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Jay, He/Him, my main fandoms are Mob Psycho 100 and South Park! My art tag is #draws. Don't be afraid to message me!

[ulvemaelk]

[lab-note]

[nawetgdyby]

[tiding-deactivated20240303]

[bijoux-et-mineraux]

Celestite - Sakoany Mine, Majunga Province, Madagascar

[alistaire]

i need a very tiny leash and collar so i can walk my alcohol molecule

[hematitehearts]

Hemimorphite and Mimetite

Locality: Santa Eulalia, Chihuahua, Mexico

[baph0meat]

im serious about that “stop saving things for special occasions” bit tho like. even if u aren’t in your 20s. thats for everyone. its one of the most useful things ive learned lately

stop! just stop. eat the special snack. drink the expensive hippie tea. use the incense or the bath bomb or whatever you paid way too much for because you were feeling really bad and retail therapy makes u feel alive

when we save things for special occasions/rainy days it contributes to us feeling like A.) our day to day existence is lackluster and B.) you have to be feeling a certain level of Bad, or have to reach a certain level of Socially Accepted Achievement, to enjoy things

just give yourself stuff. there are definitely sometimes reasons to withhold things from yourself - as motivation, if it’s something you consciously want to use sparingly, etc - but at least for me half the time it just turns into self-flagellation and also cool things and cool experiences and nice treats just collect dust while i wait for some fabled day when i convince myself i finally Deserve it

just fuckin give yourself stuff dude. life’s so mindblowingly short

[voidbat]

my grandmother died having only used her china like twice in her life. during the year or so before her death, she was starting to package up and give things of hers to her kids, and gave mom the china while sighing “oh i wish i had used the china more!” and mom tried so hard to convince her to just keep it, then, and eat corny dogs off it if she wanted. she insisted she couldn’t possibly, you need a special reason to use the fine china. when nana died, we used her fine china as our everyday dishes for years. i was 18 when she died, and never really stopped having that in the back of my head. now, when i hear myself say “i wish i had a reason to wear/do/eat/use X!” i hear nana regretting never really using her china. and let me tell you a thing: spaghettios taste great when eaten from fine china.

[dear-miss-adair]

I’ve seen this post making the rounds. Just wanted to add something to it that my sister-in-law once told me:

“A ‘special thing’ can make any occasion special.”

She told me this when I objected to her opening a really expensive bottle of champagne just to watch a movie. And you know, she was right. The champagne was amazing and while we always sit around and watch movies, that bottle made that night a really special occasion that I will always remember.

So, cut yourself a little slack and remember that an ordinary day can become special.

[spottytonguedog]

My parents were going to wait until they retired to go on a cruise. Retirement for them would have been around 2012-2013. Instead, my Dad said “You never know what will happen” and they went on their first one in 1999. They went on 13 cruises. My Dad died in 2011. He was still working at the time. If they had waited, they would never have had all those amazing vacations together and my Mom wouldn’t have all those memories.

Go. Go now. Enjoy things NOW.

[lesbian-moon-gf]

Adding more. When your mood is chronically crumming, you are actually doing a disservice to yourself by not using that special thing you already have. My therapists tells me we tell ourselves we’ll do fun stuff when we feel better. But that’s gonna take a ling time if we never add joyous things to our lives! We need to give ourselves joy if we ever what to feel better. It doesn’t have to be stuff either! Having some art time with a friend. Whatever! Just please be nice to yourself

[sunbathe]

https://www.instagram.com/p/BSi9c-NDYq2/

[hematitehearts]

Zinnwaldite and Apatite

Locality: Jose Pinto Mine, Conselheira Pena, Minas Gerais, Brazil

[unown]

unfortunately god made me a gamer so I’ll never find love

[strawberryhorrorshow]

Being abused made me such a “good kid.”

I was

Always polite

Never acted without permission

Never spoke out of turn

Always did what I was told

And it’s shitty that I was considered mature and praised for those things, and all of those characteristics have translated into me being an immature, “bad adult.”

Now I

Have difficulty making a keeping friends

Can’t act without permission/am dependent on others for direction

Am terrible at communicating

Have no agency/personal compass

It’s a really difficult thing for people who were abused as children to grapple with. What made us good children make us bad adults.

[tastefullyoffensive]

(via GeauxTiger)

[studyblrhermione]

08.10.16 // 4:00 pm // 🌸💫🍥 there is nothing better than getting new supplies before a new school year

[hematitehearts]

Meta-autunite

Locality: Assuncao Mine, Aldeia Nova, Satao Province, Portugal

[truckhole-deactivated20181203]

god today i ID’d an old dude buyin booze and he pulled out a fake ID with an elvis pic, then laughed and pulled out a matching one but with curly from three stooges on it, and im like okay please and he finally pulled out his real license and his legal name was steve sinner

[margbarcis]

that was the devil

[hematitehearts]

Petrified Wood

Locality: Hubbard Basin, Contact District, Elko County, Nevada, United States of America