I’m currently in a great long relationship and a lot of people have come to me about their relationship problems. I thought I'd just write this down here for those who talked to me. Don’t really care if anyone else reads this.
I’m sick of hearing that someone cheated on someone, or someone has been cheated on... I, myself have been cheated on and it sucks balls.
So don’t cheat. The concept is simple. Think of cheating on someone being the same as raping someone. You should never do both...ever. Just because you’re intoxicated, doesn’t allow you to rape someone...Oh no no no, you’d be thrown in jail for that. The same goes for cheating. You won’t be thrown in jail for it, but you’d be forever a jackass so just don’t do it.
I often hear stories of people having trust issues with their significant others when they themselves have cheating on someone else in the past. The beauty of natural selection is that we, humans, don’t really care if something bad happens unless it either happens to us directly or we are somehow affiliated with the person it happens to. Well my message to you is stop it! Don’t do something you wouldn’t want done to you.
For those of you who ask me what about the grey area situations? To make things simple, I like to replace the people in each situation with more important people, like my parents, or the President’s family, or even the royal family...etc. When you use important people, it tends to blow things into perspective and usually you can figure out if your grey area is actually wrong or not. I also wanted to note that in my experience, if you have to ask then you’re probably in the wrong.
If you find yourself about to cheat, (first off, tiss tiss, because you shouldn’t find yourself in this situation in the first place) but if you do find yourself in this position, at least have the decency to break up with your significant other first. In my honest opinion, even a bad break up text is better than a cheater. (It’s also imho that if your significant other is in this position then you deserve wayyyyy better.)
Don’t be in a relationship if you cannot reciprocate trust. Trust and communication is the key ingredients to a happy relationship. Not just with your significant other but in every relationship you have in life (family/friends).
Anyways, I have to get back to studying but I just wanted to get out this really simple message: Don’t be a fucker and Don’t cheat...ever
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