Jaimie Tilo

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Be more.

Be more than just who you are, create something.

To someone you are going to be the definition of the perfect sentient being, whether you require the feeling or not. Someone will spend each second they have the chance to look in your eyes in ecstasy, feeling that the moment is frozen and only you two matter. You can gift that.

Never forget that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, because when you forget that you yourself are beautiful, it’s not because you aren’t, it’s because you have forgotten how to appreciate yourself.

Don’t limit yourself to who you are right here, right now. You are a human being, and your time is limited, but you don’t exist to die, you exist to live and it’s what you create in the time you have to live that defines you transcendence.

I remember speaking to a girl who’s goal in life was to live in harmony herself with everything around her, to find the equilibrium in which nature finds itself balanced. See her goal wasn’t to create harmony, but to be a part of this. For this goal so will always be more than her perfect smile, or her look which pierces your very soul, she will be a part of nature.

An idea is as big as those who are exposed make it. If you are an idea, or a concept you are not limited to one lifetime, your memory can influence and inspire a generation. The moment you let your light shine bright enough for us all to see, you facilitate us to join you as the star you then become. It is light, not our darkness that defines us.

Whether it is a friend who reads this, or just a stranger ultimately drifting through the web one night, I hope it touches you as much as I mean it too.

[unpoeticheartbreak]

Growing up I thought being in love was red roses, dates on Saturday nights, pretty jewelry, Friday night movie premiers, kisses in the rain, and boxes that held expensive things. I thought true love was a story with a picture perfect ending. Now that I’m older I’ve realized it’s not that at all. True love isn’t something you find in a Disney movie. Being in love is screaming at 5 AM till you cry out of anger, but knowing they won’t leave. It’s saving each other’s selfies, good or bad, just to look at them because you miss each other. It’s being comfortable enough to talk about anything. It’s saying all the wrong things at the wrong moments. It’s leaving someone in complete control of your heart, but trusting them not to break you. It’s screaming the lyrics to your favorite songs together. It’s honesty even when it hurts and sarcasm when they’re sad. It’s lame jokes and sleepless nights. It’s fights and make up sex. It’s hour long showers and breakfast in the morning. It’s all night phone calls instead of texting. It’s the small things. It’s coffee shop dates and finding new books to read. It’s holding hands and kissing ever so passionately. It’s being able to sit at home just basking in the presence of someone you love with every fiber of your being. It’s wanting to share every moment with that one person. It’s finding yourself awake at 3 AM craving them asleep next to you. It’s little nick names and making fun of each other. It’s being called things like ‘little shit’ or ‘baby’ or ‘love of my life.’ It’s being able to fall asleep knowing that person will still be there in the morning. It’s being apart and knowing nothing will change. It’s deep talks at 6 AM. It’s days full of laughter and tears. It’s capturing the world’s beauty though their eyes. It’s not about the sex or the gifts, it’s about finding someone who pours their love into your deepest cracks making you whole once again. It’s feeling part of you missing when you’re apart. It’s finally being able to love yourself even half as much as that person loves you. Love is the only thing left in the world worth fighting for. Don’t you dare settle for a boy who makes you feel good for a night, or a girl who boosts your ego at a party. Mindfucking love is the holy grail of all love. Being in love will fuck you up in more ways than you can imagine and it’s absolutely fucking heart-wrenching, but at the same time it’s the most beautiful thing in the world.

“3AM Thoughts“ series #4 (via unpoeticheartbreak)

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Whenever u feel stuck or unmotivated, remember your biggest dreams.

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I hope there are days when you fall in love with being alive.

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Sometimes it's tough and painful it feels like your life will never be okay, ever. Don't give up, happiness is coming.

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[jaimiextilo]

"I've learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life goes on, and it will be better tomorrow. I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights. I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life. I've learned that making a "living" is not the same thing as making a "life." I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance. I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw some things back. I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision. I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one. I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back. I've learned that I still have a lot to learn. I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."

-Maya Angelou

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[jaimiextilo]

"Even in the darkest days Your love will guide me through the haze."

-RH Fowler