Is it all a dream?
I know a lot of you can’t believe this is happening. I can barely believe so myself. I honestly really don’t want to believe so. The problem is, reality can’t be stopped. When this realization hits things are going to spiral into an inner turmoil. The election has been lost, but that doesn’t mean that you need to be. Take a moment to sit back, breath, and remember who you are and the important things that no one can take from you. Here are some useful grounding techniques I have found.
Grounding Techniques http://fyoured.com/post/38455537918 http://www.peirsac.org/peirsacui/er/educational_resources10.pdf (Links are not the same as the list) *Stomp your feet to remind yourself where you are. Press your feet firmly into the ground. *Try to notice where you are, your surroundings, including the people or the sounds around you, like the TV or radio. *Concentrate on your breathing. Take a deep, cleansing breath from your diaphragm. Count the breaths as you exhale. Make sure you breath slowly so you don’t hyperventilate. *Cross your legs and arms. Feel the sensations of you controlling your body. *Call a friend and ask them to talk to you about something you have recently done together. *Take a warm, relaxing bubble bath or a warm shower. Feel the water touching your body. *Find your pulse on your wrist and count the beats per minute. *Concentrate on feeling the blood pulse throughout your body. *Go outside and sit against a tree. Feel the bark pressing against your body. Smell the outside aromas like the grass and the leaves. Run your fingers through the grass. *If you are sitting, stand. If you are standing, sit. Pay attention to the movement change. Reminding yourself, you are in control. *Rub your palms, clap your hands. Listen to the sounds. Feel the sensation. *Speak out loud. *Hold something that you find comforting. For some it may be a stuffed animal or blanket. Notice how it feels in your hands. *Eat something. How does it taste? Sweet or sour? Is it warm or cold? *If you have a pet, pat them and feel their fur beneath your hand. Say the pet’s name out loud. *Go to a mirror and make yourself smile. Watch your reflection as your expression changes. How does it make you feel? *Visualize a bright red STOP sign, to help you stop the flashback and/or memory. *Step outside. If it is warm, feel the sun shining down on your face. If it is cold, feel the breeze. How does it make your body feel? *During a non-crisis time, make a list of things that are in your house and what room they are in. Give this list to friends that you can call so they can remind you what is around you. *During a non-crisis time make a list of positive affirmations. Print them out and keep them handy for when you are having a flashback. *Read the list out loud. *Take a walk outside and notice what is there. Pay attention to houses and count them. *Listen to familiar music and sing along to it. Dance to it. *Make a list of known triggers and give it to your counselor Ask them if they can help you find a way to desensitize those triggers so they aren’t quite so powerful. *Write in your journal. *Imagine yourself in a safe place. Feel the safety and know it. *Watch a favorite TV program or video. Play a video game. *Meditate, if you are comfortable doing it. *Exercise. Ride a bike, lift weights or go for a walk.
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