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@jessietheginger

28 • she/her • Bi ☆ hi, I'm Jessie ☆ I'm an adorable chubby, bubbly red head with a big heart ☆ I'm a huge dork and like pretty much anything • if you made it to the bottom of this description then 🖤 welcome to the Dork Side 🖤 we have pizza and video games and movie nights on friday •

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yamujiburo

James doesn't know that they're retiring from the anime yet

azzehkarla

onlinecounsellingcollege

“Strength comes from your struggle - when you learn to see your struggle as opportunities to become stronger, better, wiser. Then your thinking shifts from “I can’t do this” to “I must do this.””

— Toni Sorenson

onlinecounsellingcollege

The Truth About Life …

1. Things never go according to plan

2. You’ll always meet with unexpected obstacles

3. Not everyone will like you, or want to be your friend

4. We all lose motivation and want to ditch our dreams

5. Success is transitory; the happiness will pass

6. We all get disappointed and let down by our friends

7. Attitude is everything; we choose how to react

8. There’s always something good, if we will only look for it

9. There are those who “play it forward”, and who’re helpful, warm and kind

10. Life is full of chances, new beginnings and fresh starts.

catchymemes

smolmeg

wake up babe new jesus just dropped

bizarrobrain

“Love your enemies! For they are tasty! Prey on those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his waters to both the evil and the good, and he sends storms on the just and the unjust alike.”

no-longer-another-bondi-blonde

A family of cheetahs sleep with the forest guard every night. When the Forest Dept. heard about it, they decided to check the veracity of the claim by installing a CCTV camera. This is what the camera recorded! Just amazing.

Kitties will be kitties 🐈‍⬛

awfulsquad

its saturday rb saturday shorts (x)

exitwound

hatsanddragons

I've actually seen the update to this post. The two talked it out and she brought up her concerns not only for him spending nearly all his time digging, but also concerns about his safety while digging (gasses, the tunnel collapsing). He hadn't realized he had been spending so much time in the tunnel and hadn't thought about the possible risks. So what does he do?

He starts making time for his partner, and also starts looking into stuff to make the digging a safer thing to do. He doesn't stop digging, but he limits how much of it he's doing so it isn't consuming all of his time.

I was so happy to see that the two of them talked it out like adult. That's something that rarely happens on the internet.

nottodaycia

Mole Instinct

bogleech

Much respect for the fact that she's comfortable with his fossorial lifestyle as long as his habitat is structurally sound and he's still getting healthy social enrichment.

sleepy-bebby

“You’re not for the streets Pricilla.”

buttercup-gamer

Absolutely

skunkes

95wonder

No. I know this is probably just a casual commiseration but I think it's a real and important question to ask and answer. If doing the stuff you're expected to do everyday is super hard, then something is probably wrong.

Anyone who relates to this too hard, I'd recommend looking up spoon theory and starting to make a record of how you feel and your experiences that you can bring up with some kind of health professional. Chances are if doing laundry feels like climbing everest, it's because you're disabled in some way. Whether that disability is some invisible chronic illness or depression or ADHD or burnout, *something* is wrong.

Almost all disabilities have some form of treatment or accommodation that can make your life easier. If you can get a diagnosis, you might also be eligible for official accommodations and benefits. Social security sucks ass and is almost impossible to access but like, it's not the only thing out there set up to help disabled folks and usually local organizations are gonna be better anyway.

Plenty of people reblogging this probably already know they're disabled in some way but if even 1 person sees this and can learn something important about themselves then it's worth saying.

TLDR: people who aren't disabled don't find acts of daily living extremely hard. Maybe look into that and see if you can get help making your life less hard.

Sincerely, a multiply disabled person.

utopianoverlord

Quarry counselors: What’s that noise? Could be bears. But I thought we had no bears out here? Still, must be bears. Oh shit did you see what attacked you? I think it was a bear. What’s crawling on the roof? Probably a bear. Who cut the phone line? I dunno, bear maybe? And the power? Gotta be a b Me, on my last surviving nerve:

nb-nightwing-deactivated2022111

they posted a full version lol it's mr Stacy's dad for me

mysharona1987

This is why fat shaming can have tragic consequences.

spitegoblin

If this sort of weight-based medical bias happens to any of y'all, politely tell the doctor (during your visit) that you want them to write in your file that they are refusing ordering tests for you because of your current weight. This usually causes them to order the test anyways because they do NOT want a malpractice suit. Remember: You want to make a paper trail to hold them accountable.