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I never forgot the way this one waiter poured water in my glass I think about it and reference it often. He just came to our table and didn’t say anything while filling our glasses really slowly he didn’t even look at us but his presence was so sensitive and severe that we stopped talking and we just watched each glass fill with water. And only after he set the carafe down he said something like, so what do we want to eat? He dgaf about us but also he was so present and gentle

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2005

Canicule

Sunrise this morning

I love when desire leads to disappointment. It’s a classic

evergreen-femme

at some point you have to realize that you actually have to read to understand the nuance of anything. we as a society are obsessed with summarization, likely as a result of the speed demanded by capital. from headlines to social media (twitter being especially egregious with the character limit), people take in fragments of knowledge and run with them, twisting their meaning into a kaleidoscope that dilutes the message into nothing. yes, brevity is good, but sometimes the message, even when communicated with utmost brevity, requires a 300 page book. sorry.

soundcarvings

Ok I have a mean hot take for the girls. If you lower your standards even a little bit and go for the man whose league you’re out of, he will leech you of your beauty and he will be the one to fuck you over first. I see it happen all the time. Girls are single for a little too long so they lower the bar, they give the insecure guy a chance, he takes some of her best years from her and leaves her when he’s built up his confidence from being with her. Make sure you actually like the dude, no ultimatums and negotiating with baseline standards on this blog, OKAY?