laugh, never lets the flirting phase end, and gives you unquestionable loyalty. You deserve a love that calms your heart, mind, and nervous system — a love that never hurts you.

[remanence-of-love]

[remanence-of-love]

[haleyincarnate]

Inspired by @kosmiklia

[heavensghost]

The Flies, Jean-Paul Sartre

[promqueendyke]

lucy dacus / night shift

[naturaekos]

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”

—

[iwrotethisaboutyou]

- It‘s not summer without you

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

if you find the right person, you’ll never feel like you’re asking for too much by just wanting them to care. the wrong people will tell you you’re being too much.

[conscious-love]

drheidigreen ~ Instagram

[book-caps]

Beau Taplin, The Wrong Call