๐ฟ๐ด๐๐๐พ๐ฝ๐ฐ๐ป๐ธ๐๐ ย | ย ๊ฐ์ฑ ( character development 001. )
NINE PROMINENT TRAITS
Reticent: not revealing one's thoughts or feelings readily.
Hesitant: tentative, unsure, or slow in acting or speaking.
Perceptive: having or showing sensitive insight.
Benevolent: well meaning and kindly.
Repressed: characterized by the repression of thoughts or desires.
Ambitious: having or showing a strong desire and determination to succeed.
Adroit: clever or skilful.
Energetic: showing or involving great activity or vitality.
Affable: friendly, good-natured, or easy to talk to.
JUNGโS THEORY:ย INFP: THE DREAMER
INFPs are introspective, private, creative and highly idealistic individuals that have a constant desire to be on a meaningful path. They are driven by their values and seek peace. Empathetic and compassionate, they want to help others and humanity as a whole. INFPs are imaginative, artistic and often have a talent for language and writing. They can also be described as easygoing, selfless, guarded, adaptable, patient and loyal.
STRENGTHS
Warmly concerned and caring towards others.
Sensitive and perceptive about what others are feeling.
Loyal and committed - they want lifelong relationships.
Deep capacity for love and caring.
Driven to meet otherโs needs.
Strive for โwin-winโ situations.
Nurturing, supportive and encouraging.
Likely to recognise and appreciate otherโs need for space.
Able to express themselves well.
Flexible and diverse.
WEAKNESSES
Donโt like to have their โspaceโ invaded.
Extreme dislike of conflict and criticism.
Strong need to receive praise and positive affirmation.
May react rather emotionally to stressful situations.
Have difficulty leaving a bad relationship.
Have difficulty scolding or punishing others.
Tend to be reserved about expressing their feelings.
Perfectionistic tendencies may cause them to not give themselves enough credit.
Tendency to blame themselves for problems, and hold everything on their own shoulders.
MORAL ALINGMENT NEUTRAL GOOD
A neutral good character does the best that a good person can do. He is devoted to helping others. He works with kings and magistrates but does not feel beholden to them.
A neutral good character will keep his word to those who are not evil and will lie only to evil-doers. He will never attack an unarmed foe and will never harm an innocent. He will not use torture to extract information or for pleasure. He will never kill for pleasure, only in self-defense or in the defense of others. A neutral good character will never use poison. He will help those in need and works well alone or in a group. He responds well to higher authority until that authority attempts to use the law to hamper his ability to do good. He is trustful of organizations as long as they serve his utilitarian purpose. He will follow the law unless more good can come from breaking the law. He will never betray a family member, comrade, or friend. Neutral good characters are indifferent to the concepts of self-discipline and honor, finding them useful only if they promote goodness.
Neutral good is the philosophy that goodness should be advanced by using whatever means provide the most benefit. It is a philosophy of altruistic consequentialism. This philosophy holds that people should behave altruistically and balance the needs of the collective as a whole and the needs of the individuals making up the collective. Neutral good can also be associated with act utilitarianism and ethical altruism.
ENNEAGRAM:ย TYPE SIX: THE LOYALIST โย WINGED BY SEVENย โย SELF-PRESERVATION
QUICK OVERVIEW
BASIC FEAR: of being abandoned.
BASIC DESIRE: to have security.
THE HEAD CENTRE: moves away from others - out of touch with the centre.
ORIGINAL LOSS: "i was too rebellious.โ
DECISION: being obedient and loyal allows you to survive and be loved.
SELF-IMAGE: "i am faithful and responsible.โ
COMPULSION: to establish security by obeying the rules.
VICE: sloth in self-reliance.
VIRTUE: courage.
HIDDEN COMPLAINT: i am dependable and i follow orders, although other people donโt.
KEY MOTIVATIONS
Want to have security, to feel supported by others, to have certitude and reassurance, to test the attitudes of others toward them, to fight against anxiety and insecurity.
โ ย WINGED BY SEVEN: THE BUDDY
Sixes with a Seven wing are generally outgoing and may appear more overtly nervous. More plainly want to be liked and will pursue others in contrast to Five wing who pulls in. Can be charming, sociable, ingratiating. Have a faster tempo, stronger connection to Three. Often self-preservation subtypes, characterized by a personal warmth. Can have a cheerful, forward-looking drive and be disarmingly funny. Self-effacing, gracious and curious. When more entranced, may be self-contradicting and seem as if they want two things at once. Sometimes test others overtly, drive you crazy with mixed messages. It may be hard to follow what theyโre saying. When threatened, one defense is to become impossible to please. When counterphobic, they tend to be accusative. Some get caught up in big plans that they hope will result in material security. Also can be insecure, irritable, petty, irrational, chaotic. Subject to mood swings, inferiority complexes, runaway fears. May have hair-trigger flare-ups of paranoia. Falsely accuse others and then seem not to realize it. Other times they plead to be taken care of. Sometimes defensively conservative in their lifestyle. Some struggle with appetite.
โ SELF-PRESERVATION (SP)
Self-preservation Sixes often display a personal warmth that is meant to defang the potential hostility of others. If they sense aggression or disapproval in the environment, they may counterphobically zero in on it. Use humour, charm, self-depreciation to make friends out of possible enemies. Can flatter like Twos, play themselves down, work to maintain other peopleโs affection. Act vulnerable, invite rescue. Ingratiating, but more nervously dependent than other Six subtypes. Also less in touch with their own hostility. Their home environment is sometimes important. May feel like their house is a fortress against the outside worldโs dangers. Worry about their ability to survive; have scary โworst-that-can-happenโ fantasies
FOUR TEMPERAMENTS PHLEGMATIC
STRENGTHSย
Calm, humble, discreet, flexible will of steel (flexible steel), thoughtful, patient, modest, a real sweetheart, accommodating, steady-paced, sympathetic, perceptive, faith in morality, very compassionate, assuming innocent until proven guilty, a good listener, open-minded, considerate, and empathetic to all
In common with melancholic: Polite, reserved, gentle, ethical to a fault, dependable, mysterious, quiet and stealthy, a deep poker face
In common with sanguine: Pleasant, forgiving, witty, easygoing, idealistic endurer, emotionally available, a good sense of humour, good with relationships.
WEAKNESSESย
Indifferent, submissive, lazy, slow, shy and passive, slacker, indecisive and too yielding.
In common with melancholic: Timid and docile, scared of sudden change, stubborn (about certain things), easily embarrassed.
In common with sanguine: teasing, too compromising, forgetful, unable to find what's wrong.
STAR SIGN PISCES
Neptune signs, Pisceans have the tendency to be chameleons, to โmatch energiesโ with others, or become what others expect or want them to be. ย This enables them to blend in anywhere they want to. ย A Piscean can be the life of the party or fade into the woodwork, as they choose, and may appear very differently to others from one meeting to another.
PATRONUS RACCOON
Curiosity, secrecy, adaptability. Raccoon people have a tendency to be defensive, on-guard, ambiguous, and aloof. They can also be charismatic, involved, and unpredictable. Raccoon medicine is integrated with the idea of having the right 'mask' for any situation, and taking control over change. Raccoon is a symbol of disguise, transformation, and open-mindedness.
Jay is a boy with many secrets and many masks, he changes easily and can adapt to situations how he deems fit, having the ability to understand the person heโs talking with and giving them what they needs. Once heโs comfortable with the person and the side of himself that heโs shoving, he blooms, friendly and open-minded, enjoying the time he spends with that person.
BOGGART His white lies and past doings coming to haunt him in the form of; people he loves ( his fathers and close friends ), dying in front of him.
His biggest fear comes in the shape of his fathers getting dragged out of their home, a big fight follows, glass shards everywhere, droplets of blood marring the faces of the people he loves as theyโre dragged away, itโs not just his family but every single people he ever cared about, looking at Jay accusatorially. What theyโre thinking is crystal clear in their eyes โ โitโs your fault, itโs all your faultโ. No matter what he does, as he trashes and tries to reach them, they get farther away, a dark hand crawling around their throats, leaving them breathless. Itโs Jayโs biggest fear, that all he has done, all the white lies he ever told will harm the ones he cares about, and bring them their demise โ while he just stands there and watches.
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