be happy, be skinny

ftm Charlie he/him pansexuell, poly SW: 182lb/82,5kg 🔓gw:170lb/77,1kg *CW: 74,4kg/164,0lb* 🔐 gw1: 160/ 72,5kg 🔒gw2: 150/68kg 🔒gw3: 140/63,5kg 🔒gw4: 130/58,9kg 🔒ugw: 120/54kg 5'5/1,68m

[taichi-kungfu]

A Healthy&Happy Life Plan For Yourself

[squided]

WHEN WILL PEOPLE FUCKING REALIZE THAT

MEN

ALSO

ARE

GIVEN

UNREALISTIC

EXPECTATIONS

DO YOU HAVE ANY FUCKING IDEA

HOW IMPOSSIBLE IT IS

TO LOOK LIKE THIS???

IT’S 100% FUCKING ILLOGICAL TO EXPECT MEN TO HAVE THIS RIPPED SIX-PACK ABS AND BE SKINNY AND HAVE PERFECT SKIN AND FACIAL COMPLEXION!  MEN ALSO EXPERIENCE BEING UNCOMFORTABLE WITH OUR BODIES ALL. THE. FUCKING. TIME.

[squided]

I’m bringing back the REAL post.  For those of you who care enough about how body image issues effect BOTH MEN AND WOMEN and how ignoring men with eating disorders or who have depression or deep insecurities because of their body image is not just ignorant, but it’s horribly insulting.  Making fun of this post means you are telling men who feel degraded that they should feel bad about themselves and that they don’t mean anything.  For everyone who reblogged the posts that made fun of this original post, shame on you.  I’m very disappointed.  Please share the original because this is an important issue.

Also raised to my attention is I neglected to add people of color to this post, I am sorry for my negligence so I shall add bonus images here of unrealistic expectations for men of every race, I chose Men’s Health Magazine because it’s extremely popular in telling men how to look:

[emile8]

No, guys, you don’t understand. I just got so relieved seeing this original post again that I nearly cried.

[nicthefanboy]

Bless the blog that brought the original back!

[safety-officer-barto-deactivate]

Here’s the original post without some of you asshats changing the pictures

[ladywordfighter]

This is actually the VERY FIRST TIME I’ve seen the original post, which goes to show how quickly people turned it into a joke. I confess that I did laugh at some of the absurd replacement images in the other versions, and I feel guilty for that now because I, like many, was missing an extremely important message.

To all of my male followers who struggle with self-esteem: I support you too. Even though I’m really quiet and have a bad habit of going weeks or months without posting, I WILL be there for you if you come to me wanting to talk or just vent. That’s a promise.

[xxleondraxx]

Another thing to note that in all, ALL, of those pictures the men are actively flexing. And often such defenition for shoots is exaggerated by dehydration, airbrushing and photoshopping. That chiseled look isn’t a look you can acheive at rest without literal implants. Here are 2 examples of flexed vs relaxed:

And you know what? Dollars to doughnuts none of the above muscular looking guys are as strong as these men:

These are strongmen. These are the bodies of men that train for strength, not defenition. These guys can practically lift cars and drag trains.

So men of the world that get depressed about not looking like you just stepped off a magazine cover, relax. You don’t have to look like that. You are handsome, beautiful and fantastic the way you are.

[randomslasher]

To all my beautiful boys <3 Please read and heed. You’re amazing, and you don’t have to look any particular way. This goes for transboys too. You’re handsome no matter what!!!

[sea-anon]

This is so important!! Like my dad looks fat but he’s mostly super strong

[ender-w-deactivated20190416]

its posts like this that make me wanna keep on living and still feel a little good about myself

[smooththegoofyshark]

6 pack abs are out, viking/barbarian bodies are in

[jarvey1-blog]

I want to look like that real real bad

[illinicoise]

“But if you forget to reblog Madame Zeroni, you and your family will be cursed for always and eternity.”

[spn-fandom-breathing-heavily]

not even risking that shit

[codyslipring-deactivated2015060]

scrolled past this, re-evaluated my life, then SCROOOLLLED back up and hit the damn reblog button. 

[tumblgang]

She ain’t no games in real life so I take her serious all the time

Anyone with a name that starts with a “Z”, ends with an “i”, and isn’t some kind of Italian pasta, IS SERIOUS

I’m not climbing no mountain with a pig on my back, 🙅🏽🙅🏾🙅🏿 Negative.

[skuubasally]

Nope. I know better, have your reblog Madame Zeroni.

[luckytaters]

who the fuck is Madame Zeroni

[saudadesinfinitas-deactivated20]

Look at these stupid children who don’t know who Madame Zeroni is

[drayaintshit-deactivated2019030]

☝🏾😂

[callmedeku24]

Man lissen if you don’t know you better ask somebody AFTER you hit the reblog button

[emeraldmercury]

Idk who she is but I have an exam today so I’ll reblog her

[haiku-robot]

idk who she is but i have an exam today so i’ll reblog her

^Haiku^bot^0.4. Sometimes I do stupid things (but I have improved with syllables!). Beep-boop!

[jacobmick]

Because wise, I am.

[seymonecristina]

Oh fucks no she’s back lmao must reblog. I’m sorry guys

[blackgirlart]

2 million people aren’t wrong

[less16candles]

Sorry guys but she’s back and I’m not risking it

[ashfire05]

I’m reblogging only because fuck you I love Madame Zeroni

[mouthfull-of-cotton]

How dare my stomach say it’s hungry when it’s got plenty of fat to eat instead.

- My fat self.

[imstarvingforskinny]

[superevilart]

if you have ever suffered from…  

• depression 

• anxiety 

• eating disorder 

• self-harm

• ocd 

• bipolar 

• feelings of guilt and hopelessness 

• suicidal thoughts 

can you please reblog to show support for people who also suffer. you are not alone.

[sweetlyxthin]

♡♡♡

[wearethewitches]

reblog if ur a cryptid gen z-millennial like me (born between 1994-2003)

[thin-as-flowers]

any ed blogs that are still alive….reblog🤪

[ggiulsallalone]

I’ve just stopped following 236 inactive blogs

If you’re an ACTIVE THINSPO BLOG then REBLOG THIS AND I WILL FOLLOW YOU

[proedmemes]

[jarvey1-blog]

Meeeeeee

[thxnsouls]

Reblog if you’re an active ED account

I only seem to have 3 out of 200 of you in my feed. Reblog if you’re active and share things like thinspo, tips, recipes, updates

[theextralitnerd]

How to Fill Your Empty Notebooks

I am going to create a list of Youtube videos, to give you ideas on how to fill those empty notebooks.

16 ways to use a notebook by Mistral Spirit

15 Ways to Fill Your Journal by Grow With E.

Ways to Fill a Journal by Johanna Clough

Ways to Fill Your Notebooks by Jordan Clark

How to Fill Your Journals by Soozee Lara

11 Ways to Fill Your Notebooks by Lavendaire

25 Ways to Fill a BLANK journal by Paris and Roxy

12 Ways to Fill Your Notebooks by Siena Mirabella

20 Ways to Fill Your Notebooks by Overall Adventures

How to Set Up a NEW Journal by Overall Adventures

Empty Journal? by Nicole Coenen

Ways to Fill Your Journals by Ashleigh George

[jarvey1-blog]

As soon as I have time

[can-you-touch-the-sky-blog]

What’s the link for your chat on discord

Here’s the link to my ed discord!!! So if tumblr gets shut down we still have each other. I don’t want to lose you guys. Please please follow the link. Make a discord. I’ll try to make it nice like tumblr for all of us. I don’t want to lose you guys.

Here’s the link: https://discord.gg/PVapp9E

[daitya27]

do not comment on what I’m eating

do not comment how much I’m eating

do not comment how little I’m eating

do not comment on how healthy it is

do not comment on how unhealthy it is

do

not

comment

on

what

I’m

eating

[jarvey1-blog]

TW: ED's and suicide

Some people with an ed be like "I would kill for that body" without realising that, they are indeed killing for that body, they just haven't noticed that slowly killing them self's is still killing. It isn't an illness for nothing. Eds kill. Get help. ASAP

[bellenoel]

Tumblr when they were removed by Apple from the App Store:

Tumblr “working as quickly as possible to resolve the issue”:

Tumblr on December 18th looking for 60% of their users:

[bellenoel]

Underrated post

[the-mad-prince-of-denmark]

Fun Fact Time:

Oscar Wilde had a lesbian niece

Yea

YEA

Her name was Dolly Wilde. She was the daughter of Oscar Wilde’s older brother, and was born about 3 months after he died. She worked as an ambulance driver during WW1 and spent most of her free time banging rich ladies. And guys. GUYS.

SHE

LOOKS

JUST LIKE

HER UNCLE

They both have That Face.

I’m so, so happy I know this now.

[andsomeampersands]

I would like everyone to know that she went around telling everyone that she was her uncle reincarnated. OK have a good day.

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

A M A Z I N G

[cheskamouse]

Oh my God, Oscar Wilde and family had Resting Bitch Face.

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

:D

Resting Wilde Face

[talisguy-deactivated20231012]

That “I’m a gay, Irish socialist in the Victorian era” face.

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

“Fuck everything about this world”

[the-mad-prince-of-denmark]

Side note: it wasn’t just the face. People who knew both Dolly and Oscar Wilde said that they sounded very similar and carried themselves in the same manor.

Both were pretty avid smokers. They both appreciated decadence. They both had very similar lovers.

Also, because history is insane, Dolly Wilde once hit on Zelda Fitzgerald, writer and wife of F. Scott Fitzgerald.

Dolly once said of herself, “I am more like Oscar than Oscar.” And honestly yea, I get why.

[ruffboi-mags]

Oscar Wilde wasn’t done gaying up the place and came back as Dolly to gay up the ladies as well.

[sirjazhands]

Victorian people: Oscar you must like ladies instead of men

Oscar: *Dies and comes back as Dolly flirting with all the ladies*

Victorian people: Wait no