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Please also DNI if you primarily selfship:
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀① With Johnny Joestar.
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀② With Gyro Zeppeli.
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀③ With Diego Brando.
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀④ With Funny Valentine.
JOHNNY WOULD HATE YOU GYRO WOULD HATE YOU VALENTINE WOULD HATE YOU ALL OF THEM HATE YOU
tw// rape mention, CSA mention, pregnancy mention Steel Ball Run spoilers (if you care or somehow don't know)
Being obsessed with that color because of your F/O, buying and hoarding things with the color because you look at it and it fills your mind with them.
Imagine your F/O relying on you.
Imagine your F/O needing your help when they have a hard task. Maybe for them it's doing something strenuous like moving furniture or doing roofing. Maybe for them it's getting the house clean, or washing the pets. Maybe for them it's clearing a video game level or getting their clothes on in the morning.
Imagine your F/O giving you control of their finances and possessions, knowing it'll all be safe with you.
Imagine your F/O looking to you for protection, emotional or physical. You're strong, body and mind, and they know they can trust you.
Imagine you're the first person your F/O turns to when there's a problem, because you're the very first person they can say they 100% trust.
Imagine your F/O relying on you.
Selfshippers who have F/Os from a franchise that they haven't watched/read/etc and ESPECIALLY if they have no interest in getting into it: you guys are braver than the US Marines.
Selfship spaces, even in the current year, seem to stagnate to the 'default' of thin white person. It's jarring how, for example, a fat person will note the rising fatphobia growing in the world, and seek comfort with their F/Os, only to find all the imagines and fic and art to be thin.
It's always language that denotes thinness and whiteness in fanfiction and imagines. It's always "visible jawline", "prominent collarbones", "thin fingers", "dainty legs". It's always "carded fingers through your hair", "the pink hue of your cheeks", "button nose".
That isn't to say these don't have a place in selfship spaces. Everyone is welcome regardless of gender, race, and everything else. But thin white folk are so used to being the default, to being the only thing worth thinking about, that they don't even pay any mind to the fact their disadvantaged kin are struggling with real life oppression, and go about their day. Some will never acknowledge it, and some will acknowledge it and degrade other selfshippers for that struggle.
When you have the privilege of being the standard in real life, you forget that there are people who are mistreated because they aren't you.
So for all the fat selfshippers, the black selfshippers: You matter. You deserve fat-centric selfship spaces, you deserve black-centric selfship spaces, you deserve to have both at the same time.
It isn't "cringe", it isn't "annoying", and it isn't "entitled" to want selfship spaces to include you. You deserve to be included.
The warmth that comes from your F/O. It soothes you, calms your soul more than any possible flame on the planet. It blankets you, holds you, and it's touch has your eyelids slowly drooping.
Perhaps you ache. Perhaps it's your joints and ligaments, sore from making it though the day. Perhaps it's your mind, frazzled and always talkative. But in the face of your F/O, against all odds, that warmth is all you need to soothe the ache. Like a balm, it washes over the twinge of your body, the incessant pangs of your mind, and leaves behind a pleasing glow under your skin.
Maybe tomorrow will be a big day for you. Maybe you'll drive for the first time, or go looking for places to rent, or go pick up a new pet for the family from someone off Craigslist. Maybe you have college to get up for, maybe you have the same old eight hour shift of work to power through. Maybe, you won't do anything, but lay in bed. But yet again, the warmth of your F/O, it's what drives you, isn't it? Is it what fuels you, keeps your head held high, when everyone least expects it?
Consider for a moment, a world in which everything was calm. There is no pain, sickness, responsibility. All there is, is you and your F/O, curled into eachother, the closeness tuning everything out. Can you hear them breathe? Can you feel a heartbeat? Do their light exhales brush warm air against your skin? Whatever it is you experience, you're there with them, safe. Safe, and as you realize the tranquility that surrounds you: warm.
Have you thought about it yet? It's a beautiful world, isn't it?
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omg legitimately- thank you so much for that “self shipping was made by profics” post- i very recently fell in love with my f/o and its my first time ever and im looking for some community but every single selfship gimmick blog i come across is so violently antiship that it kinda makes me feel bad for being a selfshipper (even tho i can’t control how i feel about him either way-) but your post was such a relief to see. it’s so true. sorry if this is a weird ask to receive i just wanted to thank you sjsjsjsjjs it really does mean a lot
I'm glad to hear I helped anon!! You're always welcome in this community ❤❤❗
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Friendly reminder that profic folk MADE selfship spaces! These spaces were made for us by us! Antis are unfortunately infesting every corner of the internet if you speak English, but even though they're trying to push us out of our spaces, the fact is antis can't selfship like we do!
No matter how hard antis try to force us out of what we made, not only were we here first, but we're the only ones who can make any use of these spaces at all!
New Blog for stimboards, moodboards, etc!
@brandokisser!! Please go follow there and maybe make requests!
Shoutout to selfshippers with F/Os that are considered "ugly" by white eurocentric beauty standards.
F/Os who have acne or acne scars, be they facial or body.
F/Os who have large noses, no matter the angle or width.
F/Os who are fat, with double chins, hidden collar bones and flabby arms.
F/Os who are black or brown, with darker skin and thicker, coarser hair.
F/Os who are visibly older, with wrinkles and skin sagging.
F/Os who are disabled, needing a wheelchair, cane, or other item for their disability.
F/Os who have "bad" hair, or no hair at all.
F/Os who have bad teeth, be they yellowed or beginning to rot.
And even more.
Your taste in fictional lovers is beautiful, no matter how that character looks. Just because others can't find the beauty you see in them doesn't mean that they aren't gorgeous. People just don't get them like you do.
By the way!! It's completely acceptable to have a unique, personal, and very important relationship with your F/O(s) because of neurodivergency! It's completely okay to find something deeper in your selfship because of autism, OCD, BPD, anxiety, etc!
You aren't "bad", "crazy", or "cringe" for investing a lot of emotional time into your selfships - your relationships are important to you, and that's beautiful.
if i may inquire where did u buy the part 7 plushes…
I think from cosmini_studio or cosmile_time on eBay! Iirc Diego was the hardest to find, and Johnny is most common to find anywhere. Though I think you could probably find them all on AliExpress as well.
Cosmile also has these really cute Johnny and Gyro 20 cms I had PO'd back on the day.. idk if they're still available though but both studios have good JoJo stuff!
love the little johnny plushes in your dni banners hes so Shape. hes jsut a little grub.
THANK YOU AND BEAN JOHNNY REALLY IS JUST A SMALL SLUG IN REAL LIFE TOO!! so is valentine and diego bean see here's the proof :333
By the way, selfshippers with "unattractive" noses - your F/Os think your nose is adorable!!
Your nose is beautiful how it is! Be it Roman, Greek, bulbous, fleshy, funnel, aquiline, etc! Not every nose is a conventionally attractive button nose, and that's beautiful!
Your F/O likes how your nose's bridge feels when they kiss it, they like how it frames your face, they like how it perhaps speaks so strongly of your ancestry, they like how you look with it. And they don't think you need to change at all.
